Would you ever cheat on your boyfriend/girlfriend just to get even with them for cheating on you?
Getting even.....would you?
06/20/2012
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No. What would that solve?
06/20/2012
Nope, but that is mainly because I have to look at myself in the mirror.
06/20/2012
Honestly, I WISH I had cheated on my ex-husband after he cheated on me, because although I only knew of a few of the girls until we separated, I found out there were SO many more people I didn't know about, and I wish I could've hurt him just a little more. I'm just grateful that the fact that I'm happy without him is his source of misery.
06/20/2012
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Yep! Been there, done that. I know it is childish, but I broke up with them immediately, then went and cheated on them with their best friend. (This has happened more than once for me). It's just nice knowing that they know what if feels like, and to show them their buddies aren't trustworthy either.
Originally posted by
CaliGirl
Would you ever cheat on your boyfriend/girlfriend just to get even with them for cheating on you?
06/20/2012
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Revenge is the best cure for heartbreak! LOL
Originally posted by
Peggi
Honestly, I WISH I had cheated on my ex-husband after he cheated on me, because although I only knew of a few of the girls until we separated, I found out there were SO many more people I didn't know about, and I wish I could've hurt him just
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Honestly, I WISH I had cheated on my ex-husband after he cheated on me, because although I only knew of a few of the girls until we separated, I found out there were SO many more people I didn't know about, and I wish I could've hurt him just a little more. I'm just grateful that the fact that I'm happy without him is his source of misery.
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06/20/2012
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nope. doesn't fix a thing. i'd just break up with them. then get with whoever else i wanted.
Originally posted by
CaliGirl
Would you ever cheat on your boyfriend/girlfriend just to get even with them for cheating on you?
be happy. that's the best form of revenge!
06/20/2012
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No. It's only cheating if you stay together.
Originally posted by
CaliGirl
Would you ever cheat on your boyfriend/girlfriend just to get even with them for cheating on you?
06/20/2012
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I'm sorry that happen to you. Hopefully he didn't bring home a present that you couldn't get rid of. The "gift" that keeps on giving my husband always says. Cheaters are all assholes that need a good old fashion pounding with shards of glass, kitty litter, alcohol for flavor, and hot tar. No reach around, no lube, and no sweet nothings in the ear. Don't even bother calling the next day.
Originally posted by
Peggi
Honestly, I WISH I had cheated on my ex-husband after he cheated on me, because although I only knew of a few of the girls until we separated, I found out there were SO many more people I didn't know about, and I wish I could've hurt him just
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Honestly, I WISH I had cheated on my ex-husband after he cheated on me, because although I only knew of a few of the girls until we separated, I found out there were SO many more people I didn't know about, and I wish I could've hurt him just a little more. I'm just grateful that the fact that I'm happy without him is his source of misery.
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06/20/2012
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If he had so many people on the side, do you think you cheating on him would have had the intended effect?
Originally posted by
Peggi
Honestly, I WISH I had cheated on my ex-husband after he cheated on me, because although I only knew of a few of the girls until we separated, I found out there were SO many more people I didn't know about, and I wish I could've hurt him just
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more
Honestly, I WISH I had cheated on my ex-husband after he cheated on me, because although I only knew of a few of the girls until we separated, I found out there were SO many more people I didn't know about, and I wish I could've hurt him just a little more. I'm just grateful that the fact that I'm happy without him is his source of misery.
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06/21/2012
No. I wouldn't cheat just to "get back." My husband wouldn't cheat, but if I was married to a cheater, my NOT cheating would continue to let both of us know I was the better person.
As they told us in Preschool; Two wrongs don't make a right. In Preschool, you didn't hit someone who hit you first. You walked away and let them be the asshole. "Revenge" does nothing but stain your soul.
As they told us in Preschool; Two wrongs don't make a right. In Preschool, you didn't hit someone who hit you first. You walked away and let them be the asshole. "Revenge" does nothing but stain your soul.
06/21/2012
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Yes!
Originally posted by
aliceinthehole
nope. doesn't fix a thing. i'd just break up with them. then get with whoever else i wanted.
be happy. that's the best form of revenge!
be happy. that's the best form of revenge!
06/21/2012
I cheated on my X-husband, but he wasn't giving me what I needed, although he didn't cheat on me. MY current bf gave me permission 2 screw others but I haven't in the 2 1/2 years we've been together. Even though he does other girls no bother to me as long as he stops in when he can, I'll hold out.
06/21/2012
Why? If you want real revenge, that will involve things that will result in public humiliation, social death, and career disaster.
If you're going to Get Back, do it on a professional level ... cheating is for kindergarteners.
For me, I'd just dump his disrespectful ass and get a blood test to make sure I didn't get anything. I'm not sure how cheating would hurt a cheater since they find nothing wrong with it to begin with - it just verifies and condones their own bad behavior with you since you'd be doing it, too. Logical? QED.
If you're going to Get Back, do it on a professional level ... cheating is for kindergarteners.
For me, I'd just dump his disrespectful ass and get a blood test to make sure I didn't get anything. I'm not sure how cheating would hurt a cheater since they find nothing wrong with it to begin with - it just verifies and condones their own bad behavior with you since you'd be doing it, too. Logical? QED.
06/21/2012
I wouldn't. The relationship is over to me, so it is time to move on.
06/21/2012
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No, two wrongs don't make a right! It would only cause more problems and a better likelihood that things won't work out with you and your partner.
Originally posted by
CaliGirl
Would you ever cheat on your boyfriend/girlfriend just to get even with them for cheating on you?
06/21/2012
No--I would pawn all my guns until I was over the po'd stage though. I would want serious revenge--but would get over that and be very happy rebuilding my life. I have a huge streak of jealousy, stubbornness and lack of ability for forgiving certain issues. That is one of them. BUT--me being happy without them would be the greatest revenge of all.
06/21/2012
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ALthough it was childish, yes, I paid them back bigtime. I usually go after their best friends (but only if they are single) and I've never been turned down. Maybe it's stupid, but sweet revenge can help cure a broken heart as far as I'm concerned.
Originally posted by
CaliGirl
Would you ever cheat on your boyfriend/girlfriend just to get even with them for cheating on you?
07/05/2012
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cheat, no. I'd get even some other way that was more personal to them.
Originally posted by
CaliGirl
Would you ever cheat on your boyfriend/girlfriend just to get even with them for cheating on you?
07/08/2012
Nope that is just tiring. Waste of energy.
07/11/2012
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LOL, this is true.
Originally posted by
Noelle
Revenge is the best cure for heartbreak! LOL
But on the other hand, I don't think that I could find someone else that I was attracted to/to cheat back.
Plus, that would just make me feel like a cheater too.
But of course everything depends on certain situations and I don't pretend to be an angel.
07/11/2012
No i wouldn't
07/12/2012
I wouldn't, because it would then make me feel terrible in more ways then one. So what would it accomplish?
07/13/2012
nope
09/16/2012
No, probably not.
09/16/2012
No. I think it's childish and kind of hypocritical. You can't be mad at someone and turn around and do the same thing. I think it's better to be the bigger person.
09/16/2012
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No, then you'd be no better than them.
Originally posted by
CaliGirl
Would you ever cheat on your boyfriend/girlfriend just to get even with them for cheating on you?
09/21/2012
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