do you give your partner oral sex?
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01/15/2011
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01/15/2011
I will not do it, my husband has a fit, but thats the same place he pees from and i think its gross i won't let him preform it on me and he gets mad.
01/15/2011
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I haven't ever because the situation has never arisen (no partner) but I think there are ways to get around your 'that's gross' point of view, especially if it's something he really wants. You could use 'safe' oral sex practices, condoms and dental dams, then everything is perfectly hygienic and everyone is happy.
Originally posted by
Cowboyssweetie
I will not do it, my husband has a fit, but thats the same place he pees from and i think its gross i won't let him preform it on me and he gets mad.
01/16/2011
I enjoy giving and receiving. I am a germ-a-phobe in some respects but when it comes to intimacy, I can overlook a lot for both of our pleasure.
01/16/2011
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Grow up - that's ridiculous. Your urethral opening is less than an inch from your vaginal opening - and your anus is only about 2" from your vagina - isn't it all just so gross!
Originally posted by
Cowboyssweetie
I will not do it, my husband has a fit, but thats the same place he pees from and i think its gross i won't let him preform it on me and he gets mad.
01/17/2011
have you ever tried it? You might like it.
01/18/2011
I agree, the sensation of oral sex far outweighs any qualms about hygiene. If you're still squeamish though, oral sex during or after a bath or shower can be a nice alternative.
01/18/2011
This seems a bit sad to me. I kind of feel bad for you about the squeemish-ness of it all. But there are some really good ideas here such as during the bath or after or even condoms and dental dam. If you would like to please your lover and let him please you, there are definite ways to get around or over your trepidation. I personally get off on giving my husband head. It makes my mouth water to even think about it and I can't imagine not doing something like that with and for him.
01/18/2011
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haha. oh goodness.
Originally posted by
Cowboyssweetie
I will not do it, my husband has a fit, but thats the same place he pees from and i think its gross i won't let him preform it on me and he gets mad.
01/18/2011
Of course. Can't expect it if you don't give it aswell.
01/18/2011
I love watchin my man get excited from oral
01/21/2011
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Agreed, though I once had the same exact mindset when I was a prude not even 5 years ago, so.... *shrugs*
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
Grow up - that's ridiculous. Your urethral opening is less than an inch from your vaginal opening - and your anus is only about 2" from your vagina - isn't it all just so gross!
But yeah, as was suggested just use dental dams or condoms, they make flavored condoms for that purpose.
The only thing is I really wish my bf would change his diet, I like salty foods, but geeze....
01/21/2011
I know other people who find it gross. I don't find it gross, and we both do it regularly. We all have our limits in a sexual context.
01/21/2011
With my partner I'm totally fine with giving and receiving, but before my relationship if I was just hooking up with someone I would give but never receive. I'm pretty self conscious, and just don't feel comfortable with receiving unless I have been with the person for a while.
01/21/2011
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agree. it is in no way gross, especially if he showers or washes up before anything goes on. I personally always give oral befoore my husband and I have intimate times, i dont get oral alot in the sense of he sucks on me but I get it other ways if u know what i mean. id get mad too if he said no lol
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
Grow up - that's ridiculous. Your urethral opening is less than an inch from your vaginal opening - and your anus is only about 2" from your vagina - isn't it all just so gross!
01/23/2011
I know people who feel the same way. Personally I love giving oral to my husband. It's one of my favorite things to do. As for receiving, I do love it but still have some hang ups in that area. Go figure.
01/29/2011
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My husband thinks its weird. He sometimes likes me to do it, but if its on his terms.
Originally posted by
Cowboyssweetie
do you give your partner oral sex?
02/01/2011
i used to suck on him all the time, now its only once in a great while. but thats only cause he doesnt give me the affection that i crave from him. i put a lot more effort into our romantic/sex life/foreplay. i tell him i need it all and he still holds back, saying it not him.
he claims to love eating vagina but i think its just to impress others. obviously not me, can remember the last time he ate me out.
he claims to love eating vagina but i think its just to impress others. obviously not me, can remember the last time he ate me out.
02/01/2011
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I do have a partner who is taking his time working up to giving full on oral but that's ok I also have a partner who would rather be face first in a pussy than anywhere else! Best of both worlds cause the non-oral giving guy is A-fucking-mazing with his hands and he speaks polish so ya....he could be talking about doing laundry and I'm creaming myself.
Originally posted by
Cowboyssweetie
do you give your partner oral sex?
Personally, I love the taste, smell and feel of a clean man so oral sex is a pleasure...though both guys say I should 'pleasure' them more often then!
02/01/2011
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OUCH! Gosh I'm so sorry to hear things are so rough for you guys. If I might make a suggestion, check out the book "I Love You Let's Work It Out" by David Viscott, MD.
