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Contributor: Fearsome Fearsome
I am a shameless single lady with a passion for silicone lovers.

I'm not in need of 'the real thing' that's narrow-minded jabber for 'I don't understand.' Sex with toys is very real.

In our social environment, (or at least my locale) it's not very acceptable to be content with being single. More often than not there is pressure from all aspects of life to be 'complete' with another person, be they male or female or whatever.

I'm happy with being single and just having my toys for sex until I'm a good ten years older. It's a good thing I got my toys from Tantus (BLATANT ADVERTISING)since my 98' atomic small is still cock of the block(so to speak)in 2010. (Though that's just the date on the mold, and I forget how long I've had it, I got it on vacation in 2005? or something?)

Discuss single life with toys!

I admitted long ago to a bunch of my friends I'm the dil doul peddler, and all of them have accepted it (lucky me!) and then proceeded to fight with my floppier floor models. I'm also kind of an eccentric collector, and enjoy greatly keeping a vibra dolce (corn on the cob)and Sean Micheals sex sword (sword, derp) on display, just to show them off and say 'THAT VIBRATES' and see the looks I get. it's like having a candy store filled with exotic candy, some people find it gross and others are delighted and it inspires them to go off on their own explorations.
08/06/2010
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Contributor: Taylor Violet LXIX Taylor Violet LXIX
Quote:
Originally posted by Fearsome
I am a shameless single lady with a passion for silicone lovers.

I'm not in need of 'the real thing' that's narrow-minded jabber for 'I don't understand.' Sex with toys is very real.

In our social ... more
That makes me happy that you're so content with being single. It really gives me hope that its possible. My playtime with toys is generally more enjoyable, since I can actually make myself orgasm consistently in this way. However, I'm a complete and utter cuddle-addict. If there was a toy for that I think I'd be set.
08/07/2010
Contributor: Lady of the Lake Lady of the Lake
Quote:
Originally posted by Taylor Violet LXIX
That makes me happy that you're so content with being single. It really gives me hope that its possible. My playtime with toys is generally more enjoyable, since I can actually make myself orgasm consistently in this way. However, I'm a ... more
Having been single (and toyless!) for exactly a year I was really excited to read your post. I always had mixed feelings about toys, but recently decided to treat myself to a nice toy to keep me occupied. I am pretty content being single at the moment, but I also crave affection and cuddles, not just sex. I've definitely got my radar out for the guy I will spend the rest of my life with, but indulging in this new past time has me excited as well.

@scissormetimbers:

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08/20/2010
Contributor: Sassy Single Sassy Single
I've been single since the end of high school (four and a half years. Geez!) because I'm very picky where I probably shouldn't be. I'm one of those people who thinks that college boys are generally ten years too young in terms of their maturity levels, and when you work full-time to pay for college, it also puts a damper on your potential love life.

I've found that I'm happier Single With Toys than I was Single and Toyless, and actually happier than I was in my last relationship. I think that when you don't really have time to date (or many potential boyfriends, for that matter) going solo is pretty great because there are so many options and who knows how to please a woman better than herself?

I also have made jokes with my friends who have guys they refer to as "cock calls" (guys they call whenever they're in the mood) because when you're Single With Toys, you don't have to call anyone, wait for a call back, wait for them to come over--you're just all set to go whenever you're ready.

I'll admit that I'm a cuddle person, but I don't think I'd even have time to cuddle if I had a boyfriend, so I don't think I'm missing out on much. Once I'm out of college I'll probably look at things differently, but for now, I'm perfectly content
08/21/2010
Contributor: UrNaughtyaAngel UrNaughtyaAngel
I also think its great your happy and comfortable being single with toys. Oh I just love that you display some of your toys. I so want to do the same but am too chicken. See my friends don't know about my naughty side. And there has even been rumors in my family that I am a lesbian. Well I am bi curious

With me there is always something when I graduated college I was like I got to concentrate on a job. Then I was I got to save up $ to move out. Now I am unemployed and also with mojo less. I do not have the same swagger I did before so though I would love to be dating, going out dancing and all that I just not in the mood for it. I want to get my life back on track and I have been enjoying learning more about sex, fetishes, and all the kinds of toys.
09/17/2010
Contributor: B8trDude B8trDude
I can relate too - was married for a long time and have now been single for quite awhile since the big D. Just started playing with toys to deal with the boredom and am having a lot of fun. The tough part is deciding which toys to play with and review.
09/17/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Fearsome
I am a shameless single lady with a passion for silicone lovers.

