I have a different work schedule than my wife - 1st and 3 shifts - so coordinating play time together can be difficult. We're usually doing good to have sex once a week now even though we see each other every day. I though I'd try more quickies as an alternative strategy. We usually don't have quickies since I prefer our play time to be more of an Olympic event. However, I want to know: just how many quickies could you have in a row before getting bored?
How many quickies is too many?
11/16/2010
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I don't think I'd ever get bored of quickies per say, but I would long for more eventually. So...idk...maybe like 3 in a row is the limit.
11/16/2010
My ex was a man of quickies, which I slowly learned to love. It was almost impossible to get him to go for longer than 15 minutes unless we stopped several times during, which was okay seeing as he was amazing in the sack.
11/16/2010
With schedule conflicts - you do the best you can. Sex does not lend itself to formulas. I'm like you - I like the longer sessions - but if the choice is a quickie or none at all, it's a simple choice, I'd take the quickie every time.
How many - before I get bored? I'd say never - I just love being intimate regardless of the parameters.
How many - before I get bored? I'd say never - I just love being intimate regardless of the parameters.
11/16/2010
Gonna agree with Gunsmoke - if you can tide yourself over with a quickie why not? It's still sharing the intimacies of love and even quickies can be fun they don't need to be boring. You'd be surprised how a quickie on the stair case can be intriguing. Just use your creativity.
11/16/2010
Don't knock the quickies, they can be very satisfying and highly passionate.
I worked night shift for 10 years so we learned to make the most of every opportunity. Plus we've had many a quickie turn into a marathon love sessions.
I worked night shift for 10 years so we learned to make the most of every opportunity. Plus we've had many a quickie turn into a marathon love sessions.
11/16/2010
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Right - my wife will often say "It'll have to be a quickie" - but a couple of orgasms into the fun, she forgets all about the time - she just wants more!
Originally posted by
Mr. E
Don't knock the quickies, they can be very satisfying and highly passionate.
I worked night shift for 10 years so we learned to make the most of every opportunity. Plus we've had many a quickie turn into a marathon love sessions.
I worked night shift for 10 years so we learned to make the most of every opportunity. Plus we've had many a quickie turn into a marathon love sessions.
11/16/2010
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Same, they're definitely intense and as long as you are both satisfied with it, then go for it.
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
With schedule conflicts - you do the best you can. Sex does not lend itself to formulas. I'm like you - I like the longer sessions - but if the choice is a quickie or none at all, it's a simple choice, I'd take the quickie every
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With schedule conflicts - you do the best you can. Sex does not lend itself to formulas. I'm like you - I like the longer sessions - but if the choice is a quickie or none at all, it's a simple choice, I'd take the quickie every time.
How many - before I get bored? I'd say never - I just love being intimate regardless of the parameters. less
How many - before I get bored? I'd say never - I just love being intimate regardless of the parameters. less
11/16/2010
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I love quickies! As many as possible! HAHA. Just kidding. It really depends.
Originally posted by
Hallmar82
I have a different work schedule than my wife - 1st and 3 shifts - so coordinating play time together can be difficult. We're usually doing good to have sex once a week now even though we see each other every day. I though I'd try more
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I have a different work schedule than my wife - 1st and 3 shifts - so coordinating play time together can be difficult. We're usually doing good to have sex once a week now even though we see each other every day. I though I'd try more quickies as an alternative strategy. We usually don't have quickies since I prefer our play time to be more of an Olympic event. However, I want to know: just how many quickies could you have in a row before getting bored?
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11/16/2010
it depends..i cannot even say the number.. i am sorry...
11/16/2010
I agree with Lauren. After a few, I'd start to want more, so I think three is a good limit there.
11/18/2010
What're you talking about? Hahaha quickies are the best!
11/18/2010
It depends.
11/18/2010
A quickie is better then nothing considering the circumstances. We do have quickies due to time issues but I never thought of keeping score.
