Hey everyone! My wife and I have been together for 10 years. Years ago, we exchanged some in-the-moment fantasies about the possibility of her being with another woman. It never went anywhere and eventually faded. That has resurfaced recently as we've been a lot more sexually engaged. On a recent night, during some toy-fueled, wild sex, she really let some words fly. Normally a very shy person, she went into very specific detail about what she wanted to do.

I listen to enough advice podcasts to know that "I need to talk to her about it" but I've tried bringing up bedroom-talk fantasies outside the bedroom before and she has dismissed it quickly. So I want to know your thoughts/reactions to someone who was very vocal about having sex with another woman, albeit in the bedroom during sex. Do you think it's just a fantasy or something more? I know that adding someone to the mix is not nearly as easy as ordering a sex toy and opening the drawer to use it so it's going to take some work if we do pursue it...