I recently ended a relationship and am still dealing with the repercussions from it. I'm dating here and there but I'm curious how long you guys feel is..."healthy"...to be single?
How long is it healthy to be single after a 3-year relationship?
02/08/2012
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until you find the right person to be with, other than that enjoy the single life
Originally posted by
OrangeKushBB
I recently ended a relationship and am still dealing with the repercussions from it. I'm dating here and there but I'm curious how long you guys feel is..."healthy"...to be single?
02/08/2012
Definitely enjoy the single life long enough to appreciate it.
02/08/2012
Working things out is the healthy thing to be doing right now.
02/08/2012
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It is healthy to be single for as long as you feel you need to be to recover and figure out what went wrong!
Originally posted by
OrangeKushBB
I recently ended a relationship and am still dealing with the repercussions from it. I'm dating here and there but I'm curious how long you guys feel is..."healthy"...to be single?
02/09/2012
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Have fun
Originally posted by
OrangeKushBB
I recently ended a relationship and am still dealing with the repercussions from it. I'm dating here and there but I'm curious how long you guys feel is..."healthy"...to be single?
02/09/2012
Everyone is different, so take the time you need to get over your past relationship. You will know when it feels right to you.
02/09/2012
I have never been in this situation but I would say whatever makes you happy
02/09/2012
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Said so much better than I could have! Take this time to get to know you, and enjoy being single.
Originally posted by
Airen Wolf
It is healthy to be single for as long as you feel you need to be to recover and figure out what went wrong!
02/09/2012
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Good answer!
Originally posted by
Airen Wolf
It is healthy to be single for as long as you feel you need to be to recover and figure out what went wrong!
Something to add: And there doesn't always have to be a "what went wrong" either. Sometimes, things just happen and it's no one's fault.
02/09/2012
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until you feel like being with someone else. do what feels right for you.
Originally posted by
OrangeKushBB
I recently ended a relationship and am still dealing with the repercussions from it. I'm dating here and there but I'm curious how long you guys feel is..."healthy"...to be single?
02/09/2012
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While your no longer in a relationship, dating here and there is ok but get to know yourself and love yourself in the process. Once you do that, you'll know when your ready for someone new.
Originally posted by
OrangeKushBB
I recently ended a relationship and am still dealing with the repercussions from it. I'm dating here and there but I'm curious how long you guys feel is..."healthy"...to be single?
02/14/2012
However long is right for you.
03/12/2012
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I'm in a similar situation, 4 years together and married, but he ended it very unexpectedly (and badly). I'm not dating yet as it was just two weeks ago but I'm not really sure when I'll be ready to try this again.... Right now I feel that I would like to take a year before getting serious because I have so many personal goals that I'd like to accomplish first but life throws curveballs sometimes so I guess I'll have to just keep an open mind. Good luck to you
Originally posted by
OrangeKushBB
I recently ended a relationship and am still dealing with the repercussions from it. I'm dating here and there but I'm curious how long you guys feel is..."healthy"...to be single?
03/12/2012
There is never a set amount of time. Just go with the flow.
03/12/2012
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I was in a 3 year relationship then I stayed single for about 4 months. I met the greatest guy in the world. Trust me just let yourself have fun and be happy.
Originally posted by
OrangeKushBB
I recently ended a relationship and am still dealing with the repercussions from it. I'm dating here and there but I'm curious how long you guys feel is..."healthy"...to be single?
03/12/2012
As long as it takes...don't put a time limit on it. Everyone is different
03/12/2012
There's no time limit! Take your time and don't rush into anything just because you feel like you *have* to be in a relationship. If you do that, you may end up settling (and no one should ever have to do that!)
You don't need a significant other to have a happy, healthy sex life, so enjoy the single life for as long as you want!
You don't need a significant other to have a happy, healthy sex life, so enjoy the single life for as long as you want!
03/13/2012
Just dont' get pregnate or married with out waiting a few years inbetween new lovers. Otherwise be single as long as you like or start dating.
03/13/2012
I have to agree, there is no one "right way" or "wrong way" to do this. Stay single as long as you want to. When you feel happy and healthy alone, I think you're in a good place emotionally and mentally. Then, you have a lot you will bring to the table in any relationship, but you'll also be happy and healthy if you stay single.
03/13/2012
Whatever feels right to you, there is no correct answer. But, you have to clean out your head, and your heart first, so as not to take any unnecessary crap with you into your next relationship.
03/23/2012
There is not time limit that's for sure. You'll know it when you meet the right person for you and you'll be ready
03/23/2012
no time limit just do what feel right
03/31/2012
Jenny Smith
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Just enjoy ur life for awhile
Originally posted by
OrangeKushBB
I recently ended a relationship and am still dealing with the repercussions from it. I'm dating here and there but I'm curious how long you guys feel is..."healthy"...to be single?
04/26/2012
get back to being you - a single unit that doesn't need anyone else. once you feel secure in yourself, and happy, then do serious relationship things. that's what i do anyway
05/08/2012
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you should be over your ex anywhere between 3 months and a year from now. but dont let a time restraint stop you from figuring out your feelings and taking things one day at a time
Originally posted by
OrangeKushBB
I recently ended a relationship and am still dealing with the repercussions from it. I'm dating here and there but I'm curious how long you guys feel is..."healthy"...to be single?
05/22/2012
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Great advice!
Originally posted by
Airen Wolf
It is healthy to be single for as long as you feel you need to be to recover and figure out what went wrong!
05/22/2012
Definitely until you feel ready, however long that takes. If you're not confident, it could end up hurting you and your partner
05/22/2012
enjoy the freedom
05/23/2012
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There's no limit! enjoy yourself
Originally posted by
OrangeKushBB
I recently ended a relationship and am still dealing with the repercussions from it. I'm dating here and there but I'm curious how long you guys feel is..."healthy"...to be single?
05/24/2012
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