So me and my husband about a year ago invited another female into our bed room. We searched for months until we found someone interested in us as much as we were in her. I am bisexual I guess I would say. Every so often I get the urge to be with another woman and it was my idea to invite her over for the night. It was aquward because it was the first time me and my husband had done something like this. Afterward we had major issues. I was extreamly jelous. It took us a while to get back to were our relationship was before.
Now I feel like I want another girl to join us again and he agrees that he wants this too. I just don't know how to keep from almost ruining our relationship again. If it were to happen I explained to him I wouldn't want it to be at our house so that she doesn't know were we live and that he shouldn't text her, just let me handle it. At the same time I would love for him to find someone and surprise me.I just don't know if I could handle that.
So does anyone have any advice for me about how to go about this were everyone is comfurtable, there's no jelousy and everyone leaves satisfied?
Now I feel like I want another girl to join us again and he agrees that he wants this too. I just don't know how to keep from almost ruining our relationship again. If it were to happen I explained to him I wouldn't want it to be at our house so that she doesn't know were we live and that he shouldn't text her, just let me handle it. At the same time I would love for him to find someone and surprise me.I just don't know if I could handle that.
So does anyone have any advice for me about how to go about this were everyone is comfurtable, there's no jelousy and everyone leaves satisfied?