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What's The WORST part of Being Single

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Contributor: mjtheprincess mjtheprincess
We all know being single can be a real bummer no matter how good we are at it! What do you think is the WORST part of being single?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Aint nothing bad about single life!
WhoopieDoo , Geogeo , TheirPet , deltalima , Intrepid Niddering , Xarien , JessieDawg , rozenkrux , Pandwhora , ARPKasso , apple4me , markwashere , happymonday , Real or memorex
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I hate finding someone to have sex with...
deltalima , chernayavdova , Voir , 1001 Pleasures , LittleA , Cat E. , TexasBrat , SecretKinksters , novanilla , Noelle , twelve13 , KrissyNovacaine , Undiscovered
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Looking for the new person...I am so dating awkward!
kitty1949 , El-Jaro , Llewey , BG529 , deltalima , Rosen Rot , Neotigress , wetone123 , MissCandyland , AliMc , Pink Lily , sweet&lush , CaseyDeuce , Beautiful-Disaster , talkless , wildshores , chernayavdova , Isis29 , Deeder , goodiegoody , InnocentIchigo , pootpootpoot , doowop , Nacht Stern , Happyinmypants , twelve13 , snowminx , MissAdara , kat17 , Undiscovered
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Being alone at night!
Taylor , sXeVegan90 , MidnightStorm , JennSenn , kitty1949 , ejrbrndps , mistressg , Sima-pusya , BG529 , lovebites , Alyxx , charleswifey , Incendiaire , Adriana Ravenlust , Rosen Rot , Stinkytofu10 , MzL , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , MissCandyland , *Camoprincess* , AliMc , Pink Lily , LoraE , CaseyDeuce , Beautiful-Disaster , jfree , SexToys-R-Us , wildshores , chernayavdova , evie.amor , Kirill1171 , Mrs.Tee , hall5885 , RedKyuubi , Bri9 , Deeder , Marie Hanna , TexasBrat , Stagger13 , InnocentIchigo , doowop , apple4me , pollux , KinkyNicki92 , table38792 , Nacht Stern , Happyinmypants , Falsepast , twelve13 , LoganAshlee. , DanK63 , CS2012 , snowminx , beth317 , melliegirl , Undiscovered , earthmama
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Something worse...see below!
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Total votes: 132 (101 voters)
Poll is closed
10/24/2012
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Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
Being alone at night sucks.
10/25/2012
Contributor: MidnightStorm MidnightStorm
I agree--being along at night is the worst. And not just sexually; it sucks just being (literally) by yourself. I love sleeping with people~
10/25/2012
Contributor: JennSenn JennSenn
Being alone at night. I miss cuddling.

Or just touching a person!
10/25/2012
Contributor: kitty1949 kitty1949
The loneliness and awkwardness of dating. I wish I could just go out and bang someone, but I'm not the type to have casual sex. I wish I could, I just... can't. Meh.
10/25/2012
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
not finding someone worth having a relationship with.
10/25/2012
Contributor: ejrbrndps ejrbrndps
alone
10/25/2012
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
For me, if I were to lose my man for whatever reason, I'd miss having my confidant... someone I can tell absolutely everything to, and someone I can count on to bring me back to reality when I'm really upset or worried over something. Having him in my corner no matter what makes a real difference to me.
10/25/2012
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
Yeah, I'm incredibly awkward at dating. I just started seeing someone a little bit ago and they were wondering if I wasn't attracted to them because I didn't make any moves on them. I thought it was a bad thing to make sexual advances on someone in the dating world, so I just didn't.
10/25/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by mjtheprincess
We all know being single can be a real bummer no matter how good we are at it! What do you think is the WORST part of being single?
I love being single and find no reason for dating
10/25/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
Yeah, I'm incredibly awkward at dating. I just started seeing someone a little bit ago and they were wondering if I wasn't attracted to them because I didn't make any moves on them. I thought it was a bad thing to make sexual advances on ... more
Yeah, not making any moves is awkward for girls, it makes us feel awkward. That being said, someone that's touching me etc within minutes of meeting me is a big turn off too.
10/25/2012
Contributor: Sima-pusya Sima-pusya
Being alone at night!
10/25/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
I've never found anything wrong with being single.
10/25/2012
Contributor: lovebites lovebites
Quote:
Originally posted by mjtheprincess
We all know being single can be a real bummer no matter how good we are at it! What do you think is the WORST part of being single?
being alone at night !
10/25/2012
Contributor: Alyxx Alyxx
ITs been a long time since I've been single, but when I was the worst part was spending nights alone after I had gotten very used to spending them with someone.
10/25/2012
Contributor: Intrepid Niddering Intrepid Niddering
Occasionally, I just really want to cuddle with someone. Aside from that, though, I am perfectly content being single. I only have myself to keep happy, I don't have to worry about another person. Yes, it's selfish, but I want to be selfish right now because I can.
10/25/2012
Contributor: charleswifey charleswifey
Alone at night.
10/25/2012
Contributor: sexfairy sexfairy
I am ok with being single in the moment, but I miss tenderness, love making and sharing daily stuff like meals...
10/25/2012
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
Not having someone to snuggle at night, my pillow just isn't the same.
10/25/2012
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
Yeah, I'm incredibly awkward at dating. I just started seeing someone a little bit ago and they were wondering if I wasn't attracted to them because I didn't make any moves on them. I thought it was a bad thing to make sexual advances on ... more
Aww, good luck.

I hate being alone. Lack of physical contact sucks, but I also dislike not feeling like someone's in my corner
10/25/2012
Contributor: Rosen Rot Rosen Rot
Dating.
I'm super awkward.
10/25/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by mjtheprincess
We all know being single can be a real bummer no matter how good we are at it! What do you think is the WORST part of being single?
Being alone at night!
10/25/2012
Contributor: Neotigress Neotigress
Quote:
Originally posted by mjtheprincess
We all know being single can be a real bummer no matter how good we are at it! What do you think is the WORST part of being single?
When you're middle aged, the dating pool becomes very small and very brackish...
10/25/2012
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
Quote:
Originally posted by Neotigress
When you're middle aged, the dating pool becomes very small and very brackish...
tru dat!
10/25/2012
Contributor: MzL MzL
Dating is soooo...ugh...wanna have sex, but not empty sex...no one to talk to...no intamacy...at this point, I dont think I'll ever have sex again...I feel like intimacy is a fantasy, and companionship is a desolute want...
11/01/2012
Contributor: wetone123 wetone123
Quote:
Originally posted by kitty1949
The loneliness and awkwardness of dating. I wish I could just go out and bang someone, but I'm not the type to have casual sex. I wish I could, I just... can't. Meh.
Same answer for me
11/01/2012
Contributor: wetone123 wetone123
Quote:
Originally posted by MzL
Dating is soooo...ugh...wanna have sex, but not empty sex...no one to talk to...no intamacy...at this point, I dont think I'll ever have sex again...I feel like intimacy is a fantasy, and companionship is a desolute want...
I have these same feelings also... What's a girl to do? Thank heavens for Eden and toys... but toys can't talk or provide real companionship.
11/01/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
Being alone at night.
11/01/2012
Contributor: DirtyAngel7 DirtyAngel7
Quote:
Originally posted by mjtheprincess
We all know being single can be a real bummer no matter how good we are at it! What do you think is the WORST part of being single?
Not having someone to use your toys on you when you get worn out.
11/01/2012
Contributor: Pink Lily Pink Lily
Getting used to going to sleep alone is the worst.
11/08/2012