What do you do to spice up your relationship?

Contributor: never shy never shy
What do you do to spice up your relationship/marriage to make it work or make it better?
03/20/2013
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Contributor: married with children married with children
we do alot of things. Lingerie and toys spice up the bedroom. Dates spice up everything else.
03/20/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by never shy
What do you do to spice up your relationship/marriage to make it work or make it better?
At just 24 I'm surprised at this question. In our 20s and even 30s things were exciting enough without undertaking anything out of the ordinary.

But since you asked - and we've been at this for more than 20 years, I can offer a couple of suggestions.

Make dates - both social and sexual

Don't wait until the weekend to have sex

Have a lot of contact including massage - both soothing & intimate

Find out your partners fantasies and find a way to make some of them happen

Let him know your fantasies and help him find a way to make them happen

Add spice - lingerie, candles, incense, mood lighting & music

Toys (vibes & dildos), lubes, anal play/sex, pegging, light restraints (blindfolds & cuffs), light impact (crops and slappers), etc
03/21/2013
Contributor: Msmueller Msmueller
we text about the things we'd like to try... send emails of toys and lingerie we'd like to try then order what we need and the anticipation building up to the event is great!!!
03/22/2013
Contributor: dancingduo dancingduo
We try to do different things...but honestly sometimes we feel against a clock with how busy we are (running a business is like that).

so I am also eager to hear more suggestions.
03/29/2013
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
We use toys and lingerie.
04/02/2013