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How often to you masturbate?

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Contributor: Cedarlooman Cedarlooman
Quote:
Originally posted by al16
I'd find it odd for someone who only mastubates monthly to be on this forum...
why would it be odd? I voted once a month. I like sex and toys and participating in the discussions, but I would definitely say that lately I masturbate once or twice a month. It used to be more frequent and I am sure it will return at some point to once a week or more, but I don't usually get so horny anymore that "I just have to take care of it now" or I use it for stress relief...and I have become much better at handling my stress.
04/09/2011
Contributor: ac0313 ac0313
I voted once a week. Since I am in a semi-long distance relationship, we only see each other for the long weekend (Fri afternoon - Mon morning], I definitely am satisfied with our sexual activity on the weekends. I usually will masterbate once in the middle of the week to keep me from getting too frustrated. We will not see each other this weekend and it will be more than once a week this time...
04/10/2011
Contributor: Mikey Likesit Mikey Likesit
I would go with more than once a week but not every day.
06/09/2011
Contributor: nuclearn!ke nuclearn!ke
Quote:
Originally posted by Ellie B
There is no norm for this question, I'm just wondering if when you are single (and not having sex) if the frequency increases or decreases?
For me it decreases because I don't want to think about sex when I'm not having it. When I am ... more
My masturbation habits are a little too inconsistent to pin a frequency to, so I'll go with "whenever I feel like it." Might be once a week, two or three times in a week, or not for many weeks.
06/10/2011
Contributor: deletedacct deletedacct
Other, a few times a week.
06/22/2011
Contributor: emiliaa emiliaa
Even if I'm not having sex, I definitely do it at least once a day, helps me get to sleep. ^_^
06/24/2011
Contributor: CarmenGore262 CarmenGore262
Quote:
Originally posted by Ellie B
There is no norm for this question, I'm just wondering if when you are single (and not having sex) if the frequency increases or decreases?
For me it decreases because I don't want to think about sex when I'm not having it. When I am ... more
Not as often lately
07/04/2011
Contributor: mmike mmike
Quote:
Originally posted by Rose of Eros
I masturbate daily most of the time but sometimes I miss a day here and there. Though I usually only miss days because I don't have the time or privacy, not because I'm tired or anything else.
Me too
07/10/2011
Contributor: Nissa Nissa Nissa Nissa
Quote:
Originally posted by Ellie B
There is no norm for this question, I'm just wondering if when you are single (and not having sex) if the frequency increases or decreases?
For me it decreases because I don't want to think about sex when I'm not having it. When I am ... more
It's been a long time so yeah once a day or at least a couple times a week. I just have been hornier lately.
07/29/2011
Contributor: Retro.old Retro.old
There is no 3-4 times option? so i answered every day
07/30/2011
Contributor: CPTInsanity CPTInsanity
I masturbate often. My wife and I have sex probably about 3-4 times a week, so I suppliment with masturbation about 1-3 times a day on weekdays, but rarely ever on weekends.
08/03/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
multiple times a day or daily
08/05/2011
Contributor: Puss in Boots Puss in Boots
It varies for me. Anywhere from once in two months to three times a week.
08/11/2011
Contributor: Dear Ruby Dear Ruby
Daily, at least. More now that I'm single, just because now there's not some guy in my house staring at me while I do it.
08/15/2011
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
It can range from a couple times a day to once every few weeks (most often is 1x/day though.)
08/15/2011
Contributor: Megan Ward Megan Ward
Quote:
Originally posted by lkb
It varies! Sometimes I do it multiple times a day, and sometimes I do it once a week. I've gone weeks without masturbating before. It depends.
yea that happens here too... and every guy i know is like what the heck your crazy your going to go nuts and i'm like uhh no i'm perfectly fine with it
08/19/2011
Contributor: LibertyGirl LibertyGirl
It is way more often when I'm not having sex regularly. Generally twice each day on the weekdays, and more each weekend. (Two days ago I had six orgasms in a day. Yesterday I only had three.)
When I am having sex, I'm generally satisfied by having one orgasm a day, or every other day.
09/06/2011
Contributor: Menarae Menarae
It about evens out to once a day, I guess. Depends on how stressed I am. Also depends on my menstrual cycle (damn hormones.) And my mom's on stress leave, so I have to resort to stealth-toying, which sometimes isn't worth the effort.

Edit: also, if I have a new toy, I want to use it ASAP and as much as possible.
09/07/2011
Contributor: Alyxx Alyxx
Other, usually a few times a week. Most days I just don't have the "alone time" for it between work, school, and the wonderful combination of a roomate who's almost always home and walls that seem to carry sound.
10/07/2011
Contributor: smartbabi92 smartbabi92
at least a 3 times a week and possibly more depending on my stress level
10/11/2011
Contributor: kadytheredpanda kadytheredpanda
Quote:
Originally posted by Ellie B
There is no norm for this question, I'm just wondering if when you are single (and not having sex) if the frequency increases or decreases?
For me it decreases because I don't want to think about sex when I'm not having it. When I am ... more
More than once a week, for sure.

Sometimes I masturbate twice a day when I'm at my horniest, but that's rare for me.
10/11/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
norm at least daily and sometimes multiple times in a day.
10/14/2011
Contributor: socceras socceras
usually once a week but 3 or 4 times in a session
10/20/2011
Contributor: Allstars316 Allstars316
Some days it is more than once a day. But I play at least once a day.
12/08/2011
Contributor: her angelness her angelness
everyday. why not?
12/08/2011
Contributor: ashxxx ashxxx
Quote:
Originally posted by Ellie B
There is no norm for this question, I'm just wondering if when you are single (and not having sex) if the frequency increases or decreases?
For me it decreases because I don't want to think about sex when I'm not having it. When I am ... more
while I'm with someone and having sex, I masturbate less often. When I'm single I often masturbate at least once per day. I'm now having sex about once per day, so I guess that is making up for it.
12/08/2011
Contributor: Why Why
Closest to daily...more like 4-6 times a week.
12/09/2011
Contributor: duff duff
Once or twice a week
12/09/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by Ellie B
There is no norm for this question, I'm just wondering if when you are single (and not having sex) if the frequency increases or decreases?
For me it decreases because I don't want to think about sex when I'm not having it. When I am ... more
Hardly ever.
12/09/2011
Contributor: Do-Re-Mi Do-Re-Mi
Usually 3-4 times a week for me.
12/12/2011