Originally posted by
mrs.mckrakn
i used to suck on him all the time, now its only once in a great while. but thats only cause he doesnt give me the affection that i crave from him. i put a lot more effort into our romantic/sex life/foreplay. i tell him i need it all and he still
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i used to suck on him all the time, now its only once in a great while. but thats only cause he doesnt give me the affection that i crave from him. i put a lot more effort into our romantic/sex life/foreplay. i tell him i need it all and he still holds back, saying it not him.
he claims to love eating vagina but i think its just to impress others. obviously not me, can remember the last time he ate me out. less
he claims to love eating vagina but i think its just to impress others. obviously not me, can remember the last time he ate me out. less
Nominally this is a book about moving past adultery but it gives such amazing information about how to talk to your partner about your needs both sexually and personally that I recommend it to all couples having a hard time communicating.
02/01/2011
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"...he could be talking about doing laundry and I'm creaming myself."
Originally posted by
Airen Wolf
I do have a partner who is taking his time working up to giving full on oral but that's ok I also have a partner who would rather be face first in a pussy than anywhere else! Best of both worlds cause the non-oral giving guy is A-fucking-mazing
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I do have a partner who is taking his time working up to giving full on oral but that's ok I also have a partner who would rather be face first in a pussy than anywhere else! Best of both worlds cause the non-oral giving guy is A-fucking-mazing with his hands and he speaks polish so ya....he could be talking about doing laundry and I'm creaming myself.
Personally, I love the taste, smell and feel of a clean man so oral sex is a pleasure...though both guys say I should 'pleasure' them more often then! less
Personally, I love the taste, smell and feel of a clean man so oral sex is a pleasure...though both guys say I should 'pleasure' them more often then! less
Hahaha! This got me giggling and I couldn't stop. My husband looked at me like I was crazy. :p
To answer the question, yes of course. I would feel like I was being incredibly disrespectful if I did not reciprocate.
02/01/2011
I like to give... but not receive!
02/01/2011
madebymatt
I'll give it gladly and my wife doesn't have to give in return.
02/01/2011
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Do you feel a little out voted - essentially 41 to 0. It seems to prove that oral sex is a mainstream almost universally enjoyed form of intimacy.
Originally posted by
Cowboyssweetie
do you give your partner oral sex?
What's the old saying 'try it you'll like it!'
02/02/2011
I didn't know there were people who didnt ?!
02/05/2011
I have to admit that it isn't at the top of the list of my favorite things to do, but since I LOVE to receive it, I certainly give it right back to him AND ONLY HIM!!!
@krissybaby007....lol, there are plenty of people out there who don't
I woundn't do it if I didn't want it in return, and yes I know that sounds horrible, but it's the truth.
@krissybaby007....lol, there are plenty of people out there who don't
I woundn't do it if I didn't want it in return, and yes I know that sounds horrible, but it's the truth.
02/06/2011
1) Urine is sterile.
2) If you turn him on enough, there will be pre-ejaculate. This cleanses the urethra.
3) If you won't do it, someone else will.
This post is borderline trollish. Anyone can see the 30,000 threads about oral sex on this community and the vastly popular responses and interest to make it better.
2) If you turn him on enough, there will be pre-ejaculate. This cleanses the urethra.
3) If you won't do it, someone else will.
This post is borderline trollish. Anyone can see the 30,000 threads about oral sex on this community and the vastly popular responses and interest to make it better.
02/06/2011
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Definitely agree 100%- urine is sterile.
Originally posted by
PussyGalore
1) Urine is sterile.
2) If you turn him on enough, there will be pre-ejaculate. This cleanses the urethra.
3) If you won't do it, someone else will.
This post is borderline trollish. Anyone can see the 30,000 threads about oral sex ... more
2) If you turn him on enough, there will be pre-ejaculate. This cleanses the urethra.
3) If you won't do it, someone else will.
This post is borderline trollish. Anyone can see the 30,000 threads about oral sex ... more
1) Urine is sterile.
2) If you turn him on enough, there will be pre-ejaculate. This cleanses the urethra.
3) If you won't do it, someone else will.
This post is borderline trollish. Anyone can see the 30,000 threads about oral sex on this community and the vastly popular responses and interest to make it better. less
2) If you turn him on enough, there will be pre-ejaculate. This cleanses the urethra.
3) If you won't do it, someone else will.
This post is borderline trollish. Anyone can see the 30,000 threads about oral sex on this community and the vastly popular responses and interest to make it better. less
He's probably not gonna pee on you.
...unless he said during a blow job he really enjoys water sports...
02/06/2011
I love giving it and receiving it too!
02/11/2011