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For all the single ladies, and men, and other gendered individuals: At what age did you have your first relationship? Ex: boyfriends, girlfriends, partners etc.

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Contributor: HoneyHoney HoneyHoney
I started my first relationship later than most (when I was 20). I'm just curious to see when others began having relationships.

I hit 'enter' by accident before I could add more choices. People who started their first relationships later than their 20's can choose 'early twenties' or just make a post. Thanks!
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I started when I was a young teen. (12+)
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I started when I was in my middle teens.
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I started in my late teens.
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I started in my early twenties.
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Total votes: 138 (135 voters)
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01/30/2011
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Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
I was 16 when I had my first relationship.
01/30/2011
Contributor: PussyGalore PussyGalore
I was 14.
01/30/2011
Contributor: Annemarie Annemarie
My first real relationship would have been maybe seventh grade, so about 12.
01/30/2011
Contributor: sbon sbon
I was 14.
01/30/2011
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I was 18 when I had my first relationship and I had two official relationships (and one FWB) before entering the one I am currently in which has lasted 6 years so far.
02/01/2011
Contributor: SexFeind22 SexFeind22
i was 13 when i started dating
02/01/2011
Contributor: Xomandypantsxo Xomandypantsxo
had my fist serious relationship this year and im turning 19
02/01/2011
Contributor: zeebot zeebot
My first real relationship was when I was 14 I think?
02/08/2011
Contributor: KikiChrome KikiChrome
Like you, I was 20.

It wasn't really by choice though. More like shyness and lack of opportunity!
02/08/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by HoneyHoney
I started my first relationship later than most (when I was 20). I'm just curious to see when others began having relationships.

I hit 'enter' by accident before I could add more choices. People who started their first ... more
I was 15.
02/15/2011
Contributor: ninaspinkturtle ninaspinkturtle
Quote:
Originally posted by HoneyHoney
I started my first relationship later than most (when I was 20). I'm just curious to see when others began having relationships.

I hit 'enter' by accident before I could add more choices. People who started their first ... more
i started dating really young
02/15/2011
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
17. It's mid-teens, I guess.
02/18/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
I was 14.
02/24/2011
Contributor: Mr.RightNow Mr.RightNow
fifteen for me
02/25/2011
Contributor: Armsjlove Armsjlove
I was 13 but 15 before I had my first kiss. ~ Arms
02/25/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
It was sophomore year of high school... so 15/16? But it went really slow. We didn't kiss at all for 4 months.
02/25/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I'm guessing this is only sexual relationships..... cause I had a boyfriend in grade 3.

Sexually - later teens and have never regretted waiting til I met someone I truly loved.
02/26/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
I was 15 when I started dating.
03/02/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
I was 15 when I had my first serious relationship (over a year and a half) with an 18 year old.
03/09/2011
Contributor: bobowaxer bobowaxer
13 for me, it lasted four wonderful years.
03/10/2011
Contributor: MoonlightLust MoonlightLust
Quote:
Originally posted by HoneyHoney
I started my first relationship later than most (when I was 20). I'm just curious to see when others began having relationships.

I hit 'enter' by accident before I could add more choices. People who started their first ... more
This is going to sound like a fairy tale but it's honest truth. Wow I was actually 7 when I had my first actual relationship. I had dated before then but nothing totally serious. This guy I met him at a b-day party I was at and he took the breath out of me when he walked in he was so beautiful. I broke up with the guy I was dating then. But this mystery guy tried to get to know me I wasn't having it. I left or tried to he came after me, grabbed me and spun me around and kissed me. My first instictual reaction was I slapped him across the face. He looked at me funny I walked off and said and don't think you can just do thaaaa that's all I got out before he grabbed and kissed me again. I was 7 and he was 12. We dated till I was 18 then we broke up. Well it would have been a fairy tale if we were still together. We had the absolute perfect relationship we didn't fight or argue in all those years we never even had an ill word. I'm now 26 and have been single for 8 years. Wow that's hard to say but it's true. I'm completely over him and way beyond ready to start a new relationship I just haven't put myself out there. But I have recently and have met some interesting guys. But hey it's not all about guys I still like girls to and definately want some girls to.
03/11/2011
Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
15 to be exact. Sucked. XD
03/20/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I put middle teens, but it was probably closer to 13. {shrug} Sex in the middle teens, though.
03/21/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
My first real boyfriend was a joke. I had spent so much time submerged in anime, I had no idea what to do with him. So I wrote him extensively long love letters and we talked on the phone. We never touched or anything, until he kissed me on my 14th birthday. It was gross and awkward. Two days later, he dumped me cause my best friend who was male, disliked him and he thought we were having sex or something.

It broke my heart for over two years, LOL.
03/21/2011
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
I tried dating all through high school. But nothing came of that. There a couple of guys I had been seeing but none of them wanted me to be their girlfriend. And then I didn't have my first real relationship until I was 19. My first boyfriend ended up being my husband.
03/21/2011
Contributor: hornypoet69 hornypoet69
I was 20 before my first relationship. That was also my first date, first kiss, first sexual experience. He was the first of a lot of things. It only lasted a couple months, but I don't regret any of it. I was lucky to have him as my first, even if we weren't meant for each other in the long term.
03/21/2011
Contributor: hjtee hjtee
I was 14 at my first refal relationship.
I figured when you say someone is your 'boyfriend/girlfriend' at 8 doesn't count.
03/26/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
I got into my first relationship when I was 17. It started out long distance, which was really tough but we pulled through and are now married.
03/26/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
I never had a real relationship until i was 16 really.
03/27/2011