What next?

Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
I have $100 in gift cards and points, not to mention my holiday coupon to use! I'm trying to decide if I want to spend my hard-earned dollars and points on one new, high end vibe or on several smaller end things such as a hand-selected fantasy kit (like with lingerie and stuff to fulfill one of My Mister's BDSM fantasies... along with a couple extra things...). So tell me what you'd pick and why!
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
High End Vibe, possibly a Lelo
Gunsmoke , SexyTabby , DeliciousSurprise , P'Gell , Lady Venus , Waterfall , Keegski , RubenesqueAna , Persephone's Addiction , Taylor , Harlequin , Peaches2kinky , VenusianThunder , That Guy , mrs.mckrakn , indiglo , Airekah , Tart , dbtracy , Kaltir , mistermasterman , Carrots , loveshocks , Purpleladybug , girl next door , Hallmar82 , Blooddragon , *Ashley* , nicky51679 , zeebot , hjtee , w-o-name , DrNike69 , MrRainybowbow , cujo467 , Stinkytofu10 , Beck , leelee , Gone (LD29) , DiamondKoala , Istanbull , November , bayosgirl , BlooJay , sexykiss , Lavendar , sexxxkitten , MissCandyland , TheirPet , Rawr4483 , rockblenny , Rory , sexytileena / absolutely love sex , potstickers , AK Bunny
55  (65%)
Fantasy Kit Plus!
Tori Rebel , PussyGalore , Kindred , J's Alley , ZenaidaMacroura , null , leatherlover , Darling Jen , Shumway , Danielle1220 , removedacnt , C4ss , Cammie ♥ , Lummox , Chevylady37 , BadassFatass , Purplecupcake99 , pookalicious , jankit , claudius , neon , babypinecone , Bonesdance , Ilovelingerie , wetone123 , pirata , milfstatus
27  (32%)
Other.....
Master DarkWolf , MamaDivine , SneakersAndPearls
3  (4%)
Total votes: 85
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Contributor: Kindred Kindred
It depends on what your goal is with your purchase. If it is primarily for yourself, then lavish yourself with a high end vibe if you would otherwise not treat yourself to one.

If you're looking for something more geared towards sharing with your husband, then the fantasy kit sounds great. I am preparing a bunch of items as a gift for my wife including the Wedge, We-Vibe 2, the Contour M, an Afterglow candle, massage balm, and some books. I tried to get mostly items that would pamper her, but that could be used together. I voted for shared items
12/13/2010
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by Kindred
It depends on what your goal is with your purchase. If it is primarily for yourself, then lavish yourself with a high end vibe if you would otherwise not treat yourself to one.

If you're looking for something more geared towards sharing ... more
And ordinarily I wouldn't do either of those things, as if it weren't for points and gift cards, I would not be able to do any of this! But I have been leaning towards the fantasy kit. Which includes lingerie, the UTB restraints, a crop, blindfold all for him AND the Harmonia (which is on sale and I cannot pass it up!) and I was going to do a new piece of glass, but might switch that for the plug I've been eyeing.

It would cost me nothing out of pocket and that is a huge list of nice items for a great discount and a great treat!
12/13/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
When you get some resources together - it's nice to get something that would normally be out of your price range. However, if it were me, I'd be doing a lot of research to make sure the toy is going to work for you - or your partner - maybe both.

Not every review is applicable to you. Most of us have read enough reviews to know which reviewers have similar tastes and styles - it's not just about stars! Read with a critical eye to see what fits your needs.
12/13/2010
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
When you get some resources together - it's nice to get something that would normally be out of your price range. However, if it were me, I'd be doing a lot of research to make sure the toy is going to work for you - or your partner - maybe ... more
The lingerie is going to be hit or miss anyway. I'm not picking things based on stars. And almost everything else is stuff I've been pondering for a while.

I really want to try a Lelo, but I can save up points and video (and Cafe) gift cards for that. I'm thinking: It's Christmas and this is something we will both enjoy. The restraints will get LOTS of use!
12/13/2010
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
When you get some resources together - it's nice to get something that would normally be out of your price range. However, if it were me, I'd be doing a lot of research to make sure the toy is going to work for you - or your partner - maybe ... more
Thanks for the vote and the advice though!
12/13/2010
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
I bought it. Thanks for helping confirm the direction I was already leaning. It actually did cost me about $6.00 out of pocket, but when you buy $140 worth of products.... I'll take it!!! I LOVE this place!
12/13/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Quote:
Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
I have $100 in gift cards and points, not to mention my holiday coupon to use! I'm trying to decide if I want to spend my hard-earned dollars and points on one new, high end vibe or on several smaller end things such as a hand-selected fantasy ... more
Wait, Gary sent out the holiday coupons?
12/13/2010
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by Illusional
Wait, Gary sent out the holiday coupons?
uh, yeah. 30% off! Check your junk box and then if it's not there email him or submit a ticket.
12/13/2010
Contributor: J's Alley J's Alley
When I do huge orders with coupons I get the small stuff I would ordinarily pass on. The LELO stuff may go on sale at some point, so I don't stress it too much. I am even throwing in some candles for my sisters for Christmas thanks to EFs amazing coupon.
12/13/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Make sure you look at all the high end vibes, like the Fun Factory and others.

