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Contributor: mbrdr2012 mbrdr2012
Have you been able to maintain your sex life after children?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Sex has stayed the same
5
Freq of sex declined
10
Quality of sex declined
6
Total votes: 21 (17 voters)
Poll is closed
09/10/2012
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
After kids the frequency of sex declined - but the quality stayed high. Now that the kids are grown - the sex is much more frequent and hotter than ever before!
09/10/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
Right after it declined and the quality went downhill. We got frustrated and made it right. Now sex is even better than before we had our son.
09/10/2012
Contributor: Deeder Deeder
It's pretty much stayed the same, (not as often as my husband would like, and not as good as I would like).
09/10/2012
Contributor: Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
No option for an increase in frequency? There were other factors involved, such as my going off a medication that had severe sexual side effects, but we actually have more sex now than we did before having our son.
09/10/2012
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
Quote:
Originally posted by mbrdr2012
Have you been able to maintain your sex life after children?
With my son I had severe post partum, and sex was the LAST thing I wanted. Our divorce soon followed. 5 yrs later, in another relationship, I gave birth to my daughter. It was like a switch turned on, I was happier than ever, and now I need a libido supressant practically!! YAY!!! (sorry for the bad spelling, I am exhausted).
09/10/2012
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
Our sex life has actually gotten better.
09/10/2012
Contributor: Wonderstruck Wonderstruck
Quote:
Originally posted by mbrdr2012
Have you been able to maintain your sex life after children?
I'll be honest..it has sucked as of lately. Our daughter is 19 months and she is in our room because we haven't been able to get a new place yet. We applied for a 3 bedroom and have yet to get it. That is why we are here to try to spice things up again.
09/10/2012
Contributor: charleswifey charleswifey
Gotten better!!!
09/11/2012
Contributor: dirtythoughts:) dirtythoughts:)
I can not answer this poll yet but am due with my first child in March. Recently I have been worrying about how our sex life will be after becoming parents.
09/11/2012
Contributor: meitman meitman
I voted that it stayed the same, but really it's gotten much better. I don't think it has much to do with the kids though. Our whole marriage has gotten better because we work at it better.
09/11/2012
Contributor: married with children married with children
we just have to be more careful about when we have sex.
09/13/2012
Contributor: mbrdr2012 mbrdr2012
Thanks for voting!!

For those of you that sex got better and more freq. How did you manage it?
09/13/2012