Have you/would you experiment with pegging?

Contributor: Unconventional Unconventional
I remember when my husband and I first started experimenting with prostate stimulation and it just makes me wonder where everyone else stands. It really opened up a whole new area of bedroom fun and I enjoy hearing about other people's experiences with it, especially the "first time" stories.
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10/16/2010
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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10/16/2010
Contributor: namelesschaos namelesschaos
I voted: "I have not, but I'd be willing to give it a shot." but that honestly an understatement I'm not just willing I really really want to be pegged.
10/16/2010
Contributor: Unconventional Unconventional
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Originally posted by namelesschaos
I voted: "I have not, but I'd be willing to give it a shot." but that honestly an understatement I'm not just willing I really really want to be pegged.
So did my husband, but his ex was so freaked out by the fact that he enjoyed the butt plug that he completely shut down any communication related to anal play. Once I broached the subject, he was delighted.

Though I must say, if one position doesn't work, don't give up! He is not fond of the traditional doggy style position, but we managed to find one that was relaxing, visually stimulating, and didn't make either of us tired.

It's great how a little communication can go such a long way.
10/16/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by Unconventional
So did my husband, but his ex was so freaked out by the fact that he enjoyed the butt plug that he completely shut down any communication related to anal play. Once I broached the subject, he was delighted.

Though I must say, if one ... more
Yes, you need to be willing to play with positioning and toy choices. Sometimes you even need to try out the dildo "upside-down".
10/16/2010
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
In the sense were she wears a strap-on, I have not but would. The wife does use a dildo on me quite a bit.
10/16/2010
Contributor: Unconventional Unconventional
I think I am most amused by the fact that no one has voted that they tried it and didn't like it.
10/17/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Odd there isn't a "tried it, didn't like it for another reason", although I guess if you didn't like it psychologically you would probably find the experience uncomfortable and awkward physically.
10/17/2010
Contributor: PussyGalore PussyGalore
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Originally posted by Unconventional
I remember when my husband and I first started experimenting with prostate stimulation and it just makes me wonder where everyone else stands. It really opened up a whole new area of bedroom fun and I enjoy hearing about other people's ... more
We love it. Currently trying to find the perfect toy for pegging. It's proven more difficult than we thought. Hint to manufacturers: thicker isn't always better. Less girly colors would be stellar also. *jumps off soapbox*
10/17/2010
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
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Originally posted by PussyGalore
We love it. Currently trying to find the perfect toy for pegging. It's proven more difficult than we thought. Hint to manufacturers: thicker isn't always better. Less girly colors would be stellar also. *jumps off soapbox*
Finding the perfect toy is half the fun.
10/18/2010
Contributor: Unconventional Unconventional
@Pussy Galore: The New comers strap-on kit by Sportsheets is pretty inexpensive and comes with a thinner dildo. It is purple, but it's dark and it's flashy. I like it, but I'm also the girl who doesn't like wearing something that looks like an actual penis.
10/18/2010
Contributor: Unconventional Unconventional
@ScottA: I did mean physically or mentally when I said uncomfortable and awkward. For us, it was great physically, but I still feel pretty silly wearing the thing, regardless of how much we enjoy it, lol.
10/18/2010
Contributor: beautifulpierced beautifulpierced
it was mentally awkward but physically we may get into it more. he seem to like it and if my mans happy im happy.
10/18/2010
Contributor: Kinkyquing Kinkyquing
Haven't yet, but I hope to peg someone someday.
10/24/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Pegging dildos (especially for beginners) occupy an interesting and sparse spot - thin (1-1/8" to 1-1/2" diameter) and long (5.5" insertable or more), generally nonrealistic.

The colors are an interesting phenomenon. I think that "girly" colors predominate because the woman is the one wearing the dildo. Really, most of the "boy color" dildos I can think of tend to be the more extreme sizes.
10/24/2010
Contributor: RosesThorns RosesThorns
I have done a VERY little bit of experimenting with Pegging and while I did enjoy my experience I am still a little shy/reserved about it due to it taking me out of my comfort zone as a submissive. It puts me in a very dominant position that I am rather unused to and that is oddly uncomfortable. But I do enjoy it.
10/27/2010
Contributor: Sexymami69 Sexymami69
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Originally posted by Unconventional
I remember when my husband and I first started experimenting with prostate stimulation and it just makes me wonder where everyone else stands. It really opened up a whole new area of bedroom fun and I enjoy hearing about other people's ... more
We both loved it, I was skeptical when he gave me the idea, but when I say how enthusiastic he was, we have not been able to stop.
10/31/2010
Contributor: leatherlover leatherlover
My wife pegged me once, but we prefer using our aneros toy and either her giving me oral or us having sex with it in.
10/31/2010
Contributor: ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
I really want to try this with my boyfriend, but he won't budge on the subject. The most he'll let me do with him anally is kind of rub the area during a blow job. Otherwise, he's kinda self conscious about cleanliness. Which I've told him I don't care about, but eh. Maybe he'll warm up to the idea someday. I really hope.
10/31/2010
Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
Who knows it could be fun. I've never received anal, but I've givin it to my fiance.(We are both women) She seemd to enjoy it, so I guess its my turn.
10/31/2010
Contributor: Twist Twist
Manual finger message from the girlfriend really rocks. Aneros never comes close to her messaging while giving a slow blowjob. She will actually tie me down and keep going as I get a super-o to the point that pleasure almost turns to pain.

She says its payback for when I do it to her However no strap-on...I was born with a pecker for a reason and it wasn't to take it.
11/15/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
We enjoy anal play - but have not approached the idea of pegging. At first I thought it would never happen - but as things progress - maybe we'll get there some day. I do think it would be fun to try - I've got a plan to make my girl a little more aggressive - if that works, pegging may be in my future!
11/15/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I totally enjoy strap-on and pegging. I esp. like it when my b/f chooses a harness for me and a dil to strap-on. I am so turned on when he does.
11/18/2010
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I've done it some with my husband, but he hasn't done it with me and I don't have an interest in it.
11/19/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
I've done it some with my husband, but he hasn't done it with me and I don't have an interest in it.
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Does this mean you've been the reciever in anal but not the giver?
11/21/2010
Contributor: Porfiriato Porfiriato
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Originally posted by Mr. E
Finding the perfect toy is half the fun.
Yep, it takes a bit of experimentation, but it's worth it!
12/02/2010
Contributor: dhig dhig
I'd do it if my lady wanted to, but she hasn't mentioned it so I'm alright.
12/03/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by dhig
I'd do it if my lady wanted to, but she hasn't mentioned it so I'm alright.
But would you mention it to her?
12/16/2010
Contributor: Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
I love pegging so much I have blog about it: link
12/25/2010
Contributor: Beaners Beaners
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Originally posted by Mr. & Mrs. Peg
I love pegging so much I have blog about it: link
I love it. My boyfriend and I will def be reading your blog now.

We also love pegging. Generally I'm comfortable as a sub in bed, but in life itself I'm a more dominant person. (Interesting how that works out, huh?) So sometimes it's nice to break out of that comfort zone. I'm comfortable enough with my boyfriend that if I end up making a fool out of myself attempting to be dominant (which I'm sure I did the first few times) he just tries to get me more into it. He's good at that.
12/29/2010