Aside from reliable, safe and rewarding sex The comfort of knowing and trusting my spouse to take care of me (and me her) in sickness and in health is what I value. The trust of never having to question someones motives - if something bad happens - I know it was done to hurt me, we can just talk it over, learn from the experience and move on.

Its kinda hard to explain. Every answer is different. It always depends on the person, you could marry the most perfect person in the world and it could end in disaster. After 4 years of being with my wife, im at a lost of words. I do beleive its the greatest choice i have ever made, and i would never regret it. I act the same way with or without her, and she does the same. Just make sure, that before you make such a great step, be sure you have that spark with that other person. Love is a word, Feelings are power.