I have a question? My husband has stated that he would like to add an extra person to our fantasies! I was totally shocked! He stated he doesn't care if it is one person or a couple! I have never done anything like this do I need your help on telling me how when and how to get started and any advice you could give on completing his fantasy! I have never been with a female before so I don't know what or how to do what I need to do!
Adding a person
09/07/2015
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The wife and I have talked about doing this in the past. It was before we were married. However, I had pushed for having another guy. I get turned on by the idea of everything being for her pleasure. We did attempt with a friend of ours, but he was unaware of out intentions. She was successful in turning him on. Ended with us having sex in another room. He could see her and she watched him masturbate. He could see her from the waist up with nothing on top. She did say that she enjoyed being watched during that time. We never did go through, but do simulate it with toys (thank you Eden). Maybe try with toys first to simulate an encounter and see where things go from there. Just make sure that both of you have any jealousy issues resolved prior. Also both need to have equal say in who is picked to join.
Originally posted by
Ky beauty
I have a question? My husband has stated that he would like to add an extra person to our fantasies! I was totally shocked! He stated he doesn't care if it is one person or a couple! I have never done anything like this do I need your help on
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I have a question? My husband has stated that he would like to add an extra person to our fantasies! I was totally shocked! He stated he doesn't care if it is one person or a couple! I have never done anything like this do I need your help on telling me how when and how to get started and any advice you could give on completing his fantasy! I have never been with a female before so I don't know what or how to do what I need to do!
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02/02/2016
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I agree definitely resolving any jealousy issues from the start, constantly checking in during the act, and having equal say in who is picked is likely crucial. I have no experience with this personally, but these are all solid recommendations I've seen on multiple boards, sites, etc.
Originally posted by
gehuwd
The wife and I have talked about doing this in the past. It was before we were married. However, I had pushed for having another guy. I get turned on by the idea of everything being for her pleasure. We did attempt with a friend of ours, but he was
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The wife and I have talked about doing this in the past. It was before we were married. However, I had pushed for having another guy. I get turned on by the idea of everything being for her pleasure. We did attempt with a friend of ours, but he was unaware of out intentions. She was successful in turning him on. Ended with us having sex in another room. He could see her and she watched him masturbate. He could see her from the waist up with nothing on top. She did say that she enjoyed being watched during that time. We never did go through, but do simulate it with toys (thank you Eden). Maybe try with toys first to simulate an encounter and see where things go from there. Just make sure that both of you have any jealousy issues resolved prior. Also both need to have equal say in who is picked to join.
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I also primarily live for my partner's pleasure during sex, and if this was enhanced by another in the bedroom... I'd be open to it. I've discussed this with my girlfriend as it comes up in threads on here in other contexts but I know she has no interest in having another guy in the bedroom and she's expressed no interest in exploring another woman's body so likely we will have no need to worry about this on my end.
06/11/2016
You guys are gonna think I'm bat sh!t, but this is why I wish sometimes that I could clone myself only when needed. This way we could have some fun in all manner of positions and there would be no jealousy involved. I mean we might fight among ourselves/myself (I'm not sure which one to use since its all me) over who gets to lick certain "hot spots" but I'm sure we could reach a resolution that satisfies all involved rather quickly. Then once done, I could just re absorb my various selves. How cool would that be?!
06/11/2016
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Omg, you did it!!! You actually created my new ultimate fantasy. Please get to work on this quickly, turning it into a reality Ooooo, the day I can clone my husband for bedroom fun, I'm going to need a weeks vacation!!!!
Originally posted by
Inquisitor
You guys are gonna think I'm bat sh!t, but this is why I wish sometimes that I could clone myself only when needed. This way we could have some fun in all manner of positions and there would be no jealousy involved. I mean we might fight among
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You guys are gonna think I'm bat sh!t, but this is why I wish sometimes that I could clone myself only when needed. This way we could have some fun in all manner of positions and there would be no jealousy involved. I mean we might fight among ourselves/myself (I'm not sure which one to use since its all me) over who gets to lick certain "hot spots" but I'm sure we could reach a resolution that satisfies all involved rather quickly. Then once done, I could just re absorb my various selves. How cool would that be?!
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06/12/2016
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What you're really wanting is basically a multi-person avatar... if we get to the point we can upload our brains to computers it might be possible that we can distribute our consciousness across multiple artificial avatars of ourself... mind you we might go crazy vs enjoying the multi perspective/user enjoyment of satisfying our partner. I've seen some reports that indicate that the technology might be there to do this in the next 20-30 years.
Originally posted by
Vnessa
Omg, you did it!!! You actually created my new ultimate fantasy. Please get to work on this quickly, turning it into a reality Ooooo, the day I can clone my husband for bedroom fun, I'm going to need a weeks vacation!!!!
06/12/2016
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