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What are good resources for improving a spouse's skills and creativity?

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Contributor: Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
My husband and I had a conversation today about sex, and it came to light that he's somewhat intimidated by my confidence and knowledge (which I believe is a side effect of being an active contributor on Eden ). He wants to brush up on his bed-skills and also do some exploring on his own — can you recommend some good resources for him?

ETA: He prefers books/resources over something social like the EF forums.
07/06/2012
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Contributor: Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
Nothing?

07/08/2012
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
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Originally posted by Petite Valentine
My husband and I had a conversation today about sex, and it came to light that he's somewhat intimidated by my confidence and knowledge (which I believe is a side effect of being an active contributor on Eden ). He wants to brush up on his ... more
If you find something, please advise, I am at my peak at 42 yrs old, and my hubby is 52 and less interested. I need to get his butt more creative. We've only been married 1 1/2 yrs..
07/09/2012
Contributor: Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
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Originally posted by Noelle
If you find something, please advise, I am at my peak at 42 yrs old, and my hubby is 52 and less interested. I need to get his butt more creative. We've only been married 1 1/2 yrs..
I was considering dragging him to a class at a local adult shop, but they're currently focusing on Fifty Shades of Grey and then it's "Anal August." That's two ways to assure a NO! from him.

Anyone have advice?
07/09/2012
Contributor: SneakersAndPearls SneakersAndPearls
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Originally posted by Petite Valentine
I was considering dragging him to a class at a local adult shop, but they're currently focusing on Fifty Shades of Grey and then it's "Anal August." That's two ways to assure a NO! from him.

Anyone have advice?
Mwah ha ha "Anal August"? SERIOUSLY??? That is both the best and worst name of a workshop EVER.

Have you checked out any of the daily sex/position a day/year in sex books? That could throw some creativity his way without getting too crazy. Or he could look at some of the sex act specific books, or even something like "I Female Orgasm." Loads of good info in that one.
07/10/2012
Contributor: Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
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Originally posted by SneakersAndPearls
Mwah ha ha "Anal August"? SERIOUSLY??? That is both the best and worst name of a workshop EVER.

Have you checked out any of the daily sex/position a day/year in sex books? That could throw some creativity his way without getting ... more
We have The Little Bit Naughty Book of Sex Positions, which we like, but he's looking for things he can do, besides changing position.
07/13/2012