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What Do You Do To Make Yourself Feel Good (Outside of Sex/Masturbation)?

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Contributor: TexasBrat TexasBrat
Though I'm not single now, I still do the same things I did when I was single:
I wear make up (not an every day thing for me), get my hair cut, do my finger/toe nails-I have a huge collection of nail polish. Make jewelry, read, and even cleaning my house, or rearrange some things in my place. It all makes me feel really good and I also get a sens of accomplishment.
07/23/2015
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Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by TexasBrat
Though I'm not single now, I still do the same things I did when I was single:
I wear make up (not an every day thing for me), get my hair cut, do my finger/toe nails-I have a huge collection of nail polish. Make jewelry, read, and even ... more
I'm not single anymore either and pretty much do the same things. Difference now is I don't have to do it alone. Go out enjoy the fresh air, catch some rays, play some ball, bike, swim, clean the house and yard. Still go out and eat once a week and just stay busy. Oh, and like to make friends wherever I go.

EF has kept me busy too.

07/23/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
Exercise, Comedy Central, get my hair cut, hang out with friends, wear clothes and undies that I think make me look and feel good. I also watch Maury and Springer. Those two shows make me feel really good about myself.

I'm also not really in the singles camp but I would do these things even if I were single.
07/23/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Exercise, Comedy Central, get my hair cut, hang out with friends, wear clothes and undies that I think make me look and feel good. I also watch Maury and Springer. Those two shows make me feel really good about myself.

I'm also not really ... more
Maury & Springer eh?? That's good to boost anyone's self esteem I haven't seen a good throw down in years!

I love a good set of sexy undies That's a sure way to make a prrson feel good.
07/25/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
I work out often, I will go for a good pedicure now and then, I wax my bikini area faithfully (I love it and the husband adores it), I will shop for an occasional sexy dress and matching heels, I get fresh highlights & low lights all the time, I don't skimp on my skin care, I will rest and relax as often as my schedule allows (it's not much but I make do), I find time for friends and socializing (especially here), spend quality time with my family, and I travel as much as I am able.
07/25/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Exercise, Comedy Central, get my hair cut, hang out with friends, wear clothes and undies that I think make me look and feel good. I also watch Maury and Springer. Those two shows make me feel really good about myself.

I'm also not really ... more
Maury? Springer ? omg. nice undies, yes Hey, did you know one looks better in them shaved ? Yes bikini bare.
07/27/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Maury? Springer ? omg. nice undies, yes Hey, did you know one looks better in them shaved ? Yes bikini bare.
Yes, I admit that I'm a Maury and Springer junkie. If I'm having an especially #$&%&& day, those two shows usually help in making the day not quite so bad. Just knowing that others have it worse off than me makes my day better. Also, not having to hear "You are the Father" is great news to me.

I'm still trying to work out the hair removal issue. I haven't quite figured that one out yet.
07/28/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Yes, I admit that I'm a Maury and Springer junkie. If I'm having an especially #$&%&& day, those two shows usually help in making the day not quite so bad. Just knowing that others have it worse off than me makes my day better. ... more
I seen that show a few times. Seems to me all the people in that show are of the same nationality. Or was it just the ones I happened to catch. Good for getting me to nap before going to the gym.

I found success in pulling taut and using a electric shaver. Just be careful walking around in the men's locker room in the buff. Some might think you are in AM Industry.
07/29/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
I seen that show a few times. Seems to me all the people in that show are of the same nationality. Or was it just the ones I happened to catch. Good for getting me to nap before going to the gym.

I found success in pulling taut and using a ... more
Whats the AM industry? As for the locker room, I would just tell anyone who is asking that I'm a swimmer and looking to shave off a few seconds... Why would anyone be asking? That's kinda strange... Why would he be watching me?... Kinda creepy...
07/29/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Whats the AM industry? As for the locker room, I would just tell anyone who is asking that I'm a swimmer and looking to shave off a few seconds... Why would anyone be asking? That's kinda strange... Why would he be watching me?... Kinda creepy...
Ad_ _ _ Mo_ _ _. Of all people I would have expected you to figure that one out. That's a good answer, not that anyone would ask.
They may just wonder. If you tell anyone u r a swimmer, you better be 100% shaved, not just in that area to make your sexy undies look better.
07/29/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Ad_ _ _ Mo_ _ _. Of all people I would have expected you to figure that one out. That's a good answer, not that anyone would ask.
They may just wonder. If you tell anyone u r a swimmer, you better be 100% shaved, not just in that area to make ... more
I'm no good at hang man.

As for the swimmer, quite a few have hair on their head, but arm pits... not so much. It really is nobody's business why you are doing what you are doing as long as it doesn't infringe on anyone's rights. I would just go back to the "Why are you watching me?" issue.
07/29/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Ad_ _ _ Mo_ _ _. Of all people I would have expected you to figure that one out. That's a good answer, not that anyone would ask.
They may just wonder. If you tell anyone u r a swimmer, you better be 100% shaved, not just in that area to make ... more
Ohhhh not hang man!!!!! You you I suck at this . How am I supposed to figure out what you are saying? Lol

I think you both need to go "bare" and if any weirdos ask or look at the goods then just give it a good wiggle and a shake for them. No need to discuss it further lol. That would be sooooo fabulous.
07/29/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Ohhhh not hang man!!!!! You you I suck at this . How am I supposed to figure out what you are saying? Lol

I think you both need to go "bare" and if any weirdos ask or look at the goods then just give it a good wiggle and a shake ... more
I'm not shakin' and grinnin' my junk for anyone . To me, that's just weird or a good way to get solicited and possible end up having to explain too much to too many people.
07/30/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Ohhhh not hang man!!!!! You you I suck at this . How am I supposed to figure out what you are saying? Lol

I think you both need to go "bare" and if any weirdos ask or look at the goods then just give it a good wiggle and a shake ... more
I wiggle and shake for Ow all the time. Also show her my kegel abilities.

07/30/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
I'm not shakin' and grinnin' my junk for anyone . To me, that's just weird or a good way to get solicited and possible end up having to explain too much to too many people.
Some advice for you Inq,

If someone drops their bar of soap in the locker room. Do Not bend over and pick it up !

OK, OK, I know that's old and corny.
07/30/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Some advice for you Inq,

If someone drops their bar of soap in the locker room. Do Not bend over and pick it up !

OK, OK, I know that's old and corny.
But still funny...
07/30/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
I'm not shakin' and grinnin' my junk for anyone . To me, that's just weird or a good way to get solicited and possible end up having to explain too much to too many people.
party pooper
07/30/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
I wiggle and shake for Ow all the time. Also show her my kegel abilities.

See, now that's what I'm talking about! Shake what your mama gave ya! Lol
07/30/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Vnessa
See, now that's what I'm talking about! Shake what your mama gave ya! Lol
And I usually get a reward after the performance. However never any bills tucked in my undies.. Duh, not wearing any.
07/31/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
And I usually get a reward after the performance. However never any bills tucked in my undies.. Duh, not wearing any.
well, cheers to performances Comando style, a little wiggle and a jiggle, and a little feisty goodness to make it all a good time!
07/31/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Vnessa
well, cheers to performances Comando style, a little wiggle and a jiggle, and a little feisty goodness to make it all a good time!
Bare is what makes it. Also more comfortable in the heat here. And as Inq said better for swimming.
08/01/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Bare is what makes it. Also more comfortable in the heat here. And as Inq said better for swimming.
I'lL second that!!!!!!
08/01/2015