My husband doesn't respond, or act like he notices. WTH is up with that? What do I need to do to get his dumb ass to notice me? I'm in great shape and take care of myself. I'm so irritated!!
How do I get my husband to notice me when I walk around naked/wear sexy clothes?
07/28/2012
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What!?! Hold out on him for a few days and try it. He'll definitely notice.
Originally posted by
Noelle
My husband doesn't respond, or act like he notices. WTH is up with that? What do I need to do to get his dumb ass to notice me? I'm in great shape and take care of myself. I'm so irritated!!
07/29/2012
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Unfortunately his libido is WAY low, and that is why I try to get him to notice. He isn't paying attention, so I suppose he isn't in the mood as usualy.
Originally posted by
deltalima
What!?! Hold out on him for a few days and try it. He'll definitely notice.
07/29/2012
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I hate to bring up the elephant in the room, but is it possible that he is not interested? Maybe he is into something else?
Originally posted by
Noelle
My husband doesn't respond, or act like he notices. WTH is up with that? What do I need to do to get his dumb ass to notice me? I'm in great shape and take care of myself. I'm so irritated!!
07/29/2012
Is he busy with something when you do this? If he's busy and you're trying to distract him, that might be why he's ignoring you.
If your sex drives don't match up, it's time to have a serious conversation together about how your needs are not being met. Walking around in lingerie isn't the way to solve a problem.
If your sex drives don't match up, it's time to have a serious conversation together about how your needs are not being met. Walking around in lingerie isn't the way to solve a problem.
07/29/2012
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No, we both are gym rats, and when we aren't both at work, we are together. We are both happy. He is just 10 yrs older, and I think his libido is low and mine is peaking.
Originally posted by
Mrs. Tickle and Giggle
I hate to bring up the elephant in the room, but is it possible that he is not interested? Maybe he is into something else?
07/29/2012
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I've never know a man not to notice a naked women walking in front of him, have you?
Originally posted by
- Kira -
Is he busy with something when you do this? If he's busy and you're trying to distract him, that might be why he's ignoring you.
If your sex drives don't match up, it's time to have a serious conversation together about ... more
If your sex drives don't match up, it's time to have a serious conversation together about ... more
Is he busy with something when you do this? If he's busy and you're trying to distract him, that might be why he's ignoring you.
If your sex drives don't match up, it's time to have a serious conversation together about how your needs are not being met. Walking around in lingerie isn't the way to solve a problem. less
If your sex drives don't match up, it's time to have a serious conversation together about how your needs are not being met. Walking around in lingerie isn't the way to solve a problem. less
07/29/2012
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Meet my ex-husband ...
Originally posted by
Noelle
I've never know a man not to notice a naked women walking in front of him, have you?
Scene: First Year of Marriage
Him (looking up from the computer): Are you going to the store this afternoon?
Me (unclothed): Wasn't planning to. Why?
Him: We need more soap.
Me: I need someone in bed with me.
Him (eyeroll, looks back at screen): You're getting worked up about a genital sneeze again, aren't you?
*facepalm* (Of course, he also had lots of issues and the marriage was never consummated because of them.)
Sit down and talk with your husband about what's going on - trying to drop the hint will fly right over men's heads and make you resentful that he's "not getting it".
07/29/2012
stroke his ego and make him feel sexy. Men need that too.
07/29/2012
Wow!
My wife has my attention immediately if she walks into the room like that! I'm sorry. You definitely should talk to him. That's just crazy!
My wife has my attention immediately if she walks into the room like that! I'm sorry. You definitely should talk to him. That's just crazy!
07/29/2012
Sometimes if you get used to your S.O. being naked ALL the time it doesn't feel special. Make sure he knows that those naked/lingerie moments mean good things are going to happen. Either pounce him the next time you are naked, or walk up to him in new lingerie and aggressively initiate something so he doesn't associate nakedness/lingerie with normal hanging about the house but with hot and steamy action! Men are dense that way...
