Hello everybody. I have just been getting into anal and have been very curious. Recently I have been thinking about buying my first butt plug but I don't know what size/type to get. I am just afraid that I will start too small and it will be a slight waste of money (plus I am kind of short on money currently). What would be the best diameter for my situation? (Oh and I want to try extended wear/daily wear eventually as well) I have probably explored around ten times in the past. I first started with a finger and eventually moved up to different household things. The largest that I have gotten to is an unpealed banana and that was stretching it. So my main question is, what would be the right size considering that the largest that I can go atm without pain is a banana. And do you recommend any specific ones? Thanks for the help.
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Jones J
04/11/2016
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I don't want it to fall out, or god forbid, slip inside. So is there a specific size I should be looking at for the base?
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Intermediate anal enthusiast here and I'm looking for someone who can recommend the best plug to stretch me out. I can handle a 1.75 bulbed plug, but.
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04/11/2016
Njoy pure plug large is what I would recommend. Read some reviews on them. Here and on the net. They coast more than silicone but worth it. Instead of spending money on some and then still seeking more just start with the best ! Thy come in 4 sizes last I heard. Small,med, larger do the 2.0. Happy hunting
04/12/2016
Jones J
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Ok. I have been hearing a lot of good things about this particular one. So you would say it is a good beginner/intermediate one?
Originally posted by
OH&W, Lovebears
Njoy pure plug large is what I would recommend. Read some reviews on them. Here and on the net. They coast more than silicone but worth it. Instead of spending money on some and then still seeking more just start with the best ! Thy come in 4 sizes
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Njoy pure plug large is what I would recommend. Read some reviews on them. Here and on the net. They coast more than silicone but worth it. Instead of spending money on some and then still seeking more just start with the best ! Thy come in 4 sizes last I heard. Small,med, larger do the 2.0. Happy hunting
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04/12/2016
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Yes and it's good for long term wear as well. Since you have some experience with anal play, if I were you, I'd save up and pick up the medium size. If you want a tapered toy, you might want to consider a medium sized toy.
Originally posted by
Jones J
Ok. I have been hearing a lot of good things about this particular one. So you would say it is a good beginner/intermediate one?
Those are usually somewhere around 1.25 inches at their max diameter.
04/12/2016
Jones J
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Alright. I just measured a similar banana and it was 4.75in circumference and 1.5in diameter. So with that being said should I get the njoy pure large? I am thinking by the time I get the money saved up I should be a little more comfortable with the 1.5in diameter. Do you guys agree? Also inquisitor, what do you mean by a tapered toy? Do you mean like a plug? Or something else in comparison to a plug?
Originally posted by
Inquisitor
Yes and it's good for long term wear as well. Since you have some experience with anal play, if I were you, I'd save up and pick up the medium size. If you want a tapered toy, you might want to consider a medium sized toy.
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Yes and it's good for long term wear as well. Since you have some experience with anal play, if I were you, I'd save up and pick up the medium size. If you want a tapered toy, you might want to consider a medium sized toy.
Those are usually somewhere around 1.25 inches at their max diameter. less
Those are usually somewhere around 1.25 inches at their max diameter. less
04/12/2016
Jones J
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Sort of adding onto the first part. Or should I just get the medium njoy to play it safe?
Originally posted by
Jones J
Alright. I just measured a similar banana and it was 4.75in circumference and 1.5in diameter. So with that being said should I get the njoy pure large? I am thinking by the time I get the money saved up I should be a little more comfortable with the
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Alright. I just measured a similar banana and it was 4.75in circumference and 1.5in diameter. So with that being said should I get the njoy pure large? I am thinking by the time I get the money saved up I should be a little more comfortable with the 1.5in diameter. Do you guys agree? Also inquisitor, what do you mean by a tapered toy? Do you mean like a plug? Or something else in comparison to a plug?
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04/12/2016
The njoy large is 1 1/2" in diameter. Only you know what you can take. If you aren't sure perhaps buy a inexpensive silicon one the same size for a test.
A tapered one will go in easy until it reaches your current stretching point.
Part of the fun of a new plug is the first time. The njoys are well worth the effort. The weight and easy maintenance are another plus. For men the weight on the P spot while moving around will make you want it daily !
As an owner of the large and 2.0, I say go for the large. Or start with the medium and become a collector.
A tapered one will go in easy until it reaches your current stretching point.
Part of the fun of a new plug is the first time. The njoys are well worth the effort. The weight and easy maintenance are another plus. For men the weight on the P spot while moving around will make you want it daily !