11/18/2010
For me there is not a magic number of quickies before I want more. As long as I have one good long session per week the rest of the week can be filled with many, many quickies and I'm plenty satisfied. But if it's been over a week and all we've had is quickies I start to grow restless.
For us having a break from sex all together for a few days makes the sex more passionate the next time..so for us I guess like maybe three quickies per week, then like two days of no sex and then a longer session is what works out best for us. We never really keep track though so I'm sure it varies.
For us having a break from sex all together for a few days makes the sex more passionate the next time..so for us I guess like maybe three quickies per week, then like two days of no sex and then a longer session is what works out best for us. We never really keep track though so I'm sure it varies.
11/18/2010
Better than none
11/19/2010
love quickies! I'll take a quickie anytime and almost any place! LOL!!
11/20/2010
If by "how many in a row" you mean do a quicki and right after orgasm or 5 minutes later to have another quicki almost immeditately after....one is enough for me. But in a day when I am especially horny I can have up to three quickies at different intervals in that day. Rarely happens that it is one right after the other...I would get so sore.
11/20/2010
It depends... If that is all that schedules allow then I am happy with that, as long as I get to be with my partner I am happy
11/20/2010
Quickies are always good and I don't think I would ever get truly bored of them but I also think that if quickies are all you get, you're bound to get tired of them and want something more.
12/05/2010
I voted "other". To me it is all about ratio. Quickies are fine, and sometimes I prefer them, but would not want them to outweigh sessions.
12/05/2010
I love it when my husband and I agree to a "quickie" and it ends up be so much more than that. I have had some of the most intense orgasms during quickies. I don't think I could ever get bored with sex, regardless of the amount of time it takes. I wouldn't worry about it too much. You do the best you can with what you have and it can't be wrong. If you just want to have sex more often with quickies and save the "Olympic event" for once a week, that way you will have time to spend indulging each other with exactly what you've both been craving, I'd say it is all good! More power to you! Enjoy each other.
12/05/2010
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I agree with this assessment. No knock to quickies, just that I'd want more after a while.
Originally posted by
~LaUr3n~
I don't think I'd ever get bored of quickies per say, but I would long for more eventually. So...idk...maybe like 3 in a row is the limit.
12/06/2010
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Quickies can be fun, but not all the time!
Originally posted by
Hallmar82
I have a different work schedule than my wife - 1st and 3 shifts - so coordinating play time together can be difficult. We're usually doing good to have sex once a week now even though we see each other every day. I though I'd try more
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I have a different work schedule than my wife - 1st and 3 shifts - so coordinating play time together can be difficult. We're usually doing good to have sex once a week now even though we see each other every day. I though I'd try more quickies as an alternative strategy. We usually don't have quickies since I prefer our play time to be more of an Olympic event. However, I want to know: just how many quickies could you have in a row before getting bored?
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12/08/2010
i think you really should spend some time talking with her and see how she likes it. if that is all that you have time for, then i think she will more than understand.
12/08/2010
I generally dislike quickies, unless I initiate. Otherwise I just feel too much pressure to come fast enough.
12/08/2010
With a newborn it's about all I have time for anymore
01/05/2011
Quickies are great when there's limited time or ya just want strictly pleasure.
But I think after 3 I would be craving more attention and wanting to totally devour each other - savour the moment.
But I think after 3 I would be craving more attention and wanting to totally devour each other - savour the moment.
01/05/2011
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more like how many quickies in a row like if its good sure lets go again but twice is usually more than enough for real.
Originally posted by
Hallmar82
I have a different work schedule than my wife - 1st and 3 shifts - so coordinating play time together can be difficult. We're usually doing good to have sex once a week now even though we see each other every day. I though I'd try more
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I have a different work schedule than my wife - 1st and 3 shifts - so coordinating play time together can be difficult. We're usually doing good to have sex once a week now even though we see each other every day. I though I'd try more quickies as an alternative strategy. We usually don't have quickies since I prefer our play time to be more of an Olympic event. However, I want to know: just how many quickies could you have in a row before getting bored?
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01/07/2011
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gets the stress out
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
Better than none
01/07/2011