07/29/2012
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Yup! If my husband is busy with something (his car or a video game, for example) I'll get a quick "mmm...not now!" reply. He has a super high sex drive most of the time, but if he's busy with something I'd just be wasting my time.
Originally posted by
Noelle
I've never know a man not to notice a naked women walking in front of him, have you?
07/30/2012
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Methinks you may be one to something here. If you are walking around naked or in lingerie and not getting totally jumped even some of the time, then there's something else going on.
Originally posted by
Noelle
No, we both are gym rats, and when we aren't both at work, we are together. We are both happy. He is just 10 yrs older, and I think his libido is low and mine is peaking.
Hopefully no one else has captured his interest?
07/30/2012
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Doesn't matter what I'm doing. If my wife is in the mood and I haven't noticed, she will get naked or put on some sexy lingerie, do her hair, put on a little makeup and interrupt whatever I'm doing. It works every time.
Originally posted by
- Kira -
Yup! If my husband is busy with something (his car or a video game, for example) I'll get a quick "mmm...not now!" reply. He has a super high sex drive most of the time, but if he's busy with something I'd just be wasting my time.
07/30/2012
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It works most of the time with my husband, but if he's busy with something he lets me know. lol Heaven forbid I interrupt his car time.
Originally posted by
mikeysPlace
Doesn't matter what I'm doing. If my wife is in the mood and I haven't noticed, she will get naked or put on some sexy lingerie, do her hair, put on a little makeup and interrupt whatever I'm doing. It works every time.
07/30/2012
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I've never had ANY luck interrupting guys from video games... lol
Originally posted by
- Kira -
Yup! If my husband is busy with something (his car or a video game, for example) I'll get a quick "mmm...not now!" reply. He has a super high sex drive most of the time, but if he's busy with something I'd just be wasting my time.
07/30/2012
If he already has a low sex drive, and already feels pressured to have sex with you more than he wants to - it may just be that when you prance around naked he's feeling pressured into sex yet again. Or he may feel that he's being reminded of his "inadequacies" in the bedroom, or that you're sexually frustrated, etc. He's probably taking it as another way he's failing you, just based on the reaction you get from him.
The best thing to do (in my experience) in these situations is have a loving, understanding, non-judgmental heart-to-heart talk. If those are hard to come by at your house (every relationship is different) it may be time to think about getting some professional help through a couple's counselor.
Best wishes!
The best thing to do (in my experience) in these situations is have a loving, understanding, non-judgmental heart-to-heart talk. If those are hard to come by at your house (every relationship is different) it may be time to think about getting some professional help through a couple's counselor.
Best wishes!
07/30/2012
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This is great advice! Having talks outside of the bedroom can make a big difference.
Originally posted by
indiglo
If he already has a low sex drive, and already feels pressured to have sex with you more than he wants to - it may just be that when you prance around naked he's feeling pressured into sex yet again. Or he may feel that he's being reminded
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If he already has a low sex drive, and already feels pressured to have sex with you more than he wants to - it may just be that when you prance around naked he's feeling pressured into sex yet again. Or he may feel that he's being reminded of his "inadequacies" in the bedroom, or that you're sexually frustrated, etc. He's probably taking it as another way he's failing you, just based on the reaction you get from him.
The best thing to do (in my experience) in these situations is have a loving, understanding, non-judgmental heart-to-heart talk. If those are hard to come by at your house (every relationship is different) it may be time to think about getting some professional help through a couple's counselor.
Best wishes! less
The best thing to do (in my experience) in these situations is have a loving, understanding, non-judgmental heart-to-heart talk. If those are hard to come by at your house (every relationship is different) it may be time to think about getting some professional help through a couple's counselor.
Best wishes! less
07/30/2012
I agree, go with the heart to heart, because as stated above YOU have a problem, but he may not. Find out where he is as far as sex is concerned. If after the heart to heart there is still a problem then worry. I am a firm believer in giving a chance to hear both sides of the story.
08/01/2012
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