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Contributor: Cynthia Jordan Cynthia Jordan
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me and my husband come up with the strangish questions before bed and this is one

would you consider this cheating if your husband had sex with you and your possessed or if you have multiple personality disorder like I do?
02/21/2013
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Contributor: js250 js250
It depends on what was worked out in the beginning of the relationship as far as the personality vs. relationship. If you are both okay with it and the fact that ultimately it is your body and an extension of who you are then no--but if you feel completely disassociated and would feel violated, then yes.
02/22/2013
Contributor: Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
I think that if you have multiple personality disorder, you need to set some ground rules at the beginning of a relationship so your partner knows what to expect and doesn't unintentionally do anything to make you feel violated or otherwise uncomfortable.

That being said, I think even if your partner violated your trust by breaking said ground rules, I wouldn't view it as cheating. They were having sex with your body and a personality that is at least a part or aspect of you. So not cheating, but not necessarily the right thing to do either.
02/22/2013
Contributor: evie.amor evie.amor
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Originally posted by js250
It depends on what was worked out in the beginning of the relationship as far as the personality vs. relationship. If you are both okay with it and the fact that ultimately it is your body and an extension of who you are then no--but if you feel ... more
Agreed. If you felt you weren't there and you had no recollection of the incidence.. I don't know if I'd consider it cheating but I would call it extremely violating.
02/23/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
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Originally posted by js250
It depends on what was worked out in the beginning of the relationship as far as the personality vs. relationship. If you are both okay with it and the fact that ultimately it is your body and an extension of who you are then no--but if you feel ... more
Wow, very well said! And interesting question as well!
02/23/2013
Contributor: TheWickedOne TheWickedOne
Mentally yes, physically no...This is a question we have actually talked about before. Essentially, cheating is having sexual relations with another human being. If your intimate with the same person, then we believe its cheat free. Then again how would a multiple personality catch their significant other cheating if its with them. Its really falls on the mentally stable spouse. In some causes its a turn on.
02/25/2013
Contributor: snowminx snowminx
No, you're still the same person, even if you have different personalities you're still you.
03/23/2013
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
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Originally posted by Cynthia Jordan
me and my husband come up with the strangish questions before bed and this is one

would you consider this cheating if your husband had sex with you and your possessed or if you have multiple personality disorder like I do?
IMO no its not cheating.
03/23/2013
Contributor: dancingduo dancingduo
Trying to view it from his perspective...absolute ly not. It might be hard to pick up the "switch".
03/29/2013
Contributor: mandaj mandaj
I wouldn't think of it as cheating !?
04/24/2013
Contributor: rosythorn rosythorn
Yea I don:t think so.
04/24/2013
Contributor: Kodie Kodie
cheating, no. would I be mad, yes. would I feel violated, yes. Bad for our relationship yes.
06/24/2013
Contributor: mrsD mrsD
Referring to the multiple personalities then yes and no. If he started to prefer one of your 'alternates' over you.. I would see that as cheating. If he was unaware of the change in personality when you were having sex then no i dont see that as cheating.
08/07/2013
Contributor: Thong man Thong man
No, I just hope he gets both your name and your other personalities names right during sex. That could be awkward if not.
08/07/2013
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Cynthia Jordan
me and my husband come up with the strangish questions before bed and this is one

would you consider this cheating if your husband had sex with you and your possessed or if you have multiple personality disorder like I do?
Even if you have ten personalities, every one of those ten is still "you", thus how on earth can he be cheating, when he is in bed with YOU??? Nope, not cheating in my book. Hubby agrees.
08/09/2013
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Kodie
cheating, no. would I be mad, yes. would I feel violated, yes. Bad for our relationship yes.
How can you be mad at the guy, who does not know which "personality" ; might come out that night. He is in bed with his wife. He is being her hubby...no matter which "character" pops out. It would be as if the guy were married to a manic depressive person. Would you get mad because he made love when she was one way, not the other?
08/09/2013
Contributor: Sirena Sirena
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Originally posted by js250
It depends on what was worked out in the beginning of the relationship as far as the personality vs. relationship. If you are both okay with it and the fact that ultimately it is your body and an extension of who you are then no--but if you feel ... more
You put that so perfectly. That is exactly what I was about to say.
08/12/2013
Contributor: mfmtrios mfmtrios
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Originally posted by Cynthia Jordan
me and my husband come up with the strangish questions before bed and this is one

would you consider this cheating if your husband had sex with you and your possessed or if you have multiple personality disorder like I do?
no, I believe not.

If you are talking demonic possession, I cannot imagine that you would be having sex.

If you have multiple personalities then you still have one vagina!
08/14/2013