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Contributor: Sasha Dreams Sasha Dreams
What's the best approach to ask him that I want to add another men?
09/06/2014
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Contributor: edeneve edeneve
maybe if you brought up the topic in general along w/ some other activities to see if he's even open to discussing it. you may open it up for discussion to share what each of you think. by bringing in other possible activities, you just might open open up a dialog about them too.
09/06/2014
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Sasha Dreams
What's the best approach to ask him that I want to add another men?
In another post you say your boyfriend gets jealous if you "enjoy another penis in a movie". I assume he means if you indicate a guys penis in a video is "desirable" in some way. If he gets jealous at that, it would strongly suggest that he is not going to be interested in having another man actually in the room "doing you"! You might want to think this one through a bit more. Besides, this is one fantasy that maybe left in your head, rather then brought into reality, as the interpersonal dynamics of such threesomes has caused more then one relationship to go bad. Why not have him use a toy on you, as he is pleasuring you with his penis, and that way you can live out the "double penetration" fantasy, with no relationship repercussions? Why not shop here, on EF, together and let him pick out the toy to use on you, thus brining him firmly into the game with no hurt feelings? Just my two cents worth.
09/07/2014
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Sasha Dreams
What's the best approach to ask him that I want to add another men?
I think you will find that some men cannot get over the thought of having their lady be enjoyed by another man. You have to really be confident that he is ok with you doing that or you may find that that act has long lasting complications that will damage your relationship down the road. You will find that some men will even say its ok before, during and after but they may really be bothered by it.
09/07/2014