Masturbating Infront of your partner

Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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08/18/2011
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Contributor: Peggi Peggi
Well, I don't typically masturbate in front of my partner unless he wants me to, as a turn on, or for foreplay.

He does in front of me on occasion, usually as a method of turning me on, sometimes not.

For me, it's not awkward if it is at his request, but sometimes can be if it isn't, simply because until my current relationship I've never masturbated in front of anyone before. He doesn't seem to care too much about himself doing it in front of me though.
08/18/2011
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
He really likes it!
08/18/2011
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Peggi
Well, I don't typically masturbate in front of my partner unless he wants me to, as a turn on, or for foreplay.

He does in front of me on occasion, usually as a method of turning me on, sometimes not.

For me, it's not awkward if ... more
Thanks for your input!

I bought my wife some nice toys to play with (Thrusting rabbit and some glass toys) and I more or less gave her the option of if you would like to show me I would love to see, but you definitely don't have to show me anything. I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable.

I have for her on several occasions and I'm not going to lie it did feel somewhat awkward but later on she told me it turned her on so it was all worth it. I think that alone made me feel fine about doing it again. I think she is working her way up to feeling comfortable doing that in front of me.

I don't ask for her to but I wouldn't mind be involved once in a while.
08/18/2011
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Ryuson
He really likes it!
Thanks for your input!
08/18/2011
Contributor: fleshlightluvr1 fleshlightluvr1
I LOVE doing it in front of him. He gets so hot and bothered by it!
08/19/2011
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Ended up doing that yesterday morning before work... Gotta say I think she enjoyed watching me and me cumming on her breasts.
08/23/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
I like it. I always feel a tiny bit shy, but when he tells me he loves watching it I do it. I like for him to, but it never does any good. He's just too hard to get off! Lol.
08/27/2011
Contributor: Haiku Haiku
I don't usually volunteer for it, because I get shy and find it hard to orgasm. On the other hand, if I know it turns him on to see me struggle with that shyness, it can be very hot. So I'm willing, but slightly less than thoroughly eager. I LOVE to watch him masturbate in front of me though, especially if I can assist with some touch elsewhere and he can finish by cumming on me. mmm...yummy
08/31/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
I love masturbating in front of a partner. It really gets me going.
08/31/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I love it too. It's very erotic, and he enjoys watching.
08/31/2011
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Thanks girls I appreciate your input!
09/02/2011
Contributor: domsub1993 domsub1993
I have not actually masturbated for him, but I have touched myself and pinched my nipples for him. He loves that!
09/08/2011
Contributor: Melissa Smith Melissa Smith
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Ladies how do you feel about Masturbating in front of your partner? Does it feel awkward or do you enjoy it? Men feel free to way in too...
We enjoy it. We know how we want it and what better way to teach your partner than showing them?
09/16/2011
Contributor: js250 js250
My husband and I really enjoy masturbating for each other, and the toys are just an added bonus! We try to edge together to see how long we can last, see how many times I can cum, and sometimes will turn a weekend into our own personal masturbation party. It is such a turn on for me to watch him play and them get off!! He loves the fact that I can share with him and says watching me get off is one of the biggest turn-ons he has experienced.
09/16/2011
Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Ladies how do you feel about Masturbating in front of your partner? Does it feel awkward or do you enjoy it? Men feel free to way in too...
It's not awkward to me. It's a part of our usual foreplay! I do it on the car rides home sometimes to get him all revved up and he'll do it outside the shower when I'm bathing just to get me turned on. We love it!
09/16/2011
Contributor: momma22js momma22js
Hubby and I both do infront of each other we both like it and its not awkward.
09/16/2011
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by js250
My husband and I really enjoy masturbating for each other, and the toys are just an added bonus! We try to edge together to see how long we can last, see how many times I can cum, and sometimes will turn a weekend into our own personal masturbation ... more
That is awesome, I think I am going to have to take that play from your playbook. Thanks JS
09/16/2011
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by ToyGurl
It's not awkward to me. It's a part of our usual foreplay! I do it on the car rides home sometimes to get him all revved up and he'll do it outside the shower when I'm bathing just to get me turned on. We love it!
In the car? Thats something else Im going to have see if I can get going! Thanks Toy Lover.
09/16/2011
Contributor: Brandonn Brandonn
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Ladies how do you feel about Masturbating in front of your partner? Does it feel awkward or do you enjoy it? Men feel free to way in too...
I like it when my girl does it in front of me
02/18/2012
Contributor: oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
I'm completely comfortable with it.
02/19/2012
Contributor: blackadeezee blackadeezee
It drives my husband crazy in a good way. He loves watching.
04/25/2012
Contributor: Maximusx Maximusx
My girl does it.....sometimes I just want to read and she wants to get off LOL It's anything goes in our bed
05/02/2012
Contributor: Sex Positivity Sex Positivity
I do it and my boy tends to like it. Not as interesting anymore for him, but at the beginning of our relationship, it drove him nuts.
05/02/2012
Contributor: pootpootpoot pootpootpoot
Masturbating in front of my partner was great when we first became sexually active together. He didn't have much experience, and seeing how I brought myself to orgasm technique-wise really helped him to figure out what worked best.

Also, we do this over skype when we can't see each other. In person we'd rather do more co-op stuff
05/02/2012
Contributor: Mistress Sassy Mistress Sassy
Well, masturbating in front of my partner hasn't happened completely yet, as the first time he got to *hear* me only as I blindfolded him and used a vibrator on myself so he could only hear me moan and make little noises until I came. I have seen him masturbate though and intend to let him watch me when he returns from seeing his family soon! I think in the future we will probably use this as either foreplay, or for a turn on, but I've been told already he probably won't be able to sit there and watch me without joining in somehow!
05/02/2012
Contributor: xOhxSoxScandalousx xOhxSoxScandalousx
Yes! It really turns him on to watch me pleasure myself and he loves it. He wished I would did it more often.
05/02/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Love it, prefer it when he's doing it though
05/02/2012
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
He enjoys watching me masturbate. I do find it a bit awkward, but it is a turn on to have him watching me.
05/02/2012
Contributor: Boobs and Lubes Boobs and Lubes
I did it for her first, then after a while she shared with me as well. It started our Journey of erotica that keeps growing to this day. We still do it quite often and sometimes help one another. We love it.
05/04/2012