Do you ever feel tempted towards other people even while being married?
Temptation and Marriage
06/30/2012
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Yes I do but we have allowed this in our marriage. I have partners that love to hear when I am attracted to someone else. Tempted? Not so much because it's not forbidden, I guess?
Originally posted by
Bittenflame
Do you ever feel tempted towards other people even while being married?
07/01/2012
While my partner and I aren't married (not legal yet, boo), we're in an open relationship, so I don't see this being an issue.
But even if you're in monogamous relationship, it's okay to be attracted to other people. That's what sexual beings do. No shame.
But even if you're in monogamous relationship, it's okay to be attracted to other people. That's what sexual beings do. No shame.
07/01/2012
I've never been tempted. I've been blessed with a very sexy man who keeps my eyes glued to him!
07/01/2012
We're all human, I've been married 9 years and can recognize a great looking man but it's just that he's attractive doesn't mean I'd do anything about it.
07/01/2012
I was all the time while married, but the marriage was celibate and had other numerous problems. Only once did I try acting on it ... and the ex-husband was so in tune to watching for it that he stopped me before anything happened. He still had the nerve to be surprised. -_-
07/01/2012
Honestly, I could be in a room of shirtless men flirting with me and not even notice a thing. I'm not even kidding, he's all I think about and all I see. I guess just knowing that no man could EVER make me feel the way he does is why. It isn't intentional, and it hasn't happened with anyone previously which was fine since I used to be in a poly-relationship with others, but somehow, I just can't seem to see any other guy.
07/01/2012
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I have been married 4years and like unfulfilled said I can recognize an attractive person but im not tempted
Originally posted by
unfulfilled
We're all human, I've been married 9 years and can recognize a great looking man but it's just that he's attractive doesn't mean I'd do anything about it.
07/01/2012
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Same here.
Originally posted by
Airen Wolf
Yes I do but we have allowed this in our marriage. I have partners that love to hear when I am attracted to someone else. Tempted? Not so much because it's not forbidden, I guess?
07/01/2012
It's only human to look.
07/01/2012
I need an "other" option. I'm bi and married to a male. Other males hold no attraction for me at all. When I met my husband, I stopped noticing guys. I can rarely even say "I guess he's attractive" because I just don't look for that. Girls, on the other hand, are a big temptation for me. I'm picky about what I find attractive, but when I see a pretty girl I can't help but look.
07/01/2012
We both know each other looks, and are completely ok with that.
07/01/2012
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Congrats to those that aren't but even with my partner, I am attracted/tempted sometimes. I just don't act on it.
Originally posted by
Bittenflame
Do you ever feel tempted towards other people even while being married?
07/01/2012
Notice that other people are charming or attractive? Yes. Tempted to stray from the hubby? Nope.
07/01/2012
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We're human. We all do
Originally posted by
Bittenflame
Do you ever feel tempted towards other people even while being married?
07/01/2012
I was never 100% faithful to anyone I was with, until I met my husband. I would never dream of hurting him, and quite honestly, I don't notice other men much. I watch porn, but that's as far as it goes with looking at men for me. And really I am just looking at their "package" and could care less what they look like.
07/02/2012
tempted to cheat or just look? i check people out all the time
07/03/2012
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I agree. Its not forbidden here. I know he is attracted to others, and don't mind hearing it and vice versa.
Originally posted by
Airen Wolf
Yes I do but we have allowed this in our marriage. I have partners that love to hear when I am attracted to someone else. Tempted? Not so much because it's not forbidden, I guess?
07/04/2012
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No, but thats because my husband does things and keeps the features that i like prominent, so never a need to look elsewhere.
Originally posted by
Bittenflame
Do you ever feel tempted towards other people even while being married?
07/06/2012
Whenever I have eyes for other people, it's usually because my wife pointed them out :p
07/06/2012
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Originally posted by
Bittenflame
Do you ever feel tempted towards other people even while being married?
07/12/2012
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Sometimes there is just a natural attraction to another person, nothing really intentional.
Originally posted by
Bittenflame
Do you ever feel tempted towards other people even while being married?
07/19/2012
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Of course a beautiful girl my seem "tempting" but I have too much respect for my spouse and too much invested in an amazing relationship...which leaves NOTHING sexual, sensual or otherwise, to be desired, to have more then a fleeting, hormone induced thought. I would NEVER and have NEVER been tempted beyond that, either.
Originally posted by
Bittenflame
Do you ever feel tempted towards other people even while being married?
08/04/2012
Of course you'll be tempested to think about someone else, but the most important thing is to not put yourself in a situation where you might act on it.
08/04/2012
I think it is normal human behavior to have that feeling...but thinking and acting are two different things!! My fiance joke about my "tv boyfriend" as he calls him because I find a certain tv star attractive (my fiance has been told he looks like him though lol).
08/09/2012
Just looking is human, cheating is not ok.
09/04/2012
I would not be with my husband if I had eyes for someone other than him.
09/05/2012
One day poly will be mine
09/09/2012
I can appreciate as nice looking man, however would I be tempted? NOPE. I have an amazing husband!
09/09/2012
Tempted in a fantasy sort of way, yes. But we've both given each other the open option to dabble with others (we always talk about these things) and neither of us has acted on it yet. Some things are so much hotter in fantasies than reality.
09/09/2012
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