The New Intimacy

Do you have a favorite fetish or do you like to try different things instead of focusing on one particular fetish?

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Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
Most of us, if willing to admit, have fetishes. I think it is important to explore and not always focus on what you know for sure will do it for you.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
stick with the tried and true
TheZombre , Moein , Mills
3  (3%)
try it all out
VanillaFreeSex , alistair , StrawberryEve , leatherlover , Jessica Elizabeth , Sir , Tart , Lummox , DeliciousSurprise , Airen Wolf , Shellz31 , OroNomi , Trashley , LavenderSkies , jdloelo , Kinkme , KnK , HisLittleGirl , SexyTabby , jakjak , CynicallyYours , rdytogo , potstickers , Redboxbaby , Crystal1 , her pleasure , C4ss , leanright69 , Darling Jen , Not here , mrs.mckrakn , Lady Neshamah , VenusianThunder , Iceness , Kindred , NawlinsDawlin , erif957 , MiniBecca411 , Angel deSanguine , Xomandypantsxo , Josh aka FootMan , M121212 , tits only , Orion , OliviaKink , HoneyHoney , SexFeind22 , zeebot , philz , sixfootsex , BadassFatass , harleydhm , NaturalWoman , Mr.RightNow , Keegski , shelly8791 , Airplane , Adam02viper , jujubee86 , lkb , Lio , Miss T , bobowaxer , DixieDoo , UrNaughtyaAngel , P'Gell , Lady Marmelade , Lithaewyn , qquisi , Joie de Cherresse , SoBlue , MaryExy , ellejay , cburger , Alexiaure , newfoundlust , padmeamidala , deletedacct , dks210 , jay28 , ksparkles16 , slynch , Katelyn , mpfm
84  (97%)
Total votes: 87
Poll is closed
11/26/2010
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Contributor: Sir Sir
I chose "try it all out" because I am alright with trying things out that I normally am not into. Generally speaking, though I know everything that I enjoy and I like to stay with those things. I know the things that I don't like because, most of the time, I've tried it out and found out that I don't like it on my own, so there's no reason to persist with it.
11/27/2010
Contributor: Tart Tart
I try it all! I won't know if I like it or not unless I try it. I have had so many wonderful experiences when I try a new toy or a new activity for the first time. It teaches me about my wants and needs, and if I don't like it, I stop it and I categorize it as an experience whether good or bad.
11/27/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by VanillaFreeSex
Most of us, if willing to admit, have fetishes. I think it is important to explore and not always focus on what you know for sure will do it for you.
I don't have a problem indulging a partner in their fetishes so long as they aren't involving children, animals, scat or urine. I don't have any specific thing that triggers erotic desire or that I need to have in order to maintain or achieve orgasm.
11/27/2010
Contributor: Trashley Trashley
I'm always down to try new stuff! Didn't think I'd like choking, but now I adore it :]
11/27/2010
Contributor: KnK KnK
I'm alright with trying new things, but even though that's the case, that doesn't mean I would try everything
11/30/2010
Contributor: HisLittleGirl HisLittleGirl
We are all about experimentation. The one thing I don't think we would ever try is me topping my partner. Other people, yes. But not him.
12/01/2010
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
Ha! So far 100% on try it all out. Loving that we are a bunch of pervs. Or should I say open minded.
12/02/2010
Contributor: CynicallyYours CynicallyYours
gotta love trying new things!
12/04/2010
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
We'll try most things (within reason) at least once.
12/26/2010
Contributor: rdytogo rdytogo
Like above, almost anything we will do once.
12/26/2010
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Most of the time, I say we can try everything twice, just to make sure (but there are always exceptions...)
12/26/2010
Contributor: Crystal1 Crystal1
I don't have a fetish, but I'm fairly open to trying new things.
12/31/2010
Contributor: C4ss C4ss
I like trying new things. It keeps everything more interesting.
12/31/2010
Contributor: leanright69 leanright69
My craving for new ways to play is always strong. Has kept our 25 years of marrage exciting and active. The key is communication and willingness to try.
12/31/2010
Contributor: Not here Not here
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
I don't have a problem indulging a partner in their fetishes so long as they aren't involving children, animals, scat or urine. I don't have any specific thing that triggers erotic desire or that I need to have in order to maintain or achieve orgasm.
I couldn't agree with this more. I'm definitely kinky and love to try new things, but I don't have any specific fetishes myself. My man has a foot fetish and I truly enjoy, so I suppose you could say he's passing it on to me in a way But, we definitely don't stick to just foot play in our play time.
12/31/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
dont ahve any feteshis but ill try anything once. then ill decide if i like it
12/31/2010
Contributor: Lady Neshamah Lady Neshamah
i'm up for trying anything once. and have even found some fetishes that i didn't know i had once i tried them out
01/01/2011
Contributor: VenusianThunder VenusianThunder
I will try anything once. I do have my certain "go to" fetishes though when I just want to get it done.
01/09/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
I'm open to almost anything. Don't knock it till you try it
01/10/2011
Contributor: erif957 erif957
Quote:
Originally posted by VanillaFreeSex
Most of us, if willing to admit, have fetishes. I think it is important to explore and not always focus on what you know for sure will do it for you.
I think its a good thing to keep an open mind... you know... try new ideas and who knows, maybe your 1 fetish will change to something else or become 2 fetishes
01/14/2011
Contributor: Josh aka FootMan Josh aka FootMan
I'd try ALMOST anything once
01/16/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
I definitely am into experimenting, especially because I am in my earlier stages of fetish in some respects. Also just cause I like experimenting!
01/16/2011
Contributor: tits only tits only
I will try new things as long the other person is not try to put me in hospital
01/20/2011
Contributor: OliviaKink OliviaKink
Trying new things, experimenting, and exploring is the spice of life! And fucking. Haha. Breaking skin and bathroom fluids (lol) are on my "dealbreaker" list, but that's about it. :3
01/26/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
I really like variety and experimentation. There are few things I'm not at least willing to try.
02/15/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
I have some lines I won't cross, but generally I'm all for experimentation. On an every-day level though, I generally stick with the tried and true.
02/15/2011
Contributor: Mr.RightNow Mr.RightNow
im always down to try new things
02/25/2011
Contributor: lkb lkb
How will you know for sure that you're not into something without real thought or trying it? I'm rarely apprehensive when it comes to trying new things.
03/05/2011
Contributor: UrNaughtyaAngel UrNaughtyaAngel
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
I don't have a problem indulging a partner in their fetishes so long as they aren't involving children, animals, scat or urine. I don't have any specific thing that triggers erotic desire or that I need to have in order to maintain or achieve orgasm.
Though I have not tried any fetishes yet I would have no problem trying any that like Airen Wolf said dind't include Children, animals, scat, urine or blood. I do enjoy dirty talk but do not need it to achieve orgasm though it helps
03/21/2011