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How to introduce a new toy?

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Contributor: xgreatlovex xgreatlovex
He knows I use this site and that I ordered a new toy but ODDLY enough I've never really used toys in this relationship (and its been over 5 years so I am VERY toy deprived) BUT the new toy is kinda big.... and black.... buuuut I think he will love it on his special spot! would it be better to show it to him BEFORE bringing it into the bedroom or just be all " close your eyes baby" LOL
05/21/2013
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Contributor: married with children married with children
you should talk with him first. find out what he thinks about using them before trying to make him use one. that could end up badly.
05/21/2013
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I agree with married with children - show him the toy first - especially when it's a big toy!
05/21/2013
Contributor: Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
(Review Program Mentor)
Since he knows you have toys and has never suggested using them together, he may be a bit intimidated. Bringing out a big toy for the first toy might not be the best way to go. Perhaps start with something smaller and less intimidating. I would definitely talk to him about your desire to add toys before bringing them into the bedroom.
05/22/2013