What worked in the past for me was to get back to the beginning. Make an effort to compliment your partner sincerely, do special things for them unexpectedly, grab a small-under $5-gift for them a couple times a week for no reason, be extra thoughtful of their needs or wants and spoil them for a night with no demands.

If you make your partner feel sexy and desirable, it will definitely boost your sex life and add some spark. The same goes if you feel good and get in a sexy mood. Sexy is in the mind--the more you think on it without acting, the hotter sex can get. Remember when you first got together and really wanted to...but there were reasons not to? Then when you did it was white hot and over the top.....