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Do you ever "mind f*ck" your lover?

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Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
I just posted a quick little blog about this... and I'm curious how many of you here do this for your partner...

Every one of us has our own little ways to keep our lovers connected to us throughout the day... How do you do it? Do you send your lover any sexy text messages during the day? Do you ever try to blow their minds while they are at work... making them crave you all day?
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Yes, I always send my lover text messages to get him/her in the mood...
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I will occasionally send my lover messages to spice things up...
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No, I never do this...
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11/01/2010
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Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
When I know he's not having a hectic time at work, I will send him a little "sumtin' sumtin'" via text or email to get his juices going. If he's too busy to email me during the day I know it's not a good day for that. But if he's bored or if he is having a particularly crappy day, I'll do that and give him something to look forward to at the end of the day! He likes it because he knows I'm thinking about it and because he knows he's gettin' some later!
11/01/2010
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
HA HA!! LOVE IT!!! I think its so awesome to keep things exciting with just something as simple as a text message!! It can do wonders for relationships!!
11/01/2010
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
I try not to text my wife because she is not technologically inclined. She would either never see the message or forward it to her entire address book by accident...
11/01/2010
Contributor: Spilock Spilock
I've seen other people's messages of this variety at work, and so avoid it. Have no desire to accidentally leave my phone in the bathroom and then find out about it later from the carhops...
11/01/2010
Contributor: Sexymami69 Sexymami69
I love sending, 'love notes' to mi amor, lets him know that he's not the only one thinking about 'dessert'
11/01/2010
Contributor: Waterfall Waterfall
I love doing this to my partners. I also like when they do it to me, makes the wait more fun
11/01/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Joie de Cherresse
I just posted a quick little blog about this... and I'm curious how many of you here do this for your partner...

Every one of us has our own little ways to keep our lovers connected to us throughout the day... How do you do it? Do you ... more
I can't exactly do that as my husband's work phone texts are for company use but I can and do send him sizzling IMs and stories and stuff
11/01/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I probably would if we both had cell phones but for now he is the only one with the phone and when I call him at work he doesn't always answer so my attempts at making sexy phone calls have hardly ever worked...
11/01/2010
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
Quote:
Originally posted by Naughty Student
I probably would if we both had cell phones but for now he is the only one with the phone and when I call him at work he doesn't always answer so my attempts at making sexy phone calls have hardly ever worked...
You can send texts from your provider's website.
11/01/2010
Contributor: Blinker Blinker
I love doing this but he's in China and I think it'd just drive us both batshit, not being able to have each other for 9 more months. I already have a hand cramp from last night's solo activities...he probably has carpal tunnel by now...
11/01/2010
Contributor: Viktor Vysheslav Malkin Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
Quote:
Originally posted by Joie de Cherresse
I just posted a quick little blog about this... and I'm curious how many of you here do this for your partner...

Every one of us has our own little ways to keep our lovers connected to us throughout the day... How do you do it? Do you ... more
I wouldn't do this cause, what if somehow her boss, dad, mother, brother,sister, or some one else just happened to pick up her phone and it said something like "I want to bend you over fuck you in the ass, oh and I want to fuck your boss, dad, mother, brother,sister, or some one else just happened to pick up your phone"
11/01/2010
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
Quote:
Originally posted by Blinker
I love doing this but he's in China and I think it'd just drive us both batshit, not being able to have each other for 9 more months. I already have a hand cramp from last night's solo activities...he probably has carpal tunnel by now...
HA HA!! You poor things!!
11/01/2010
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
Quote:
Originally posted by Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
I wouldn't do this cause, what if somehow her boss, dad, mother, brother,sister, or some one else just happened to pick up her phone and it said something like "I want to bend you over fuck you in the ass, oh and I want to fuck your boss, ... more
Well, no one checks his phone but him... And even if they did, we're married so it really doesn't matter what any one thinks about what we talk about, lol... Besides, why would it matter that someone knew you loved each other and wanted each other?

And I'm not only talking about things as hard as "I wanna fuck you in the ass", lol... I'm also talking about romantic things, like "I can't wait to feel your arms holding me tight..." or "I can't wait to wrap my legs around your body as you bring me to ecstacy tonight..." Things like that...
11/01/2010
Contributor: Bunnycups Bunnycups
Quote:
Originally posted by Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
I wouldn't do this cause, what if somehow her boss, dad, mother, brother,sister, or some one else just happened to pick up her phone and it said something like "I want to bend you over fuck you in the ass, oh and I want to fuck your boss, ... more
hahaha! Oh my goodness, I never thought of that. Thankfully that hasn't happened to me. I hope it never does.
11/01/2010
Contributor: Sir Sir
It's not particularly to "spice" anything up - I do it so that she does become wet and so that she's reminded of what belongs to me, and that I can take it whenever I damn well please. She sometimes does it to me too, though, while I'm at work, which pisses me off. HAHA! Not the most fun thing, to get an erection when you're with your students...

