If divorced, do you keep in touch with your ex?
If divorced, do you keep in touch with your ex?
10/15/2010
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My divorce hearing is next month.
Still have to keep in touch to divide stuff once I get it out of storage.
Otherwise, we currently pretend the other doesn't exist. Once the stuff is divided he'll be dead to me.
Still have to keep in touch to divide stuff once I get it out of storage.
Otherwise, we currently pretend the other doesn't exist. Once the stuff is divided he'll be dead to me.
10/15/2010
Still in the process but seeing as we kept everything so separate, there's nothing to do but file paperwork, and it's easier after the 18 month mark which was last month so I can be rid of him for good now. But no. Aside from two emails, I haven't heard from him in 18 months and I'm fine with that.
10/16/2010
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I'm so sorry. I wish you the best of luck. Divorces have to be hard! Hope everything is fine.
Originally posted by
Chilipepper
My divorce hearing is next month.
Still have to keep in touch to divide stuff once I get it out of storage.
Otherwise, we currently pretend the other doesn't exist. Once the stuff is divided he'll be dead to me.
Still have to keep in touch to divide stuff once I get it out of storage.
Otherwise, we currently pretend the other doesn't exist. Once the stuff is divided he'll be dead to me.
xoxox
10/17/2010
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Wow I am sorry everyone has had such a bad time with it. My ex and I generally get along great, and if I need anything he usually trys to help out. Of course we have to keep it friendly though, we have two young kids between us. We have just also been great friends, and made bad husband and wife.
Originally posted by
butterflygirlxo
If divorced, do you keep in touch with your ex?
11/13/2010
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In Tori's and my cases we don't have children with our respective spouses, so we don't have to keep in touch with them once everything is over.
Originally posted by
jdloelo
Wow I am sorry everyone has had such a bad time with it. My ex and I generally get along great, and if I need anything he usually trys to help out. Of course we have to keep it friendly though, we have two young kids between us. We have just also
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Wow I am sorry everyone has had such a bad time with it. My ex and I generally get along great, and if I need anything he usually trys to help out. Of course we have to keep it friendly though, we have two young kids between us. We have just also been great friends, and made bad husband and wife.
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In my marriage, though, it was like having an overgrown child instead of a husband, and it's difficult to have a relationship when one spouse refuses to take any responsibility and work on it like an adult. This also contributed to why we didn't have children.
I was one of those that simply married the wrong person to begin with and thought I had to live with my mistake. Doesn't have to be that way.
11/13/2010
My Ex-husband and I have 2 kids together, so unfortunately, I have to run into him once in a great while at gatherings that my oldest kids have. When he's there I try to be civil. Other than that, I avoid him at all cost.
12/13/2010
I just don't talk with my exwife. Wrong person to marry, didn't figure it out til later. Live and learn.
02/10/2011
If by "keep in touch" you mean "punch him occasionally"...
02/14/2011
We are civil. We are in contact only when it involves our daughters. (The kids are early to mid teens)
02/21/2011
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I'm kind of in this boat. I really want to be the big person and be friends but he has made no effort..
Originally posted by
Chilipepper
In Tori's and my cases we don't have children with our respective spouses, so we don't have to keep in touch with them once everything is over.
In my marriage, though, it was like having an overgrown child instead of a husband, ... more
In my marriage, though, it was like having an overgrown child instead of a husband, ... more
In Tori's and my cases we don't have children with our respective spouses, so we don't have to keep in touch with them once everything is over.
In my marriage, though, it was like having an overgrown child instead of a husband, and it's difficult to have a relationship when one spouse refuses to take any responsibility and work on it like an adult. This also contributed to why we didn't have children.
I was one of those that simply married the wrong person to begin with and thought I had to live with my mistake. Doesn't have to be that way. less
In my marriage, though, it was like having an overgrown child instead of a husband, and it's difficult to have a relationship when one spouse refuses to take any responsibility and work on it like an adult. This also contributed to why we didn't have children.
I was one of those that simply married the wrong person to begin with and thought I had to live with my mistake. Doesn't have to be that way. less
04/14/2011
If I was divorced I would hope to keep it civil.
04/14/2011
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If there is still a strong friendship bond between the two.
Originally posted by
butterflygirlxo
If divorced, do you keep in touch with your ex?
04/14/2011
I stay in contact with the jerk, mostly because I feel sorry for him. That, and he comes to my work a lot, as his mother is my manager (which, by the way, sucks) so I see him there too. He texts me on occasion. He can't get over the 6 years of pushing me around and treating me like crap, apparently, and can't understand why I was able to move on.
10/07/2011
JAPAN
If your divorced why bother contacting them or talking with them. That is why your divorced. Too bad for ex married people that has to deal with daddy baby drama or mommy baby drama.
01/02/2012
My divorce was 25 years ago - I have no idea where she is.
01/02/2012
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I'm not divorced, but I doubt that I could!
Originally posted by
butterflygirlxo
If divorced, do you keep in touch with your ex?
07/18/2012
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