I know this is posted under "spicing up a marriage" and, while I'm not married, sex toys have helped me to explore my body and what "feels good" to me. I've also begun exploring things together with my partner and he's enjoying my toys as much as I am. He gets a kick out of using them on me and it enhances our experience together in the bedroom.

Sex toys have rocked my life so far and I hope they continue to do so

I agree Airen! And thank you very much! I'm glad you enjoyed it.

My sex toys have helped me to explore my own sexuality, and they have allowed me to break free from many barriers that were holding me back in my life, believe it or not! And now that I have a partner I have been able to share this "hobby" with him. We will be able to explore our sex life together and I'm sure it will be a wonderful part of our relationship together!


*off to read article*

I'm glad I'm not the only one who has learned new tricks from their toys.

Hope you enjoy it Cherryredhead88!

They've taught me how to find out what I like (and don't like), and how to experiment and have fun

How to be open with myself and my husband, showing us both that its fine to be yourself and have fun and kinky and silly and feel damn good while doing it!!!!

In the beginning it was about being in control of my own orgasms and saving fingerpower. But my toys have taught me I'm a whole lot more kinky than I thought I was. Now I'm always wanting to try something different. I'm far less perplexed by my pussy too (we're good friends now). I have a higher level of sexual assertiveness because I know a lot more about my body.

I strongly identify as a feminist now, even though I used to be a lot more reserved about that kind of thing. It's mainly through realising how my sexuality, and female sexuality in general, has been held back by society. I don't think I'd feel that strongly without my toy collection. It made me think about how what I was doing wasn't the norm, and then I thought, why?

I feel better in my own skin; not so worried about being percieved as either 'good' or 'bad'. Doing something I want to do even though it is a little bit taboo lets me know that I have the power to create what I want in my life. Knowing that gives me confidence in other areas of my life too.

It has taught me that I am sexxxxxualy uninhibted than the average person.

There are many things out there that I had no idea that were out there. Sharing those slowing with my partner without freaking her out is something that has been a constant challenge.

Experimentation, exploration, and a bunch of excitement. Oh, and that I may very well have a slight "addiction" to them. That or a very passionate "hobby" of sorts.

Sex toys taught me a lot of things:

- To accept myself as a sexual human being.

- To begin to accept and appreciate my body.

- To discover what feels good to me and to know my body better.

- To enjoy my body and my sexual feelings without feeling guilty or ashamed.

They have helped me learn what I desire sexually,where my g-spot is and so much more.

Solo, they are fun. With a partner, they are fun. I find something new every day, and I know how to please myself.