My Man and I have gotten good use out of the Sports Sheets Cuffs and Tether set. It's inexpensive enough that you could pick out your own dil or vibe and lingerie also. This set has good quality metal links and O rings, and is perfect for those just starting out in Bondage or even those well acquainted with it. IMO, it's the top of the line in "Introduction to Bondage" with or without the S&M stuff. It isn't leather, but it's good quality.

Sport Cuffs and Tether
12/13/2010
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by P'Gell
Make sure you look at all the high end vibes, like the Fun Factory and others.

My Man and I have gotten good use out of the Sports Sheets Cuffs and Tether set. It's inexpensive enough that you could pick out your own dil or vibe and ... more
I, personally, don't call the Harmonia a low-end vibe. A lot of people love the deep hook, which is something I need, so I'm really excited about it! And it's on sale!!!!
12/13/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Illusional
Wait, Gary sent out the holiday coupons?
I'll have to email him
12/13/2010
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
Quote:
Originally posted by Illusional
I'll have to email him
You email JR and be sure to tell him your reviewer rank. The discount is based on rank
12/13/2010
Contributor: Darling Jen Darling Jen
Quote:
Originally posted by Kindred
It depends on what your goal is with your purchase. If it is primarily for yourself, then lavish yourself with a high end vibe if you would otherwise not treat yourself to one.

If you're looking for something more geared towards sharing ... more
My thoughts exactly!

Plus, the coupon code is best for orders with many items since it applies to everything in the cart. But the edenpoints/gift cards help a single luxury item price come down into the world of 'reasonable'. So it's all about what you want the most!
12/13/2010
Contributor: Shumway Shumway
I'd go for the kit definitely... for me personally my wife and I are wanting to get into more dom/sub stuff and that would make a great gift.. and add a real fantasy element to your holiday
12/14/2010
Contributor: Shumway Shumway
Quote:
Originally posted by Kindred
You email JR and be sure to tell him your reviewer rank. The discount is based on rank
damn.. the discount must be insane for the top reviewers since mine was 30% which I was extremely happy with
12/14/2010
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by Shumway
damn.. the discount must be insane for the top reviewers since mine was 30% which I was extremely happy with
that's what I thought.
12/14/2010
Contributor: Jobthingy Jobthingy
Quote:
Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
I bought it. Thanks for helping confirm the direction I was already leaning. It actually did cost me about $6.00 out of pocket, but when you buy $140 worth of products.... I'll take it!!! I LOVE this place!
YAY! You can wrap it all and put it under the tree.. late xmas night
12/14/2010
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
I love putting together a kit for a night of Fantasy! I've done it many times.
12/14/2010
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
my UTB restraints are on backorder. This will make hubby so sad. Especially since I have a new wrist restraint from Sportsheets I wanted to try out on them. *sigh*
12/14/2010
Contributor: Chevylady37 Chevylady37
use your points for something that you will enjoy and have fun with. I'm just now getting my husband interested in this site after i made him sit with me and look at it and i'm going to make my own fantasy kit for him for valentines day
01/15/2011
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
01/17/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I'm in a similar position. Just treat yourself! I say go for something big, because you can always save your points up again pretty quickly for smaller items, but it will take a long time to get that point total high enough again to get something like a Lelo.
01/18/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by indiglo
I'm in a similar position. Just treat yourself! I say go for something big, because you can always save your points up again pretty quickly for smaller items, but it will take a long time to get that point total high enough again to get ... more
actually, it doesn't take that long if you write for Eden Cafe and do video reviews. Those combined with points.... easy peasy.
01/19/2011
Contributor: dbtracy dbtracy
I would have opted for the swing
01/21/2011
Contributor: Purpleladybug Purpleladybug
I say Lelo or a Wedge.
02/14/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by Purpleladybug
I say Lelo or a Wedge.
Funny! This was from Christmas, BUT for Valentine's Day I got the MiMi (not LELO, but Je Joue and it should be here tomorrow/today) and the Liberator wedge!
02/14/2011
Contributor: girl next door girl next door
I say mimi by je joue. I love mine!
02/14/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by girl next door
I say mimi by je joue. I love mine!
it's on it's way.... this thread is old now!
02/14/2011