So, to give some context, both my husband and I normally have a very high sex drive. With a toddler at home, we don't get as much time and opportunity as we used to, but usually, when we get the chance, it's great.
Then, almost two months ago, I got the depo shot. I now realize that it was a mistake and I just don't do well with hormonal birth control. My sex drive has dropped, much to my dismay. I want to be turned on, but short of brief, fervent masturbation sessions when I can't sleep, nothing's going on. My husband is gorgeous and patient and an amazing lover. He loves to give me no-strings-attached oral sex. He keeps begging me to let him indulge my every fantasy and sexual whim. AND I WANT TO LET HIM. For some reason, though, I don't feel as sexually attracted to him lately, but it's not really him. I'm not feeling any sexual attraction to anyone (real, filmed or fictional)
How can I give my failing sex drive a jump start? Has anyone dealt with this before?
Then, almost two months ago, I got the depo shot. I now realize that it was a mistake and I just don't do well with hormonal birth control. My sex drive has dropped, much to my dismay. I want to be turned on, but short of brief, fervent masturbation sessions when I can't sleep, nothing's going on. My husband is gorgeous and patient and an amazing lover. He loves to give me no-strings-attached oral sex. He keeps begging me to let him indulge my every fantasy and sexual whim. AND I WANT TO LET HIM. For some reason, though, I don't feel as sexually attracted to him lately, but it's not really him. I'm not feeling any sexual attraction to anyone (real, filmed or fictional)
How can I give my failing sex drive a jump start? Has anyone dealt with this before?