I'm not in need of 'the real thing' that's narrow-minded jabber for 'I don't understand.' Sex with toys is very real.

In our social ... more
There is a distinct difference between being lonely and being alone. If you are happy and content then Bless you and enjoy yourself!
09/19/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Lady of the Lake
Having been single (and toyless!) for exactly a year I was really excited to read your post. I always had mixed feelings about toys, but recently decided to treat myself to a nice toy to keep me occupied. I am pretty content being single at the ... more
How CUTE! I'm married AND I have a male life partner and I'd still like one of these...I know I know I'm just a greedy bitch!
09/19/2010
Contributor: Madeira Madeira
Quote:
Originally posted by Fearsome
I am a shameless single lady with a passion for silicone lovers.

I'm not in need of 'the real thing' that's narrow-minded jabber for 'I don't understand.' Sex with toys is very real.

In our social ... more
I need someone in my life to keep me on some form of schedule (and to prevent me from spending too much time building forts in my living room out of sofa cushions) but I'm glad you're so content with singlehood.
09/19/2010
Contributor: K-smith K-smith
I personally enjoy being with a woman, simply because it give's me the emotional companionship that I'm looking for, and how a woman is made in the sense of how she is warm to the touch and so on is on a different league than that of toys in my opinion. But while I am single, nothing but a booty call can compare to the sensation that a toy can bring you and your body.

Honestly without some way to release my sexual energy I would blow up lol. It's been about a year since the last time I was with a woman, and since then I have been over flowing with energy... O.o
10/13/2010
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
I once joked (sort of) that I have a toy in each room of the house. Whether I'm single or with someone, I enjoy my toys. With or without a partner.

Being single, I do have to agree that it does not fulfill that need for intimacy.
11/26/2010
Contributor: zeebot zeebot
Wooo single! I'm single and have been for a couple years now, and I am really enjoying myself! I'm really lucky, because all my friends love cuddling, so I get my cuddle-quota and more from them (can you say half-naked cuddle pile?) without the stress of a relationship. My lovely toys take care of orgasming quite wonderfully, I must say

I am Being An Independent Woman, which is actually super amazing, I have to say. I really do recommend finding some cuddly people to be friends with and giving it a shot.
03/03/2011
Contributor: Rose of Eros Rose of Eros
Single With Toys here as well! Though I'm fairly new to the toy world, I find that every time I open a drawer or riffle through a bag there's a new toy staring me in the face...begging me to play with it (^.~). It's great though, being able to explore my sexuality and getting to know my body better on my own. My only complaint is that living with five other roommates in one giant room doesn't leave much alone time, so I always have to "hit it and quit it" so to speak (I can't wait for my own bedroom at least).

@zilliahBeep - I'm extremely envious of your half-naked cuddle piles! My toys are great but they're not the type to snuggle up to me when I'm done (and if they were I would probably be slightly weirded out. Slightly.)
03/04/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
Weirdly, when I'm single I'm not really in the mood for toy playtime.
03/04/2011
Contributor: lkb lkb
I love toys in or out of relationships. They're a different sort of thing than sex with a partner so it's not like I'd give one up for the other.
03/09/2011
Contributor: SoBlue SoBlue
Quote:
Originally posted by Fearsome
I am a shameless single lady with a passion for silicone lovers.

I'm not in need of 'the real thing' that's narrow-minded jabber for 'I don't understand.' Sex with toys is very real.

In our social ... more
I know what you mean, im recently single, and enjoying having vibes for me lol
04/05/2011
Contributor: Ms. Paprika Ms. Paprika
Quote:
Originally posted by Taylor Violet LXIX
That makes me happy that you're so content with being single. It really gives me hope that its possible. My playtime with toys is generally more enjoyable, since I can actually make myself orgasm consistently in this way. However, I'm a ... more
Definitely, if there were a toy that cuddled (and I'm not talking about those creepy disembodied arm pillows) I'd buy it in an instant. Even better if it likes watching movies with me.
04/22/2011