Will you do dry anal???

Contributor: Th8405 Th8405
Women would you let your man perform dry anal sex on you? (No lube)?
06/02/2012
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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06/02/2012
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
Hell no. That hurts a *lot*. I've had an ex boyfriend do that to me, and that was one of the main reasons he is now an ex.
06/02/2012
Contributor: MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
I'm not a woman, but I would guess most women here would give a big hell no!
06/02/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Dry anal is incredibly painful, dangerous, and downright stupid. Don't ever do it.
06/02/2012
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
No way!
06/02/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
We don't do it dry, but we never use lube. Usually my vaginal juices and spit are plenty.
06/02/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Definitely not! Anal play without lube can cause painful tears on your anal tissue, don't even try!
06/02/2012
Contributor: funforall7 funforall7
My guy is always telling me how much he loves how wet I get, so no lube, but not dry either.
06/02/2012
Contributor: KittenEyes KittenEyes
Tell him to try it first then have him ask again.
06/02/2012
Contributor: meitman meitman
I'm a guy and that sounds crazy to me. I don't think I would enjoy it whether on the giving or receiving end. Ouch!
06/03/2012
Contributor: WICKA WICKA
Dry or not .. I don't like anal .
06/03/2012
Contributor: WICKA WICKA
Dry or not .. I don't like anal .
06/03/2012
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
Fucking NO.
Not even the tiniest little itty bitty bit NO.
Lube is ALWAYS necessary!
06/03/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by Th8405
Women would you let your man perform dry anal sex on you? (No lube)?
Hell no! First of all, I do not do anything that involved my booty, but anal sex is very dangerous even with lube. So if I were to do it, there's no way I'd put myself at an even higher risk for injury by doing it without lube.
06/03/2012
Contributor: Claire-Bear Claire-Bear
No, no, no. Dear gosh, no.
06/03/2012
Contributor: ejrbrndps ejrbrndps
never
06/03/2012
Contributor: namelesschaos namelesschaos
No, never, absolutely not, it is dangerous and stupid.
06/03/2012
Contributor: married with children married with children
nope, lots and lots of lube needed.
06/05/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Th8405
Women would you let your man perform dry anal sex on you? (No lube)?
No way.
06/06/2012
Contributor: Talena Talena
Quote:
Originally posted by meitman
I'm a guy and that sounds crazy to me. I don't think I would enjoy it whether on the giving or receiving end. Ouch!
rub burn?
06/06/2012
Contributor: asphyxia asphyxia
NEVER! I'm neither into pain from tearing the delicate tissue, nor into introducing unfriendly bacteria to my bloodstream through those tears.

Besides, I think lube makes it nicer for BOTH parties.
06/06/2012
Contributor: Woman China Woman China
Nope.

Let me upgrade that to a hell no!!!

I love my bottom. If there is no proper lube (for my one bum rule is no lube? Don't even think about it) and he even attempts I will punch him in the nose then do unspeakable things to him (and not the fun kind). Because he would know better.

Wait... I take that back. IF he would let me "dry anal" him first, I might let him. Fair is fair after all.
06/06/2012
Contributor: BG529 BG529
no. absolutely not
06/06/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by K101
Hell no! First of all, I do not do anything that involved my booty, but anal sex is very dangerous even with lube. So if I were to do it, there's no way I'd put myself at an even higher risk for injury by doing it without lube.
Hon, I understand you don't want to play around with anal play or anal sex. That's fine. It's your body. Totally your decision.

But, to say, "anal sex is very dangerous even with lube." Is simply not true. If you know and trust your partner, and know the proper way to engage in anal sex, it is not dangerous. If it was, 3/4 of the people on this site would be irreparably damaged.... and we aren't.

You are completely entitled to your choice, some people don't enjoy anal sex, that's fine. But, if done properly, safely, consensually and properly lubed, it is as safe as PIV. (If you have any peer reviewed research articles to the contrary I'd be happy if they were shared with us. But, I doubt there are any, from a purely physiological POV, written without an agenda.)

Really.
06/06/2012
Contributor: bh253 bh253
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
Hon, I understand you don't want to play around with anal play or anal sex. That's fine. It's your body. Totally your decision.

But, to say, "anal sex is very dangerous even with lube." Is simply not true. If you know and ... more
I agree with this!
06/06/2012
Contributor: Khanner Khanner
No way. It doesn't sound like it would feel good on the penis, either.
06/06/2012
Contributor: asphyxia asphyxia
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
Hon, I understand you don't want to play around with anal play or anal sex. That's fine. It's your body. Totally your decision.

But, to say, "anal sex is very dangerous even with lube." Is simply not true. If you know and ... more
I didn't catch this comment, but I'm really glad you did! Thank you for correcting that erroneous statement!
06/19/2012
Contributor: Why Not? Why Not?
Um... I have once or twice when I was younger. Not saying I would make a habit of it (or do it at all anymore), but it wasn't as bad as one would think.
06/19/2012
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
I absolutely agree with everyone else who said that lube is a requirement for butt fucking. However, if you're going to do it without lube, at the very least rim your receiving partner first to relax and "open up" their ass.
12/22/2012