I have a 7 inch dildo that I used in a very erotic way on my wife. We got into the 69 position with her on top and I started licking and sucking a dildo getting nice and slippery then slid it into her vagina while I was licking her labia lips and clitoris at the same time. She was getting quite turned on but I added a finger in her rear end then she really took off. She was getting stimulated three different ways at the same time and she had a blasting orgasm. We tried this several times and it always worked. I liked pulling that dildo out of her pussy and licking off all of her come afterwards. Her juices helped the dildo slide all the way down my throat without choking. less

It's great when you are both open and ready to add new things to your sexual life What big dildos do you use?

My boyfriend loves to use the Mega dildo on me sometimes when we're both super horny. less

As a man who was once in your position - I offer the following:

1. With my wife there was a progression from accepting clitoral vibes - to vibes that could be used for penetration - then to non-vibrating dildos. After experiencing the benefits - my wife is very enthusiastic about using them.

2. We switch - I always use the dildos and other toys to give my wife from 1-3 orgasms before I go for a climax. This way, how long I last is of little consequence - and it's often the case that she has another orgasm while I'm having mine. There is a book written about this technique. "She Comes First" link. They use to sell the book on EF - but I can't find it now - this is an Amazon link.

Just as an example - my wife had Thanksgiving week off and we went wild. She had 16 orgasms in 5 days - compared to just 4 for me. I just consider it the payoff for women giving birth and dealing with a life time of periods.

3. I have found with age PM is no longer a problem. In fact reduced sensitivity now makes orgasms for me a hit-or-miss proposition. Enjoy what you have - and let her go first. less

I am married and at times I end up cumming too fast and the wife is not done yet. We have a few toys but no dildos, so my question is what do you ladies think about a man buying a dildo, a softer realistic type, to use to finish her off with some good ole hard thrusting. Too weird? less

I am married and at times I end up cumming too fast and the wife is not done yet. We have a few toys but no dildos, so my question is what do you ladies think about a man buying a dildo, a softer realistic type, to use to finish her off with some good ole hard thrusting. Too weird? less

Im 58, my girlfriend is 56.
We have a decent sex life - although busy a lot....
I have known her for 2 years.
She has been through 2 HELL relationships and has 2 older girls and my wife passed 3 years ago.

I recently bought a quality small vibrator and a very nice lace lingerie for her. She is timid at times but we are in love and trusting. Sometimes she is very apprehensive about trying new "things" in our love making - I think fearful that this new boyfriend is going to get wierd and kinky....

I only want to please her. I dont think she has had an orgasim in years - and she has subtly noted it to me. She forgets what its like.

I want to introduce this vibrator to her/us but I dont want to offend her or disrespect her. I keep thinking.... "Just wait till foreply and sex and then politely suggest it...."
I dont know. I dont want to turn her off and I am sensitive to her feelings. Any thoughts as to how to introduce this new approach?

Just do it?

And I dont want to be sneaky about it and make her think I was planning some perverse adventure all along that she thinks I did with me wife years ago.
Its a tough one.

Yeah, it would turn me on much, but I just want to please her and let her experience something new and orgasmic - without offending.

Is that possible? ? !!

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Im 58, my girlfriend is 56.
We have a decent sex life - although busy a lot....
I have known her for 2 years.
She has been through 2 HELL relationships and has 2 older girls and my wife passed 3 years ago.

I recently bought a quality small vibrator and a very nice lace lingerie for her. She is timid at times but we are in love and trusting. Sometimes she is very apprehensive about trying new "things" in our love making - I think fearful that this new boyfriend is going to get wierd and kinky....

I only want to please her. I dont think she has had an orgasim in years - and she has subtly noted it to me. She forgets what its like.

I want to introduce this vibrator to her/us but I dont want to offend her or disrespect her. I keep thinking.... "Just wait till foreply and sex and then politely suggest it...."
I dont know. I dont want to turn her off and I am sensitive to her feelings. Any thoughts as to how to introduce this new approach?

Just do it?

And I dont want to be sneaky about it and make her think I was planning some perverse adventure all along that she thinks I did with me wife years ago.
Its a tough one.

Yeah, it would turn me on much, but I just want to please her and let her experience something new and orgasmic - without offending.

Is that possible? ? !!

Thanks less

No, it is not weird to finish her off using a dildo. I'm curious...do you two do a lot of foreplay? Rather than using a dildo to finish her off after you cum, how about giving her some fabulous foreplay by stimulating her G-spot with a dildo or vibrator (along with great oral), and then use your cock to finish the job and climax together? I don't know what other ladies like, but I prefer to orgasm with my husband's cock inside me instead of with a toy, as the feeling is much more intense and intimate. And you should ask your wife what her preference is, when it comes to determining the firmness of a dildo, because she's the one being pleasured by it. less

I've always enjoyed my wife using her vibrator. and I love to lick her clit . recently while licking her.
she put her toy between
her clit and my tongue and said keep licking.im cuming. giving her an orgasm is allways good. and I found i really liked licking on toy dick and clit. would love to hear comments thanks less

I have a hard time imagining your scenario - without my teeth chattering

My wife has become quite the vibe aficionado. One of her favorites I called her 3-some - it consisted of a vibrating butt plug, the Fun Factory Big Boss vaginally and her favorite wand on her clit

I upped the ante recently be getting a 4th vibre in the act it was the WeVibe Tango that I stroked along her labia while thrusting the Big Boss - it's a good thing the butt vibe stays in-place freeing up one hand for the 4th vibe! less

I have a hard time imagining your scenario - without my teeth chattering

My wife has become quite the vibe aficionado. One of her favorites I called her 3-some - it consisted of a vibrating butt plug, the Fun Factory Big Boss vaginally and her favorite wand on her clit

I upped the ante recently be getting a 4th vibre in the act it was the WeVibe Tango that I stroked along her labia while thrusting the Big Boss - it's a good thing the butt vibe stays in-place freeing up one hand for the 4th vibe! less

I love that you call it her threesome! I personally, enjoy reading erotica that involves multiple partners, reverse harems specifically, there is definitely something to the fantasy of a woman being adored and pleasured by multiple partners. However, I am strictly monogamous and faithful to my spouse. Having multiple partners is not an option or an interest. However... with toys, the options truly are limitless! less