Already do that, thanks though.

He's considering trying this one, and it's something I've been interested in for years. Have any ideas for discipline or ways he could tease me once he ties me up? How about ways to get him to consider letting me put handcuffs on him?

Somehow I doubt that's gonna happen, but thanks for the idea.

We started out slow like with almost anything else in the bedroom. we started with a soft velcro pair of cuffs so that i didnt feel too trapped at first and we started there and he would tie me up and would slowly touch all over me so that when it tickled of was too much i couldnt fight back and it was oh so thrilling and we have just moved on from there.

We are going to offer a bit of different advice. We suggest you start surfing here on the EF forums together. Click on ALL the different subject types. Read things together. Speak to each other. Say "Oh...that sounds fun" or "yuk, no way", so you get a better idea of what areas you can explore with each other, and which you might better avoid. In that way, you may BOTH discover some hot/kinky things you are willing to try or maybe even both feel is "hot", and can learn new things about each other in the process.

I've sent him several links, unfortunately between work and classes he doesn't get much time to read them... Hoping he'll get time to finish reading them this weekend.

Sounds intriguing... I'd love to hear more if you care to share.

The u spot? I'm afraid I'm not familar with that one. I've shared some of my fantasies, but if he has any he hasn't shared them with me.

Pegging is a big jump if he has not experienced anal play. Perhaps while giving him oral, finger his anus or with a small toy. Be sure to use a little lube. You might be able to test his reaction by cleaning his anus in the shower. The anus has a lot of sensory whatever u call its.

Thanks, I'll keep it in mind.

I don't know what your feelings are on porn but it can have it's uses. My wife and I play a game when watching porn called "I COULD DO THAT." We pick a random scene from porn and the person who says I could do that must perform it. If they don't hit the mark then they owe the other person a sexual favor etc. of their choosing (serving breakfast in just the apron what have you).

I like this game because it allows you to role play without having to come up with a scenario on the fly (which if you're new to role playing means the first time you're left feeling more silly and uncomfortable than sexy and seductive).

That actually sounds fun. My husband and I tried porn and it was really boring so we ended up turning it off. But doing that seems like a different way of doing it. Good suggestion!

That is a good one. We too are glad we tried that. Even just direct prostate stimulation of the guy with your finger during oral is amazing for him.

We have played that same game for years! It's how we first decided to try "upside down, piledriver anal"! Looks super silly and it's not the position you want to be in daily, but just for fun, when it was happening on the screen, I said "I can do that", and promptly flipped myself off the edge of the bed. One or two licks of my tush, with me upside down, had him hard as a rock and as he watched the scene on TV, I got the first piledriver anal of my life...and it was awesome. Not only did I cum four or five times, but I squirted (gushed) and since I was upside down, it dripped down my belly, onto my boobs and even on my chin, which he promptly cleaned up with his tongue. It was totally smoking sex. Yes...try this video mimic game. Well worth it.

I definitely have to agree the role reversal is a lot of fun for us but I understand so would not be into that. I saw in previous posts about trying the finger and that is a great idea even if you do not actually insert your finger at first just rubbing over the anus while performing oral feels great. If that is an interest for you start slow and gradually work up to inserting the finger and when you do watch out he may go wild from sensory overload.