As an owner of the large and 2.0, I say go for the large. Or start with the medium and become a collector.
04/12/2016
Jones J
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Ok, thank you so much for the info that you guys have given me. Once I get the money I will get the njoy large and I will update you guys then on how it goes.
Originally posted by
OH&W, Lovebears
The njoy large is 1 1/2" in diameter. Only you know what you can take. If you aren't sure perhaps buy a inexpensive silicon one the same size for a test.
A tapered one will go in easy until it reaches your current stretching point. ... more
A tapered one will go in easy until it reaches your current stretching point. ... more
The njoy large is 1 1/2" in diameter. Only you know what you can take. If you aren't sure perhaps buy a inexpensive silicon one the same size for a test.
A tapered one will go in easy until it reaches your current stretching point.
Part of the fun of a new plug is the first time. The njoys are well worth the effort. The weight and easy maintenance are another plus. For men the weight on the P spot while moving around will make you want it daily !
As an owner of the large and 2.0, I say go for the large. Or start with the medium and become a collector. less
A tapered one will go in easy until it reaches your current stretching point.
Part of the fun of a new plug is the first time. The njoys are well worth the effort. The weight and easy maintenance are another plus. For men the weight on the P spot while moving around will make you want it daily !
As an owner of the large and 2.0, I say go for the large. Or start with the medium and become a collector. less
04/12/2016
O.H. is right! He beat me to the punch but he is right.
Be safe and have fun!
Be safe and have fun!
04/13/2016
Jones J
I am back with enough money for a plug but a few questions before buying one. What are you guy's experiences with the jeweled steel buttplugs? (The princess plugs) I keep wavering between the njoy pure plug large and a princess plug with the same diameter. I like the idea of having a jewel on the end because it is like a little secret piece of jewelry that only I know about and can show off to myself in the restroom in the middle of the day. On the contrary I also like the curved design of the pure plug and how the handle is a flat bar and not a circle. They are both steel, will be the same diameter, but are the princess plugs good for long duration wear as well? I have heard that the round base of the princess plugs can be uncomfortable for some. Would it be best to stick to the pure plug or would a princess plug work alright for long duration wear as well?
Oh and I just remembered one more thing. Are they around the same weight?
Oh and I just remembered one more thing. Are they around the same weight?
05/24/2016
Jones J
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*I had another question that I put here but it was pretty much just summing up the above questions so it wasn't needed.*
Originally posted by
Jones J
I am back with enough money for a plug but a few questions before buying one. What are you guy's experiences with the jeweled steel buttplugs? (The princess plugs) I keep wavering between the njoy pure plug large and a princess plug with the same
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I am back with enough money for a plug but a few questions before buying one. What are you guy's experiences with the jeweled steel buttplugs? (The princess plugs) I keep wavering between the njoy pure plug large and a princess plug with the same diameter. I like the idea of having a jewel on the end because it is like a little secret piece of jewelry that only I know about and can show off to myself in the restroom in the middle of the day. On the contrary I also like the curved design of the pure plug and how the handle is a flat bar and not a circle. They are both steel, will be the same diameter, but are the princess plugs good for long duration wear as well? I have heard that the round base of the princess plugs can be uncomfortable for some. Would it be best to stick to the pure plug or would a princess plug work alright for long duration wear as well?
Oh and I just remembered one more thing. Are they around the same weight? less
Oh and I just remembered one more thing. Are they around the same weight? less
05/24/2016
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Personally, I'd say go for the quality and pick up the Pure Plug. While I have both the smaller "Princess Plug" and the small and medium Pure Plug, as far as overall long term comfort goes the Pure Plug wins out every time.
Originally posted by
Jones J
I am back with enough money for a plug but a few questions before buying one. What are you guy's experiences with the jeweled steel buttplugs? (The princess plugs) I keep wavering between the njoy pure plug large and a princess plug with the same
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I am back with enough money for a plug but a few questions before buying one. What are you guy's experiences with the jeweled steel buttplugs? (The princess plugs) I keep wavering between the njoy pure plug large and a princess plug with the same diameter. I like the idea of having a jewel on the end because it is like a little secret piece of jewelry that only I know about and can show off to myself in the restroom in the middle of the day. On the contrary I also like the curved design of the pure plug and how the handle is a flat bar and not a circle. They are both steel, will be the same diameter, but are the princess plugs good for long duration wear as well? I have heard that the round base of the princess plugs can be uncomfortable for some. Would it be best to stick to the pure plug or would a princess plug work alright for long duration wear as well?
