Help me decide which silicone plug for extended wear

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spiced 01/12/2013

I posted another discussion a few weeks back, but I've done some research since then and feel I have a better general idea of what I want. But I don't have any experience with long-term wear, so I need your help!

This is a three-part comparison: 1) which have you used; 2) which would you recommend; and 3) which would you NOT recommend.

Please feel free to suggest others. I am looking for something in the 1 1/2" range that's comfortable to wear for an hour or more. Thanks, Edenites! :)

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Discussion Topics

Which of these plugs have you tried? (33 posts)

Which of these plugs would you recommend for extended wear? (9 posts)

Which of these plugs would you NOT recommend for extended wear? (10 posts)

spiced

Which of these plugs have you tried?

Check all that apply...

Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):

The screw (Black / Blue)

Ryder (Black)

Love pacifier advanced (Black)

Boosty (Black)

Twist (Black)

Infinity plug royal (Black)

Other (please leave a comment)

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Total votes: 81 (63 voters)

Poll is open

01/12/2013

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Bill220

Although I've never tried it, the Twist looks like it has a nicely shaped base. The base is really important when it comes to comfort.

01/12/2013

subbieforHer

I've had lots of experience with long-term, extended wear using the Tantus Ryder butt plug and would highly recommend getting one!

My Mistress has me wear a butt plug every single day while away at work (so about 9-10 hours by the time I get home). The Ryder's base is meant to stay comfortable against the wearer's cheeks while still performing its job of keeping the plug from going all the way in.

Out of all of the plugs in our toybox, the Ryder is the most comfortable one for extended use.

While I have not personally used the Love Pacifier, I have used similarly shaped butt plugs and could imagine that it would also be wonderful for long-term plug wear.

01/12/2013

damnbul12

Quote:

Originally posted by spiced

Which of these plugs have you tried?

Check all that apply...

Ryder

01/12/2013

inkky

Ryder, Boosty, Or Love Pacifier.

01/12/2013

WhoopieDoo

Booster looks good for long term

01/12/2013

Terri69

Love pacifier

01/12/2013

Incendiaire

I have the Twist.

01/12/2013

Falsepast

I've tried Ryder

01/12/2013

Aishiteru

Ryder or love pacifier, but I haven't tried them.

01/12/2013

haley730

Ryder is pretty good.

01/12/2013

ShadowedSeductress

I'd go with the Ryder or the love pacifier.

01/12/2013

Boyfriend

Ryder

01/13/2013

spiced

Quote:

Originally posted by subbieforHer

I think I'll try the Ryder first, based largely on your experience, and I'll probably try the Love Pacifier (or its steel twin, the Njoy Pure) later.

Thanks for sharing your extensive experience--your life sounds...intense!

01/13/2013

Creepellah

Quote:

Originally posted by spiced

Which of these plugs have you tried?

Check all that apply...

I've never tried a plug.

01/13/2013

nickeyt

i have never worn one for long but the love pacifier looks like one to try first

01/16/2013

LavenderSkies

Quote:

Originally posted by spiced

Which of these plugs have you tried?

Check all that apply...

Go with Ryder.

01/17/2013

spiced

Thanks for all the help, everybody! I just received my Ryder and I'm looking forward to trying it as soon as I can. I will post my experience here, in case anyone's interested.

01/17/2013

spiced

In case anyone cares, the Ryder is GREAT. I wore it yesterday for over 90 minutes and it was very comfortable. I'm so glad I asked you guys!

01/21/2013

BlooJay

Now I'm curious about the Ryder.

01/22/2013

GirlOnGirl

I have the love pacifier but it's much smaller than I had thought it be. I'm guessing a lot of people will find its size lacking so I'd pick something besides that one.

01/22/2013

1001 Pleasures

The Ryder would be the one I'd go with. It looks thick enough to give you a good experience, with a nice base on it.

01/22/2013

Meido

Never tried the Love pacifier but I like it the best out of the others.

01/22/2013

Apirka

The Love Pacifier.

01/23/2013

Stagger13

Quote:

Originally posted by spiced

Which of these plugs have you tried?

Check all that apply...

Ryder would be a good option.

01/24/2013

Two Grand

Love Pacifier Begineer is the same size as the Njoy Pure Plug medium and the Love Pacifier Advanced is the same size as the Pure Plug Large, and both are silicone,are comfortable for long term wear very, presently I have a Love Pacifier inserted now for 5 hours and it feels good. Once inserted it stays put and with a little contraction it moves.

01/24/2013

souviet

Quote:

Originally posted by spiced

Which of these plugs have you tried?

Check all that apply...

love pacifier.

01/25/2013

jive.9

Bootsy!

03/24/2013

joiedejouets

The Ryder is supposed to be great.

04/05/2013

Hallmar82

I've tried several silicone plugs, most have about the same shape.

05/02/2013

alliegator

I've worn the Ryder for long periods of time and it remains comfortable.

