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Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
I have never had a serious relationship. But I don't feel guilty about it and I don't ever want one. I just want to have sex and have fun. I love being independent ,but everyone else thinks I'm crazy. What would you do?
05/13/2012
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Contributor: mlmac mlmac
Who cares what everyone else thinks. If being independent is what you love, so be it, that's who you are. So go on out there and have all the fun and sex you want.
05/13/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
To each their own, just be safe and respectful of others and yourself - there's nothing wrong with that if you're respectful and consensual.
05/13/2012
Contributor: Arch600 Arch600
Do what makes you happy! Just as others have said, as long as it is safe, respectful, and doesn't harm you or others.

I continue to be confounded by the fact that people think the only thing that can make you happy is what makes them happy.
05/13/2012
Contributor: Peggi Peggi
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Originally posted by mlmac
Who cares what everyone else thinks. If being independent is what you love, so be it, that's who you are. So go on out there and have all the fun and sex you want.
What this guy said
05/13/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Things change with time. At 20 I certainly wasn't looking for commitments - but when I get married at 35 I was ready for something permanent. You may never go down that road - but most do. For now enjoy your youth and take the future as it comes.
05/14/2012
Contributor: hro789 hro789
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Originally posted by sweetpea12
I have never had a serious relationship. But I don't feel guilty about it and I don't ever want one. I just want to have sex and have fun. I love being independent ,but everyone else thinks I'm crazy. What would you do?
It is our life but it is also good to have someone that you can have a connection to.
05/19/2012
Contributor: cheesewizz cheesewizz
do whatever makes you happy. you shouldnt commit to a long term relationship just because its expected of you
05/22/2012
Contributor: pixxie87 pixxie87
you are not one bit crazy. Life is all about having fun.
05/24/2012
Contributor: VioletMoonstone VioletMoonstone
I'm not sure how old you are but I'm assuming you're young? You sound completely normal to me. Honestly I think it's really good to be independent before getting into a serious relationship anyway. I got into a serious relationship when I was young and I was so in love I forgot myself. All I wanted to do was make "him" happy to the point where I forgot how to make myself happy. You should know yourself well and be able to take care of yourself before falling for someone else! I don't think you're crazy at all. If and when you ever get serious with another then maybe your thoughts will change. Especially when you get older because you'll want a stable life and you'll get tired of the drama.... maybe.
05/24/2012
Contributor: breakfastonpluto breakfastonpluto
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Originally posted by sweetpea12
I have never had a serious relationship. But I don't feel guilty about it and I don't ever want one. I just want to have sex and have fun. I love being independent ,but everyone else thinks I'm crazy. What would you do?
nope, you aren't crazy. :] sounds like you are having fun and happy, and that's wonderful!
05/24/2012