Would you rather hookup or plug in? Both have pros and cons.
Casual sex vs. Masturbation: when you're single and need to scratch that itch, which is more satisfying?
12/04/2011
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Either?? Both!!! I think both!
Originally posted by
biancajames
Would you rather hookup or plug in? Both have pros and cons.
12/04/2011
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That's what the depends on my mood option is for
Originally posted by
CreamySweet
Either?? Both!!! I think both!
12/04/2011
When it comes to being single, masturbation is just fine. You can end it as soon as you want, you can stretch it out as long as you want. You can go slow, fast, rough, softly. You can use toys, you can use your fingers, hell, you can use your pillows! And, at the end of it, you don't need to pay anyone, engage in any awkward conversations (unless you're walked in on I suppose), no need to worry about what the other is thinking, no worries, no problems.
However, if you actually are in a relationship, forget solo action, double team your genitalia!
However, if you actually are in a relationship, forget solo action, double team your genitalia!
03/07/2012
i'd rather masturbate.
03/07/2012
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Casual sex for sure!!
Originally posted by
biancajames
Would you rather hookup or plug in? Both have pros and cons.
07/18/2012
Masturbation - I can depend on myself to know my own wants and needs and respect my gender identity in bed, which is hard to get a guarantee on from casual sex partners, and in "scratching that itch" I won't expose myself to any other potential itches of the STI variety.
07/20/2012
mostly masturbation, but sometimes with the right connection casual sex is hot. If it's casual, it's bet if both people know it's casual. I don't like using someone for sex. I mean if I think it's casual, and they think it's going somewhere, that's not enjoyable for me.
07/20/2012
Masturbation, I don't believe in casual sex.
07/20/2012
masturbate
07/21/2012
Masturbation has a higher likelihood of being great. Casual sex, especially with someone new, doesn't have such a guarantee.
08/09/2012
Masturbation is easier for me but if the situation and person right is right I will do casual sex.
08/12/2012
Casual..even if it was just petting or masturbating together would be more exciting.
08/12/2012
I would go masturbate, casual sex is too risky to me.
08/12/2012
wacking off
08/16/2012
The starvation for affection can really bitch up things when one is not into "casual" anything.
09/01/2012
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I honestly have trust issues, so casual sex just doesn't work for me. There has to be a wee little foundation (not a lot but some) for me to want to have sex with someone.
Originally posted by
biancajames
Would you rather hookup or plug in? Both have pros and cons.
09/01/2012
Masturbation
09/01/2012
I've never had any luck with casual hookups, alas, never happened across anyone I've wanted to do that with.
09/04/2012
Masturbation
09/04/2012
Casual hook ups are never any good for me--maybe I've just never found the right person, maybe I'm cut out for it, but every casual counter I've had has been with a sexually clueless dullard. Sounds mean, I know, but it's true. I'd rather masturbate.
09/08/2012
MissK680
It really does depend on my mood, some nights I want sex and other nights I'm completely content with the rabbit. I'm not sure if I want a relationship or not, so I have no problem with a one night stand or fwb.
09/08/2012
Usually just toys. I like to make sure my body is clean. But every now and then after being single for so long, real sex is very nice. But then it just makes me want more.
09/10/2012
Definitely masturbation--too worried about STDs and too greedy with my orgasms to leave them to chance
09/10/2012
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Generally masturbation, but I can see the allure of casual sex too.
Originally posted by
biancajames
Would you rather hookup or plug in? Both have pros and cons.
09/21/2012
Usually Masturbation.
10/07/2012
Either...masturbation on web cam is something in between and safe.
10/07/2012
Masturbation. Because it's uncomplicated and gets the job done.
10/07/2012
can i pick both?
10/30/2012
Both
10/30/2012
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