A woman wrote to us at EMandLO.com this week saying that she and her husband of 20 years like to go to male strip clubs together and he likes to watch her get lap-dances, etc. She wanted to know if this was "wrong"!! We told her, in no uncertain terms, exactly why it was so very right.

We love the fact that this couple discussed their fantasy first in bed together and then found a way to live it out... and then they get extra bang for their buck (as it were), but continuing the fantasize about what they did together later... in bed... when it's just the two of them.

Anyone else have similar stories to share? We find this sort of story, from a couple who has been married 20 years, so inspiring to hear!

- Em & Lo