Have you ever started a fight with your lover, just so you could have some of that hot 'make up sex' later?

Contributor: lamira lamira
No, I hate it when we fight, because I am very stubborn and will be bothered by it for a few days.
11/07/2010
Contributor: fghjkl fghjkl
Make up sex is pretty awesome... but I would never ever start a fight on purpose just to get it. We're one of those fighting couples. We're so much alike that we get on eachothers nerves and tend to bicker a lot. We do love eachother though. When we're fighting, we have sex. It's our way of getting our anger and aggression out and making up. It makes for some super hot sex. When we're done we rarely remember what we were even mad about. Actually, this happened last night haha.
12/01/2010
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Fighting is a huge turn off for me. It takes me a long to get over fighting and back into a loving mood. I would much rather not have the fight and just have the hot sex!
12/02/2010
Contributor: pinkzombie pinkzombie
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Originally posted by Pipedream Products
Just for fun.
That is nuts!
12/08/2010
Contributor: Lady Neshamah Lady Neshamah
i can't say that i have even thought of doing this.....
12/08/2010
Contributor: PussyGalore PussyGalore
I have never started an all out war with the intention of having make up sex but I have started petty arguments to get his testosterone running high when I was feeling antsy and wanted to spar.

Even when we do have all out wars we are never disrepectful to each other - we don't call names or insult each other.
12/08/2010
Contributor: sweet seduction sweet seduction
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Originally posted by Pipedream Products
Just for fun.
I honestly do this at least once a week
01/04/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
No. That seems pretty ridiculous. We don't need to fight to have hot sex.
01/05/2011
Contributor: clp clp
Not a real fight, but being bratty and obstinate, yes!
01/05/2011
Contributor: Curious2 Curious2
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Originally posted by Pipedream Products
Just for fun.
of course! makeup sex it hott
01/09/2011
Contributor: Curious2 Curious2
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Originally posted by Love Buzz
I have, but only over silly small things that really don't matter
dittoo
01/09/2011
Contributor: yayy yayy
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Originally posted by softkkisses
Make up sex is amazing!
dittoo
01/09/2011
Contributor: yayy yayy
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Originally posted by RadRach
guilty as charged
me too!
01/09/2011
Contributor: Chevylady37 Chevylady37
we are one of the odd couples that doesn't have make up sex or any sex after a fight
01/09/2011
Contributor: That Guy That Guy
Per my girlfriend: "We don't have makeup sex. We have 'It's been long enough that I've forgotten your transgressions' sex."

Incidentally, the only thing hotter about this sex than other sex is that I usually haven't had any for a while.
01/09/2011
Contributor: Kaltir Kaltir
Hahaha, if we fight, we're not having sex. I'm not in the mood for it when I'm upset. And if he started a fight, just to try getting sex for making up later, I'd be upset a lot longer.
02/07/2011
Contributor: Moein Moein
My wife did that once before. Ofcorse I am the one who apologized, but then I need to ask her for what she want more than appology, she was so frankly and told me that she made up this so we can get a hot night.
02/07/2011
Contributor: Profane Profane
I've never started a "real" fight with a partner. I would, however, kind of taunt my ex in a specific way to irritate him, but it was noticeably flirtatious. I never said anything hurtful or actually brought up things that would make him angry or cause us to fight. It was more that I would goad him into playfully rough-housing with me, which would then lead to sex. Usually we'd both break into laughter within a few minutes of him catching onto the purpose of the taunts. And our break-up was very amiable; we remained friends for years until he moved to another state.
02/09/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
My wife and I rarely have fights, and you know what, we've never actually had maku-up sex. Your guess is as good as mine why.
02/09/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
I prefer to have hot sex without the hurt feelings.
Agreed
03/02/2011
Contributor: Happy Camper Happy Camper
My partner and I don't see each other often enough to really ever fight. But we complain that our biggest relationship problem right now is that we both want hot angry sex followed by hot make-up sex, but we can't find anything to fight over. And if that's our biggest worry, I figure we're okay.
03/02/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
Haven't started it for that reason, but have ended it for the sex. LOVE make up sex.
03/02/2011
Contributor: Britny Britny
Probably not. I dont like fighting with him and we already have a great sex life so I wouldnt need to fight for it to be good.
03/09/2011
Contributor: *HisMrs* *HisMrs*
Nope. I can't stand fighting!
03/09/2011
Contributor: Skitlz Skitlz
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Originally posted by Pipedream Products
Just for fun.
never did, but might be worth a try.
03/18/2011
Contributor: Taylor Von Taylor Von
I wouldn't even try to.
03/18/2011
Contributor: SugarAndSpice SugarAndSpice
No, I don't enjoy fighting in the first place. We have had amazing makeup sex, but we generally have great sex so I would prefer to leave a fight out of it.
03/24/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I'd never fight just for make up sex. Sometimes, we just feel so bad after we fight, that we just have to hold each other and not have sex.

A few months ago, we had a nasty drag out bang up fight, and when we made up, both of us felt so bad, we tried to have "make up sex." The thing was, we were both still hurting, emotionally and neither one of us could come. (We even got the Hitachi out, which is something we rarely do just for sex.) We just lie there, feeling bad, trying to make it work and I finally said, "This isn't working. Let's just hold each other until later." We needed to wait until the smoke had cleared. Later, we laughed about it, "The night nobody could come." But, I hate to argue with him, although we're both very fiery people, it happens a lot.
03/24/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
No, I haven't, and I would never. I hate fighting with my partner, and we have amazing sex anyway. I think it's too much of a manipulation or game playing thing to start a fight on purpose. Seems immature to me.
03/24/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
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Originally posted by P'Gell
I'd never fight just for make up sex. Sometimes, we just feel so bad after we fight, that we just have to hold each other and not have sex.

A few months ago, we had a nasty drag out bang up fight, and when we made up, both of us felt so ... more
Yeah, the same thing often happens to us. We'll be too exhausted and feeling so terrible after a fight we can't have sex either. But it's always a really nice cuddle, maybe some tears, lots of "I'm sorry"s and "I love you"s.
03/24/2011