05/03/2013

LoneOokami

The ryder looks like the best option

05/22/2013

geliebt

I have the Ryder and find it quite nice Not too big, VERY comfortable shape!

05/22/2013

Total posts: 33 Unique posters: 30

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spiced

In your opinion, which one of these plugs would be the BEST for extended wear?

I'm looking for something which will be comfortable for an hour or more (or possibly several hours). Feel free to share your experience with any of these or others you've tried.

Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):

The screw (Black / Blue)

Ryder (Black)

15 (54%)

Love pacifier advanced (Black)

3 (11%)

Boosty (Black)

7 (25%)

Twist (Black)

Infinity plug royal (Black)

2 (7%)

Other (comment please)

1 (4%)

Vote

Total votes: 28

Poll is open

01/12/2013

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Two Grand

The Love Pacifier Advanced Just fits me, I have no fear of it falling out. This plug just stays put, the Ryder get a little uncomfortable after a while because of its thickness, The Love Pacifier is really comfortable for long term wear, but what I really like is when you remove it you get a "pop" which means it cuddles you butt. I have one inserted now and it been in place for about 45 minutes.

01/12/2013

Terri69

Love pacifier

01/12/2013

Incendiaire

The Ryder would probably work well.

01/12/2013

Falsepast

The Ryder was ok for extended wear

01/12/2013

Girly Juice

The Ryder is the most comfortable silicone plug I've found for long-term wear. The Boosty's not bad either.

01/17/2013

spiced

Quote:

Originally posted by Girly Juice

The Ryder is the most comfortable silicone plug I've found for long-term wear. The Boosty's not bad either.

How long have you worn your Ryder? What lube(s) have you tried and liked??

01/17/2013

chicmichiw

Boosty! Great shape

01/17/2013

Stagger13

Quote:

Originally posted by spiced

Ryder-as long as its comfortable for you.

01/24/2013

Total posts: 9 Unique posters: 8

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spiced

Have you tried any of these for extended wear and NOT liked it? Check all that apply...

Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):

The screw (Black / Blue)

Ryder (Black)

Love pacifier advanced (Black)

Boosty (Black)

Twist (Black)

Infinity plug royal (Black)

Other (comment please)

Vote

Total votes: 31 (25 voters)

Poll is open

01/12/2013

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Suisei

Ah, you've got some nice choices in your comparison. I've only tried the Ryder and the Boosty, myself, and they're both amazing for long-term wear.

The Boosty comes out on top, in my experience. The base is very comfortable and the bulbs are very stimulating. It's also versatile, since you can turn the bulbs towards the front or the back. Even as a lover of larger toys, the Boosty delivers because of its shape.

However, my favourite plug is the Njoy Pure Plug Large. The Love Pacifier Advanced has a very similar shape, so I can see it being very comfortable, but it lacks the weight of stainless steel. My recommendation lies with the Boosty, but there are so many delightful options.

I wish you the best of luck!

01/12/2013

kitty1949

All of the Doc Johnson Mood Naughty plugs are wonderful. The come in sizes small, medium and large. I have the large and I love it.

01/12/2013

spiced

Quote:

Originally posted by Suisei

Thanks! Good to know I'm on the right track. I think I'm eventually going to try the Boosty, the Ryder and the Love Pacifier (unless I can persuade myself to indulge in the Njoy Pure).

Which do you think would be the best one to try FIRST?

01/13/2013

Suisei

Quote:

Originally posted by spiced

First? Well, if you aren't going to try the Njoy, I would suggest the Ryder. It's got the simplest design and is often very well priced.

That being said, I can't get over how comfortable the base of the Boosty is. I'm just concerned that you may find the shape to be harder to handle for longer periods of time. I'd suggest the Ryder as a good place to start if you've never done longer-term wear and are unsure of how sensitive you are.

01/13/2013

spiced

That's very helpful. Thanks again!

I haven't done anything more than 30 minutes (small glass plug) and I am unsure how sensitive I am. I'll try the Ryder first and if all goes well, then the Boosty and probably then the Njoy or Love Pacifier. I like having all these good, and different, options. Trying this kind of play is like entering a whole 'nother realm.

Now I just have to figure out which lube to use with the Ryder. Any suggestions?

01/13/2013

chicmichiw

That ring on the end of the pacifier probably wouldn't let you sit and might show under clothes

01/17/2013

souviet

Quote:

Originally posted by spiced

Have you tried any of these for extended wear and NOT liked it? Check all that apply...

Don't get the love pacifier. It's gonna stick out between the cheeks and show.

01/24/2013

Stagger13

Quote:

Originally posted by spiced

Have you tried any of these for extended wear and NOT liked it? Check all that apply...

The screw does not look like it would work for some in an extended scenario.

01/24/2013

BlooJay

The love pacifier because of the handle.

01/25/2013

Total posts: 10 Unique posters: 7

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