Regardless, I do not feel that it lets us connect any better than we do. Our sex life is excellent, for the most part. Lately, it hasn't been very active since we've both been so busy with work and me with my classes, but our bond's been very strong. It's very good, actually.
11/01/2010
Contributor: Pandahb Pandahb
Quote:
Originally posted by Sir
It's not particularly to "spice" anything up - I do it so that she does become wet and so that she's reminded of what belongs to me, and that I can take it whenever I damn well please. She sometimes does it to me too, though, while ... more
Wow I just had a flash of a teacher who gets an unwanted erection and a student stays after "to get a better grade". Dirty mind, dirty mind!

Anyways, I do text my my partner to get some blood flowing.
11/01/2010
Contributor: lamira lamira
I love to send my partner texts and pictures during the day. The other day while he was at work, I sent him a picture of me masturbating. He always loves my texts.
11/01/2010
Contributor: Blinker Blinker
Quote:
Originally posted by Sir
It's not particularly to "spice" anything up - I do it so that she does become wet and so that she's reminded of what belongs to me, and that I can take it whenever I damn well please. She sometimes does it to me too, though, while ... more
This is just hot.
11/02/2010
Contributor: Alicia Alicia
Sometimes we do, but we are usually around each other all day so we can just find each other and tease in person.
11/02/2010
Contributor: Jenn (aka kissmykitty) Jenn (aka kissmykitty)
(EdenFantasys)
Quote:
Originally posted by Joie de Cherresse
I just posted a quick little blog about this... and I'm curious how many of you here do this for your partner...

Every one of us has our own little ways to keep our lovers connected to us throughout the day... How do you do it? Do you ... more
Suggestive text messages, naughty emails, dirty photos... oh heck yeah. It's fun to get him all worked up while he is at work or I'm out, and then when we do connect... BAM... it's amazing.
11/02/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
I do this when I feel like it, I love being a tease though. He just growls at me and then wrinkles his nose and promises to get me back haha.
11/02/2010
Contributor: kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
Quote:
Originally posted by Joie de Cherresse
I just posted a quick little blog about this... and I'm curious how many of you here do this for your partner...

Every one of us has our own little ways to keep our lovers connected to us throughout the day... How do you do it? Do you ... more
ya I lean over at work once in a while like I"m telling him a secret and say something sexy or dirty..sometimes its just something like do you want to get laid or my boobs are sore will yoy massage them lol or someties I guess I get a certain look that makes him want me right then
11/02/2010
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
Quote:
Originally posted by Sir
It's not particularly to "spice" anything up - I do it so that she does become wet and so that she's reminded of what belongs to me, and that I can take it whenever I damn well please. She sometimes does it to me too, though, while ... more
I love the way you think!! That's exactly how my husband explained his thoughts about it too! And that in itself is what made me fall in love with him from the very beginning of our relationship!! LMAO!!!
11/02/2010
Contributor: Hannah Savage Hannah Savage
I love doing this, but unfortunately I don't any more.
11/02/2010
Contributor: joja joja
Since we're in a long-distance relationship, this kind of communication is pretty much a necessity. I picked "occasionally" just because they're usually not all that sexual, just lovetexts and little snippets about our day.
11/03/2010
Contributor: mnc5051 mnc5051
when i have time for my cell i enjoy this
11/04/2010
Contributor: Sera Sera
Quote:
Originally posted by Joie de Cherresse
I just posted a quick little blog about this... and I'm curious how many of you here do this for your partner...

Every one of us has our own little ways to keep our lovers connected to us throughout the day... How do you do it? Do you ... more
I love doing that! It really gets him when I send him pictures of girls in lingerie, too, because he loves using his imagination to picture me in them.
11/06/2010
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I used to do this more often but not over the past year. Since it gets my wife in the mood and we usually can't do anything about it, I think she gets angry that we can't have sex right away due to different work schedules. I know she has plenty of toys in her toy box, but those don't cut it for her much anymore so I try to avoid teasing her during the day unless I know I can deliver when I get home at night. ;-)
11/13/2010
Contributor: Trashley Trashley
Uhh, has anyone here ever listened to that Dead Prez song of the same name..?
11/13/2010