I'm going to have to agree with Rockin up there that it's more of a two people matching thing over a size thing.
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04/12/2009
I think people matching is important. I don't have a lot of experience with different sizes, but I know I'm happy with the one my husband has ;-).
04/13/2009
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I'm not sure anyone was saying that the size of the penis doesn't matter in daily issues - at least I didn't take it that way. It seemed to me like most of us are in agreement that size pales in comparison when we are comfortable with an attentive and caring lover - emotional attachment usually being a plus. And that's how I feel. The size of my husband's cock is great for me and I totally understand when people say it feels like they are made to be together. But if we weren't in love, I probably would place more significance on his size as a factor in overall satisfaction.
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Rockin'
I'll shamelessly admit that the size of a guy's cock does matter to me. I'm in a committed relationship now, so this isn't a big deal to me anymore, but before this I kind of had an idea of a minimum size in my mind. I've only
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I'll shamelessly admit that the size of a guy's cock does matter to me. I'm in a committed relationship now, so this isn't a big deal to me anymore, but before this I kind of had an idea of a minimum size in my mind. I've only had sex with the guy I'm with now, so I can't say that some other size wouldn't have worked. I guess if a guy were great in every other way it'd be fine if he weren't packing it like a horse down there. I'm a really picky person, and I figured if I were going to be stringent about so many other things, he might as well also be well hung.
All that said, the size of his cock doesn't affect how we get along in day-to-day life. So I see where people are coming from with the "you don't have sex all the time" statements. It sure is nice in the bedroom, though. I think it's more important that the size of the guy and the size of the gal matches than either size individually.
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All that said, the size of his cock doesn't affect how we get along in day-to-day life. So I see where people are coming from with the "you don't have sex all the time" statements. It sure is nice in the bedroom, though. I think it's more important that the size of the guy and the size of the gal matches than either size individually.
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There's no "right" answer because all bodies are different and we all have unique preferences.
04/13/2009
Irisheyez
size does not matters, in fact I think as a woman who is really tight that I still would prefer average over something big. Average by the way is from 5" to 7" according to several studies done around the world that I've read.
Also if anything should be a factor it would be girth. This is because the sensitivity or gspot is near the very opening of the vagina so having something 9 inches is not required at all.
My boyfriend is the first guy I have been with, he is 5 1/2", and that can hurt for me at times.
There are times I wonder what it be like with a slightly bigger guy but then I am with my bf and just how we are with each other, there is no way size could substitute soul.
Also if anything should be a factor it would be girth. This is because the sensitivity or gspot is near the very opening of the vagina so having something 9 inches is not required at all.
My boyfriend is the first guy I have been with, he is 5 1/2", and that can hurt for me at times.
There are times I wonder what it be like with a slightly bigger guy but then I am with my bf and just how we are with each other, there is no way size could substitute soul.
05/08/2009
Personally for me its very important. I'm quite the fiery broad. I'll bring it up in an argument very quick if your smaller than normal and I have with a few ex's. Sexual satisfaction in a relationship is very important. You may intrigue your mate intellectually and romantically but if you don't physically then they will go else where. They may love you with every fiber of her being, But its the truth. A girl wants what a girl wants. A girl loves to get rattled around and stuck in a cart for the most amazing roller-coaster ride of her life. My husband is a bit bigger than the normal man and I can't measure it enough. He is 13 1/4th inches long and just a few centimeters off of 2 inches thick. The feeling of being literally stuffed with a hot throbbing member one of the most amazing feelings I have ever felt. If you yourself don't have enough length or girth as you would like or think you may be inadequate. ASK! If you have a healthy relationship you should be able to honestly as and receive an honest answer from your partner. There are plenty of things you can do to fix it. Enzyte is an amazing medication. There is also pumps, creams, extensions and even toys you can use to fill her up if you need to.
05/09/2009
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I think I would probably be skewered alive if I slept with a man that large.
Originally posted by
xDecadence
Personally for me its very important. I'm quite the fiery broad. I'll bring it up in an argument very quick if your smaller than normal and I have with a few ex's. Sexual satisfaction in a relationship is very important. You may intrigue
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Personally for me its very important. I'm quite the fiery broad. I'll bring it up in an argument very quick if your smaller than normal and I have with a few ex's. Sexual satisfaction in a relationship is very important. You may intrigue your mate intellectually and romantically but if you don't physically then they will go else where. They may love you with every fiber of her being, But its the truth. A girl wants what a girl wants. A girl loves to get rattled around and stuck in a cart for the most amazing roller-coaster ride of her life. My husband is a bit bigger than the normal man and I can't measure it enough. He is 13 1/4th inches long and just a few centimeters off of 2 inches thick. The feeling of being literally stuffed with a hot throbbing member one of the most amazing feelings I have ever felt. If you yourself don't have enough length or girth as you would like or think you may be inadequate. ASK! If you have a healthy relationship you should be able to honestly as and receive an honest answer from your partner. There are plenty of things you can do to fix it. Enzyte is an amazing medication. There is also pumps, creams, extensions and even toys you can use to fill her up if you need to.
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Toys with a 5-6" insertable and a 1 5/8" diameter is MORE than enough for me.
I'm very petite though. I want to be filled up to what I can comfortably handle, and nothing more.
I do agree with others who said it's an issue of compatibility.
05/09/2009
To answer the notion that sex may not be as pleasurable if the penis doesn't "go in far": not necessarily true. Most of the nerves are around the entrance of the vagina. Some women do like the feeling of being completely full, of course, but for me, that always came more from thickness than length.
