Well I've only ever used a toy with one ex-boyfriend and then my husband, so I can't really answer with what I DO but rather what I WOULD do. I wouldn't share porous toys with anyone without a condom. If it was something that could be sterilized I would..but I'd be careful to always sterilize them. I don't know how long into a relationship I'd bring them into it..I guess it'd have to depend on the person and how our sex was. I'd probably start with whatever kind of toy I think would work in that type of situation.

it depends on the person time wise. but precautions yes. my partner and i dont tend to use the same toys that penetrate on each other. however we did suck the same one once. i dont know about again. we both got sick. lol but timewise is a whole other story. you never know if you can trust someone early in. but if you dont care then it doesnt matter. if you dont want people to know what you do then i would wait till you know you will trust them, or if its just a one night stand and they def don't know you or your circle of friends.

No I don't share them with people I am not dating seriously. I get fresh toys for those that I am. I have only shared sex toys with two people and they were both boyfriends. After the first guy and I broke up, I ditched sex toys we shared. For obvious hygiene reasons and also because what one partner is into might not be what another is into.

Other guys I had slept with knew about the toys either before or after, but I never shared them with them again for hygiene reasons and because using toys with me is a treat .