My wife and I are thinking about getting back into "the lifestyle" after having had a child. We've experienced mff threesomes but we have never entered into any couple play. We have some friends who are not only into the lifestyle but also run a website that caters to that scene as well as hosts parties.

We're gonna try to be smart about things, take it slow in order to have a safe and fun time. Has anyone here engaged in wife swapping or been to any swinger parties? What was your experience like? What were some concerns you had when you started? What were/are some of your rules of conduct with your significant other?