It's not appealing. I wouldn't want to regret it, so I wouldn't.
First dates!
12/17/2010
Yep (if I like my date). And it turns me on a little too)
01/18/2011
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It's better to wait and make an emotional bond first.
Originally posted by
Tart
Do you give it up on the first date?
01/29/2011
It depends on the person.
01/29/2011
I have
01/29/2011
I voted sometimes. I never have, but I wouldn't 100% rule it out, either. For instance, what if it's a first date with someone you have known for years?
01/30/2011
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Well, I made a liar of myself with my first date since my divorce.
Originally posted by
Chilipepper
God knows where he's been and what he's been into. Best not to chance it.
Good thing we established our health beforehand.
02/15/2011
If I really like someone I will wait awhile before having sex with them.
02/15/2011
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I did the same thing once (with a friend) but usually i wait and don't rush into anything. I swore I would never have any one night stands with any of my friends ever again lol. It just made me feel weird after...we're ok now, but still it was way too weird for me!
Originally posted by
~LaUr3n~
From my track record no. With my current boyfriend I made him wait 2 months and the ex before that was a month. That was mostly his choice though. He wanted to take it slow which I respected, but he was the one who gave in and wanted it at which
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From my track record no. With my current boyfriend I made him wait 2 months and the ex before that was a month. That was mostly his choice though. He wanted to take it slow which I respected, but he was the one who gave in and wanted it at which point I was dying after a month lol.
I have never had sex on the first date, but I have had a few one night stands that were not dates (like friends), but the last one was at least 3 years ago. less
I have never had sex on the first date, but I have had a few one night stands that were not dates (like friends), but the last one was at least 3 years ago. less
02/15/2011
I am a complete romantic and for me personally sex is only good when you are in love. So I wait to get physical until I feel that spark.
02/15/2011
For me, it really depends on the person and the situation.
02/16/2011
have done it
02/25/2011
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Depends on how strong the attraction is
Originally posted by
Tart
Do you give it up on the first date?
02/25/2011
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Same here I need to know the person and feel comfortable with them.
Originally posted by
cherryredhead88
I am very picky. I need to get to know someone good first, there has to be something there. That is why I cannot find a FWB for the life of me- I am not into sleeping with random people! Lol
03/21/2011
If I were to know him a little before our first date, I would. Say if we had a mutual friend or were co-workers or something.
03/26/2011
No way! I could never share such a close and personal moment with someone I didn't love. That's just me though.
03/26/2011
I wouldn't and haven't. Most of the time, a first date is meeting someone and just beginning to get to know the person.
Lol, it's rare for me to kiss on a first date! I guess I'm a bit shy like that.
Lol, it's rare for me to kiss on a first date! I guess I'm a bit shy like that.
03/28/2011
I have before, but dont feel like I needed too. Im married now and yes we would have slept together on the first date, but do to reasons out of our control it didnt happen. Did on the second date thought.
04/01/2011
Nope.
04/01/2011
It all depends on the person, and where I am in the world.
04/05/2011
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It all depends Cause I had a fist date just last night and it was a very good evening but still couldnt bring myself to have sex with him even doe I wanted to so bad
Originally posted by
Tart
Do you give it up on the first date?
04/14/2011
Na.. it has to be with someone Ive known for a while..
05/22/2011
No. That really isn't something I'm into, but 5 years ago my partner and I first start seeing each other & we did sleep together the second night. Turned out well, but I hated myself for doing it until I really did love him. I would never do it now & am totally surprised that I did even back then. It's not me at all
05/22/2011
Well, once... kinda surprised myself.
05/22/2011
Nope and dont think i ever would i respect myself to much for that.
05/22/2011
i have
05/22/2011
I have the occasional one night stand, but they are not worth it in my mind.
05/24/2011
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i've actually never been on a date! i always turn them down, maybe i'm shy haha i don't know.
Originally posted by
Tart
Do you give it up on the first date?
08/29/2011
Put it this way: I've had 2 serious relationships that lasted a year and 9 months respectively, and I'm still a virgin. That should say enough
06/23/2012
I have found that is just better if I don't.
07/13/2012