Oh and I just remembered one more thing. Are they around the same weight? less
Oh and I just remembered one more thing. Are they around the same weight? less
My partner has mentioned on a few occasions that I have a round butt and as a result I want something that is more comfortable between the cheeks than a flat circle that might cause uncomfortable pinching due to it's straight design.
The Pure Plug, in all its variations, is slightly curved and I find that this curve is helpful in a number of ways.
Honestly, its really your call. If you want a little sparkle with your naughty secret then go for the "Princess Plug", however, if you want comfortable naughty secret for a longer period of time then I'd choose the Pure Plug.
Of course you can always pick up the Pure Plug now and grab a "Princess Plug" later. The Njoy products are more expensive than the princess ones. This way you can have your cake and eat it too.
05/25/2016
Jones J
Ok. That helps a bit. I think I will go with the princess plug because then I can split my money between this and other things, but would it be able to stay in for about 7 hours without getting uncomfortable?
05/25/2016
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Hi JJ. Hope you didn't already grab the princess plug. I can answer your questions having both a njoy pure plug and a princess (among others)
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Jones J
Ok. That helps a bit. I think I will go with the princess plug because then I can split my money between this and other things, but would it be able to stay in for about 7 hours without getting uncomfortable?
The princess is not good for long term wear. Of course this is my findings with my own anatomy. The stem on the princess is straight not curved, so it pulls the plug outward. That gets uncomfortable after a while. And the jewel is round and presses on your buttocks.
It also is light. It is steel plated, not solid stainless like the njoy. The weight of the njoy is designed to sit on the prostate. The Princess you will fill something though if you get one large enough. Like 1 3/4" wide.
The njoy can be worn more than 7 hrs. Once in a while u need to push it up a little to let out gas. I've read some that have worn for days on end and only out to do some #2 business.
Hope this helps you. It is more $, but you get what you pay for.
05/25/2016
JJ, also if you complete you profile you can receive and use EF's private message system. I was hoping to be able to pm you before you made the princess purchase. Anyway if you did, I'm sure you will enjoy it. .... just not as much as the njoy's.
05/25/2016
Jones J
OH, I haven't made the purchase yet but thanks for trying to get to me quick. I am waiting a few more days to fully decide which i want. Also thanks for the info on the princess plug. That will greatly affect my decision.
05/25/2016
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And I'm not sure if I or someone else mention: You can sit on the nJoy plug. At work, driving and even biking. Standing while biking is goodie, makes it move around in there.
Originally posted by
Jones J
OH, I haven't made the purchase yet but thanks for trying to get to me quick. I am waiting a few more days to fully decide which i want. Also thanks for the info on the princess plug. That will greatly affect my decision.
05/26/2016
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So do bumpy roads, paths and ways, also running or running up stairs also make it move.
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OH&W, Lovebears
And I'm not sure if I or someone else mention: You can sit on the nJoy plug. At work, driving and even biking. Standing while biking is goodie, makes it move around in there.
05/26/2016
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Will it slip out if doing jumping jacks or playing bb ? Careful with how much lube one uses.
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Inquisitor
So do bumpy roads, paths and ways, also running or running up stairs also make it move.
05/26/2016
Jones J
So OH are you saying that the njoy is long enough to sit on or is it just that the princess is really uncomfortable whild sitting? Btw that is an amazing idea to go for a bike ride with it in.
05/27/2016
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It has a curved design. Have you looked at the pic of it ? Has a handle that is long to stop total entry and sit in between the cr _ _ k. For the average sized person all but the largest (2.0) should be fine to sit on at home or work. The longer stem/neck also makes it comfortable. A shorter or not long enough neck will cause the stopper to pull inward. Which will be uncomfortable after a while.
Originally posted by
Jones J
So OH are you saying that the njoy is long enough to sit on or is it just that the princess is really uncomfortable whild sitting? Btw that is an amazing idea to go for a bike ride with it in.
One can sit on the princess. Not sure how long though. If you not planning on wearing outside or for extended amt of time princess should be fine. However later you will when not satisfied/bored with it.
Speaking from experience.
05/27/2016
Jones J
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Ok. Yeah I have looked at pictures of both. I was just wondering if the curved and longer neck made that much of a difference, and I guess so! Njoy large it is then! Thanks again for all of the help that you guys and this community have given.
