I married my best friend, after we almost pulled apart, arguing about who she was dating, and her ending up telling me that she really loved ME, no one else!!!!! Who knew???!!!
Anyway, I have a young friend who has been torn up inside for ages about telling his girl FRIEND...not GIRLFRIEND, that he really loves HER. They would routinely set each other up with dates. Well, he set her up really great this time, with a guy he met at work and now he finds out that this other fellow, after about seven months of dating her, is going to propose.
He does not know if he should, at this late hour, tell her that HE really loves her and has for YEARS, or should he be the gentlemen, and keep his mouth shut, his emotions covered up and lick the wounds HE created for himself? To make matters worse, this other guy, as "thanks" for helping him meet the love of his life, may well ask my buddy to be part of the wedding party!!!!!!
What do you think. Should he tell her, regardless of outcome, that he has loved her and so she KNOWS the facts or just keep quiet and move on????
Anyway, I have a young friend who has been torn up inside for ages about telling his girl FRIEND...not GIRLFRIEND, that he really loves HER. They would routinely set each other up with dates. Well, he set her up really great this time, with a guy he met at work and now he finds out that this other fellow, after about seven months of dating her, is going to propose.
He does not know if he should, at this late hour, tell her that HE really loves her and has for YEARS, or should he be the gentlemen, and keep his mouth shut, his emotions covered up and lick the wounds HE created for himself? To make matters worse, this other guy, as "thanks" for helping him meet the love of his life, may well ask my buddy to be part of the wedding party!!!!!!
What do you think. Should he tell her, regardless of outcome, that he has loved her and so she KNOWS the facts or just keep quiet and move on????