My BF is open minded and he claims that being penetrated anally feels good to him, but he doesn't like to do it because it makes his cock limp. If it feels good, I don't understand why he loses his erection. But, any time we use a plug or dildo on him, his cock goes limp. What's going on here? Or is he lying and anal is really not the pleasurable to him?
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12/12/2012
An erection isn't an indicator of pleasure on any level. A man can be rock hard and not be enjoying anything you're doing to him and he can be completely soft and be going out of his mind with pleasure.
In this case, the anal stimulation is taking focus away from the penis so there's no reason for the tissue to remain erect until he gets ready to orgasm.
In this case, the anal stimulation is taking focus away from the penis so there's no reason for the tissue to remain erect until he gets ready to orgasm.
12/12/2012
I have found sometime a toy over stimulates my prostate and I lose my erection (but I can still climax)
12/12/2012
Don't worry about erections during anal play. They can come and go, and it doesn't change the feelings. I'm not sure why it is an issue for your BF, but if he wants anal play and to remain hard mixing in a bit of penis play can help.
12/12/2012
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Well said Stormy, I cannot even add to your comment.
Originally posted by
Ansley
An erection isn't an indicator of pleasure on any level. A man can be rock hard and not be enjoying anything you're doing to him and he can be completely soft and be going out of his mind with pleasure.
In this case, the anal ... more
In this case, the anal ... more
An erection isn't an indicator of pleasure on any level. A man can be rock hard and not be enjoying anything you're doing to him and he can be completely soft and be going out of his mind with pleasure.
In this case, the anal stimulation is taking focus away from the penis so there's no reason for the tissue to remain erect until he gets ready to orgasm. less
In this case, the anal stimulation is taking focus away from the penis so there's no reason for the tissue to remain erect until he gets ready to orgasm. less
12/12/2012
It all depends. Sometimes I am super hard, sometimes nothing.
I have a feeling Stormy gave the BEST answer for this.
I have a feeling Stormy gave the BEST answer for this.
12/12/2012
not a thing at all that i can add. Stormy rocks...
12/12/2012
I have been hard everytime my wife and I play like that.
12/12/2012
Your boyfriend is not lying. It has all got to do with his pelvic-floor muscle (the one you uses to prevent peeing when contracting): when you relax your anal sphincters you have to relax your pelvic-floor muscles -> less erection. When you contract your pelvic-muscles, the erection gets stronger (less anal relaxing). However..an erection with a buttplug is trainable, just takes time (pilates could be beneficial haha)
12/13/2012
I had this experience early on, but not anymore. It actually makes mine stronger now. It's not abnormal though. Don't worry.
12/13/2012
no, i stay very hard
12/13/2012
I have varying results that range from completely limp to completely hard.
12/13/2012
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I have the same: last saturday, the 1st hour it was limb. Butt somehow after that I had such a strong erection it was unbelievable and I was for almost an 1hr on the verge of exploding (without even touch it, just pure P-stimulation, stretch etc.)
Originally posted by
Bill220
I have varying results that range from completely limp to completely hard.
12/18/2012
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theres no correlation. if he says he likes it then he'll keep doing it. he has nothing to gain from lying.
Originally posted by
CarrieCatt
My BF is open minded and he claims that being penetrated anally feels good to him, but he doesn't like to do it because it makes his cock limp. If it feels good, I don't understand why he loses his erection. But, any time we use a plug or
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My BF is open minded and he claims that being penetrated anally feels good to him, but he doesn't like to do it because it makes his cock limp. If it feels good, I don't understand why he loses his erection. But, any time we use a plug or dildo on him, his cock goes limp. What's going on here? Or is he lying and anal is really not the pleasurable to him?
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02/28/2013
No if anything it makes me stay harder longer.
04/03/2013
Cazmobi
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I'm not sure how common this is but I have the same issue. I love how anal penetration, prostate massage and plugs feel but can not hold an erection. Even though I do get frustrated I concentrate on the pleasure of the anal play and less on the limp penis.
Originally posted by
CarrieCatt
My BF is open minded and he claims that being penetrated anally feels good to him, but he doesn't like to do it because it makes his cock limp. If it feels good, I don't understand why he loses his erection. But, any time we use a plug or
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My BF is open minded and he claims that being penetrated anally feels good to him, but he doesn't like to do it because it makes his cock limp. If it feels good, I don't understand why he loses his erection. But, any time we use a plug or dildo on him, his cock goes limp. What's going on here? Or is he lying and anal is really not the pleasurable to him?
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10/14/2021
I have not experienced any problems. I have the best of both worlds - a rock hard cock while being fucked in the ass!
10/14/2021
I’m a bi-guy and have topped several fellows who orgasmed hands free with flaccid members while I was fucking them. A few other individuals I've been intimate with had hard cocks but couldn’t cum until I gave them a hand job while my cock was in them. In other words everyone is unique.
10/14/2021
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Go to a specialist doctor, maybe your boyfriend should give up such games altogether.
Originally posted by
CarrieCatt
My BF is open minded and he claims that being penetrated anally feels good to him, but he doesn't like to do it because it makes his cock limp. If it feels good, I don't understand why he loses his erection. But, any time we use a plug or
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more
My BF is open minded and he claims that being penetrated anally feels good to him, but he doesn't like to do it because it makes his cock limp. If it feels good, I don't understand why he loses his erection. But, any time we use a plug or dildo on him, his cock goes limp. What's going on here? Or is he lying and anal is really not the pleasurable to him?
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10/15/2021
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Mmm sounds nice ! I also stay limp while riding dildos , if I stroke it hard I can keep it hard ! I can bang my ass and have anal orgasms and then Cum hard all over! I would like to try a hard Cock in my ass soon !!
Originally posted by
RonLee
I’m a bi-guy and have topped several fellows who orgasmed hands free with flaccid members while I was fucking them. A few other individuals I've been intimate with had hard cocks but couldn’t cum until I gave them a hand job while my cock was in
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more
I’m a bi-guy and have topped several fellows who orgasmed hands free with flaccid members while I was fucking them. A few other individuals I've been intimate with had hard cocks but couldn’t cum until I gave them a hand job while my cock was in them. In other words everyone is unique.
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10/25/2021
Nope..
12/07/2021
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If you do experiment with male on male sex, please Safety First.
Originally posted by
Smooth69
Mmm sounds nice ! I also stay limp while riding dildos , if I stroke it hard I can keep it hard ! I can bang my ass and have anal orgasms and then Cum hard all over! I would like to try a hard Cock in my ass soon !!
I mean your physical safety, there are still homophobic individuals who would love to injure us so be careful. As well as stay safe from STDs. Some are easy to stay safe from, others not so easy.
I will tell you that the real thing feels far better than a toy, at least if it's with someone who knows how to use it... not all Tops, actually in my experience very few tops either know how or care, to give the receptive partner a good time.
Good Luck!
12/07/2021
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Originally posted by
SoloRebel
Nope..
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