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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
I still love to WATCH my lover in action. We always leave some lights on. She likes it "dim" but not dark either. SO....what is most popular, Lights TOTALLY out, lights "nice and bright" or that "romantic...night light dim" effect?
06/18/2011
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Contributor: newlady newlady
I too like it more "romantic, night light dim".
I have mini lights around the top of the gauzy drapes I have around our bed.
Candlelight is great too.
06/18/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
I prefer soft lights or candles. Definitely want to be able to see each other.
06/18/2011
Contributor: Gallowraven Gallowraven
Same here, enough light that we can see each other, but not so much that we are blinded by it. unless there is a nice thunderstorm, then I like the room to be as dark as possible so the light from the lightning fills the room.
06/18/2011
Contributor: jc123 jc123
Anything but completely dark is fine with me.
06/18/2011
Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
Any of them could be fun. I wouldn't want completely dark all the time, but it could be fun to limit ourselves to other senses, as with a blindfold. Generally I think I prefer dim lighting... But I'm not really sure.
06/18/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
she likes the lights out, I could go either way. Some times I leave the lights on, depending on what we are doing.
06/19/2011
Contributor: lovemuscle n cookie lovemuscle n cookie
I prefer a dim romantic light.
06/20/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
I like dim or totally dark. He likes them on.
06/20/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
We do bright lights more often than not. Couple a exhibitionist/voyeurs. Though I think my favourite is morning light..... when the sun's just about to come up and the brightness is just coming through the windows.
06/20/2011
Contributor: averageguyextrodinarypleasure averageguyextrodinarypleasure
I like to watch so I'd say on bright!
07/26/2011
Contributor: Lilitu Lilitu
I have only messed around in bright light a few times.
07/27/2011
Contributor: leatherlover leatherlover
We have done it a few times in the dark, but we both prefer to see. So natural light for the room or a single bulb.
07/27/2011
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I prefer there to be a small amount of light, but not full light. Totally dark is fun too!
07/27/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
However the lights are when we get started is how we leave them. I do like to see what's going on though, and so does he.
07/27/2011
Contributor: emiliaa emiliaa
Whatever feels right. I like dim, but not pitch dark, myself . the bright lights just annoy me, XD it has nothing to do with seeing my lover, I can still see him or her just as well in the dim light.
07/27/2011