Originally posted by
OH&W, Lovebears
It has a curved design. Have you looked at the pic of it ? Has a handle that is long to stop total entry and sit in between the cr _ _ k. For the average sized person all but the largest (2.0) should be fine to sit on at home or work. The longer
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It has a curved design. Have you looked at the pic of it ? Has a handle that is long to stop total entry and sit in between the cr _ _ k. For the average sized person all but the largest (2.0) should be fine to sit on at home or work. The longer stem/neck also makes it comfortable. A shorter or not long enough neck will cause the stopper to pull inward. Which will be uncomfortable after a while.
One can sit on the princess. Not sure how long though. If you not planning on wearing outside or for extended amt of time princess should be fine. However later you will when not satisfied/bored with it.
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One can sit on the princess. Not sure how long though. If you not planning on wearing outside or for extended amt of time princess should be fine. However later you will when not satisfied/bored with it.
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05/27/2016
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Yes your anatomy is curved down there.
Originally posted by
Jones J
Ok. Yeah I have looked at pictures of both. I was just wondering if the curved and longer neck made that much of a difference, and I guess so! Njoy large it is then! Thanks again for all of the help that you guys and this community have given.
Have fun taking it in the first time. And remember if first don't succeed, try and try again. Remember it is curved so you need to curve/angle it in. Not a straight shot. Curved upward. That is if you are holding it the right way. The handle of course should end up facing the front.
Ok never mind my strange sense of humor. Hope you enjoy it. I mean njoy it.
05/27/2016
Jones J
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Lol
Originally posted by
OH&W, Lovebears
Yes your anatomy is curved down there.
Have fun taking it in the first time. And remember if first don't succeed, try and try again. Remember it is curved so you need to curve/angle it in. Not a straight shot. Curved upward. That is if ... more
Have fun taking it in the first time. And remember if first don't succeed, try and try again. Remember it is curved so you need to curve/angle it in. Not a straight shot. Curved upward. That is if ... more
Yes your anatomy is curved down there.
Have fun taking it in the first time. And remember if first don't succeed, try and try again. Remember it is curved so you need to curve/angle it in. Not a straight shot. Curved upward. That is if you are holding it the right way. The handle of course should end up facing the front.
Ok never mind my strange sense of humor. Hope you enjoy it. I mean njoy it. less
Have fun taking it in the first time. And remember if first don't succeed, try and try again. Remember it is curved so you need to curve/angle it in. Not a straight shot. Curved upward. That is if you are holding it the right way. The handle of course should end up facing the front.
Ok never mind my strange sense of humor. Hope you enjoy it. I mean njoy it. less
05/27/2016
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Curious. what do women get out of it? I've heard of some women using them (and it was suggested to me! )
Originally posted by
Jones J
Lol
05/27/2016
Jones J
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I am a guy but I have heard that they get a stronger climax/orgasm and increased pleasure. Also I have heard that it can push on their g-spot. At first it will feel kind of weird but you will then start to like it. (Especially if you pair it with another type of masturbation) If it was recommended to you give it a shot!
Originally posted by
symbiasin
Curious. what do women get out of it? I've heard of some women using them (and it was suggested to me! )
05/27/2016
Jones J
So OH I think you can start to tell that I have a habit that is both good and bad. It is that I change my mind a lot and have another question . What about glass plugs? Which would you say is better because I am also looking at a few other glass ones that look like they would be good as well. I will put the links below.
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05/27/2016
Jones J
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Symbiasin I just realized you may have been referring to the plug itself. Like I said it could put pressure on the opposite side of the g-spot (especially for this plug)
Originally posted by
symbiasin
Curious. what do women get out of it? I've heard of some women using them (and it was suggested to me! )
05/27/2016
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Glass does cost less than the Njoy stainless . Glass can break. Njoy will survive drops , fire and earthquakes.
Originally posted by
Jones J
So OH I think you can start to tell that I have a habit that is both good and bad. It is that I change my mind a lot and have another question . What about glass plugs? Which would you say is better because I am also looking at a few other glass ones
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So OH I think you can start to tell that I have a habit that is both good and bad. It is that I change my mind a lot and have another question . What about glass plugs? Which would you say is better because I am also looking at a few other glass ones that look like they would be good as well. I will put the links below.
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I don't have any glass and been leery of them. Njoys prob heavier also. Perhaps others can give you their opinion. I remember DancerKittyKat doing a review on one recently. Perhaps pm her.
05/28/2016
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