We were actually just talking about this the other night. I think we're either going to add another guy, or possible get together with a couple.
Would you ever consider adding a third to spice things up?
04/28/2011
Maybe another boy.
04/29/2011
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Yes but it would have to be someone that we both liked and boundaries were set ahead of time
Originally posted by
tammyandy69
How many people are open to this idea
04/29/2011
I've been getting more and more interested everyday!I want a girlfriend! and to have a third join i would want him to make it fair by saying he wouldn't mind if we added a dude ... i don't want to cause i got all the man I need and love!! but it would be more excepting if he didn't mind considering he would have another girl to have fun with!
05/06/2011
I don't think so.
05/06/2011
no ,i dont like the idea of sharing at all
05/07/2011
Yes, we did and it was awesome.
05/07/2011
We just recently started adding another for a change of pace, we really like couples a lot.
05/08/2011
We have had full swaps with other couples and threesomes with males and females. I personally like a threesome MFM better. Women have sometimes brought unnecessary drama into my partnership. I wonder about a woman's motives for being with a couple?? Men are a bit more easy to deal with.
You didn't offer an answer for someone that has tried it and would do it again, but you should have...
You didn't offer an answer for someone that has tried it and would do it again, but you should have...
05/08/2011
No thank you. Not for me.
05/08/2011
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We would probably add another woman to spice things up at this point but not sure about another man. I would have at one time but probably not now.
Originally posted by
tammyandy69
How many people are open to this idea
05/08/2011
Only as a serious last resort if all other attempts at rekindling my relationship had fallen flat. I really don't think my marriage will ever come to that, and I hope it doesn't; there's certainly no way I'd even consider it and all the emotional baggage it would carry if it weren't a real emergency.
05/08/2011
I am bisexual and I've been with a couple in the past. I would love to have a threesome with my boyfriend, but every girl we proposition either isn't into girls (and he wont just be with her and let me watch) or she just isn't into threesomes. So the search continues...
05/08/2011
NOPE. I will echo the sentiment others have posted: I don't share. Period.
I don't want to engage in sexual activity with a man other than my husband. I don't want my husband to engage in sexual activity with someone else. If he wants to fantasize about it, fine--that doesn't bother me in the least. But it will stay in the realm of fantasy. Even if I wanted to try it for the experience itself, the aftermath would be too unpredictable.
I don't want to engage in sexual activity with a man other than my husband. I don't want my husband to engage in sexual activity with someone else. If he wants to fantasize about it, fine--that doesn't bother me in the least. But it will stay in the realm of fantasy. Even if I wanted to try it for the experience itself, the aftermath would be too unpredictable.
05/10/2011
nooo way
05/12/2011
Yes, we have a live in "female friend" we call her "the third" lol. She's been around for about a year but none of us consider it to be a long term thing. I do warn any of you considering such, that you should think hard first. We set alot of rules going into this and he has not really been able to stick to them ... like emotional attachment and whatnot can make things messy really fast ... or when lies come into play.
05/12/2011
05/16/2011
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I would and have actually thought about it the only thing preventing it is insecurities i have about myself.
Originally posted by
tammyandy69
How many people are open to this idea
05/26/2011
We have had threesomes for spice but I prefer something more substantial and Sigel likes the ease of knowing our partner is clean and safe around the kids....and he likes having someone else to "deal" with me! (His words >.<)
05/26/2011
It's in the distant future for us, we both like the idea but are very happy without a 3rd in the bedroom right now. Someday, absolutely. We're most interested in bringing another guy in but haven't totally closed the possibility of another lass.
05/26/2011
It's a good fantasy but in reality it would only happen if I was single.
05/26/2011
I would get jealous regardless of planning & boundaries~ i guess i'm selfish for wanting a partner all to myself.
05/26/2011
Just couldn't do it, sex is more then "just" sex to me, and it would kill me to SEE my husband with another person. But to each their own !
05/27/2011
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I have been interested in this, but this is something my husband is not interested in AT ALL! Guess I should be be glad that he is cool with toys.
Originally posted by
tammyandy69
How many people are open to this idea
05/28/2011
Yes with a guy
05/28/2011
Both my boyfriend and I really want to have a threesome with another girl. The huge problem is - who!? I always hear that doing it with a friend is an awful idea, and I can definitely understand that. But at the same time, I wouldn't want a stranger either because of diseases and not being comfortable with them. So I'm not sure that it will ever happen but I really want it to.
05/31/2011
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It's hard to find one right!? I actually know a girl who I'm ok friends with and we are both into the idea of a threesome and have kissed each other, but both have boyfriends who don't want their girlfriend being used in someone else's threesome. Ugh.
Originally posted by
salaciousrex
I am bisexual and I've been with a couple in the past. I would love to have a threesome with my boyfriend, but every girl we proposition either isn't into girls (and he wont just be with her and let me watch) or she just isn't into
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I am bisexual and I've been with a couple in the past. I would love to have a threesome with my boyfriend, but every girl we proposition either isn't into girls (and he wont just be with her and let me watch) or she just isn't into threesomes. So the search continues...
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05/31/2011
Too jealous of a person
06/01/2011
Im very interested in adding a third or a couple to our sex life in some fashion, maybe slowly at first. The sex of the other is not a big deal as long as we could both enjoy it.
06/15/2011
umm my man is MY man thats one thing i've never been open to share and i know he thinks the same about me.
06/15/2011