05/10/2009
What really excites me is being in love with a man. If not in love, I don't want to have sex with him. If I love someone, the love is unconditional, I love everything about him, and want to have lots of sex with him. If not, I find him to be irritating, and don't want to have sex with him. I don't care if he has 10 inches. What is attractive to me is a sexy man. An example of a sexy man is Gilles on "Dancing With The Stars"- lol. His body movements are sexy. He emanates sexiness. I had a man like that, he emanated sexiness. He drove me crazy. He told me that women told him that he was oversexed, but I loved him the way that he was.
05/18/2009
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It matters to a point. I'm lucky I married well But it really truely is how it is used, and how well your partner pleases you in general.
Originally posted by
Christian
I think my question is more lady-oriented ..just wanna know how important is the size of the penis for a good relationship?
11/27/2010
not important but only up to a point. if he has a baby penis, prob not ganna work. but theres several ways of plesing your partner without having sex.
11/27/2010
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Relationship, no. Sex, no. A large one helps, but isn't necessary for satisfaction.
Originally posted by
Christian
I think my question is more lady-oriented ..just wanna know how important is the size of the penis for a good relationship?
11/27/2010
kendycane
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Big or small, it doesn't matter, as long as you don't use it as a weapon. If your lady has a complaint I suggest browsing this website. I sometimes wish a guy's dick would vibrate, but y'all might pop a vessel or something and that would be tragic.
Originally posted by
Christian
I think my question is more lady-oriented ..just wanna know how important is the size of the penis for a good relationship?
01/03/2011
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Funny!
Originally posted by
Betty Rocket
I recently had a MFM with a well endowed man. He had a GINORMOUS 10 inch cock, and my cunt ran SCREAMING. Big dicks are extremely overrated. Fun to look at, but so's a lion at the zoo. I think it really depends more on who the cock is attached to
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I recently had a MFM with a well endowed man. He had a GINORMOUS 10 inch cock, and my cunt ran SCREAMING. Big dicks are extremely overrated. Fun to look at, but so's a lion at the zoo. I think it really depends more on who the cock is attached to then what size it is.
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05/02/2011
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this. There are a lot more factors than just size.
Originally posted by
Magician
I'm going to have to agree with Rockin up there that it's more of a two people matching thing over a size thing.
09/27/2011
i'm actually averaged sized buy my wife's vagina is on the smaller side so if we haven't had sex for a while we have to take it easy or it hurts her.
09/28/2011
i don't have enough experience to really know yet, except its cool if they have a large penis.
03/12/2012
I really couldn't care less about size, tbh.. If they're comfortable with what they've got, it makes me happy enough.
03/13/2012
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thats not fair. what about gay & bi guys
Originally posted by
Christian
I think my question is more lady-oriented ..just wanna know how important is the size of the penis for a good relationship?
03/13/2012
it kinda' matters, but it's way down on the list
03/15/2012
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how he uses it is most important
Originally posted by
Christian
I think my question is more lady-oriented ..just wanna know how important is the size of the penis for a good relationship?
12/16/2012
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hubby is average size and he takes care of me very well
Originally posted by
Christian
I think my question is more lady-oriented ..just wanna know how important is the size of the penis for a good relationship?
01/16/2013
In my experience larger women like bigger dicks.
09/15/2019
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My immediate response is how does a guy use what he has? For me, way more important then size.
Originally posted by
Christian
I think my question is more lady-oriented ..just wanna know how important is the size of the penis for a good relationship?
I have been with guys with big dicks, the way they used them, I felt like I was being impailed! Not fun on pleasurable.....
09/15/2019
Larger women love giant cock, it's no secrete. Truth be told, larger women are more fun!
09/15/2019
Bigger hips accommodate bigger cock.
09/15/2019
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In my opinion, it's what your partner is willing to do with what he has, and not how much he has. Don't get me wrong--I love the feeling that comes with larger girth (which is what I focus on more than length when shopping for dildos). But I would rather have a partner that listens to me and learns what I like and what it takes for me to orgasm. And he can use his penis and his fingers and his mouth and our toys, and we both enjoy the experience because it makes us feel closer.
Originally posted by
Christian
I think my question is more lady-oriented ..just wanna know how important is the size of the penis for a good relationship?
09/15/2019
Speaking as a versatile bi guy I can say that if I’m on the receiving end, the bigger the better.
09/15/2019
Despite the majority of people claims that size is not the issue, I think the size matters. While the small size can be compensated with other sexual techniques and sex toys, large penises that can't be accommodated could be a real problem. One of my friends broke up with her boyfriend because he had a very long and thick cock, and couldn't take it.
09/17/2019
I've never been with someone that was too small for me. I have been with someone too large. It was not an experience I wanted to repeat. When giving him a blowjob it was less of a turn on because deep throating was impossible for me. I couldn't take it all in. Nor could I vaginally. It was just not something I can work with. Whereas if the size seems a little unfulfilling you can switch up positions to make it do deeper.
09/23/2019
Croc
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'switch up positions '
Originally posted by
VanillaFreeSex
I've never been with someone that was too small for me. I have been with someone too large. It was not an experience I wanted to repeat. When giving him a blowjob it was less of a turn on because deep throating was impossible for me. I
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I've never been with someone that was too small for me. I have been with someone too large. It was not an experience I wanted to repeat. When giving him a blowjob it was less of a turn on because deep throating was impossible for me. I couldn't take it all in. Nor could I vaginally. It was just not something I can work with. Whereas if the size seems a little unfulfilling you can switch up positions to make it do deeper.
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how?
09/27/2019