Who is more sexually adventurous in your relationship?

Contributor: Livia Drew Livia Drew
I often wonder about who's pushing sexual limits more out there in terms of gender. Who is more sexually adventurous in your relationship?

(If your gender or sexual identity/lifestyle isn't accounted for here, please select "Other" and write in the comments. I didn't have any more time to write multiple choice options but would love to hear from you!)
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Livia Drew , Vnessa , Rossie , BlackOrchid , Lvstoplay , lala22 , Mrs.M2008 , wist , DancerKittyKat , Lena Eden , La Bachatera
11  (28%)
Ahleesun , Stellar
2  (5%)
Moxy4you , Kinkykat8
2  (5%)
Raymaker
1  (2%)
Inquisitor , OH&W, Lovebears , Gunsmoke , C&K0143 , konicaguy , TheToyGuy , Brandon , V man , Devz , Mallorys , MrClark , whenitallfails , SoloRebel , adam7274 , Mr.Pitt , merc41 , Soundside46 , Daddy Darrell , CharmCity
19  (48%)
RonLee
1  (2%)
Andykh , LovingIt , Swing Curious
3  (8%)
Honeymuffin33
1  (2%)
Total votes: 40
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Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
We are both sexually adventurous, however, I do all the planning and research. I also pick the venue and work out all the logistics regarding the activities that take place.

I feel that I am the more adventurous partner because I do the homework that makes it possible to engage in the activities.
03/22/2015
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
For 25 years I've led the way in our relationship. I'm very lucky to have a partner willing to try all the crazy stuff I dream up. I'm working hard to increase her adventurous streak, it's actually working - but slowly, it's a process!
04/08/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
For 25 years I've led the way in our relationship. I'm very lucky to have a partner willing to try all the crazy stuff I dream up. I'm working hard to increase her adventurous streak, it's actually working - but slowly, it's a process!
I know what you mean Gunsmoke. I am doing the same thing with my partner.
04/09/2015
Contributor: gagehale gagehale
currently i am but my wife is slowly catching up.
08/07/2015
Contributor: Raymaker Raymaker
Voted myself in as a woman because whatever, but truthfully that poll isn't very inclusive of nonbinary people so *shrug*. We're both pretty adventurous.
08/28/2015
Contributor: Honeymuffin33 Honeymuffin33
I identify as genderfluid and am more sexual adventurous than my hubby. Though it is because I'm able to "seal the deal" I guess in terms of hooking up with people.

He has the charisma to hook up with people but is unable to get with people. On the other hand I have the charisma of a box turtle but I'm able to get with people pretty quick. It really makes no sense. If we combined we'd be the ultimate sex magnet haha.
10/22/2015
Contributor: Mallorys Mallorys
My wife's parents didn't teach her or talk to her about sex at all! I grew up talking about sex at the dinner table with my grandma and everyone around. Needless to say I have pushed the whole time but after 10 years she is coming around quick and I think she has some tricks up her sleeve. We shall see
01/16/2017
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
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Originally posted by Mallorys
My wife's parents didn't teach her or talk to her about sex at all! I grew up talking about sex at the dinner table with my grandma and everyone around. Needless to say I have pushed the whole time but after 10 years she is coming around ... more
Patience and love do wonders
Your wife should be happy of having a husband like you.

I had a similar experience with my boyfriend, only vice versa. Luckily, we're very close emotionally, so talking and feeling each other helps us get to new heights in sex.
01/17/2017
Contributor: Moxy4you Moxy4you
We are equally adventurous in the end, someway, somehow! My guy has all the imagination in the world, which I lack . But lucky for him, I am the type of girl that listens to his fantasies and figures out how to make them happen for both of us. Often times, I'm the one with the guts, while he is providing the story line, however, we trade and it morphs constantly. We are both Hedonists that are forever trying to improve in our quest for Nirvana! I like to think it works out great for both of us!
01/19/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
I like to say, I'm more adventurous. Think it's that way because in our younger days, she was busy with the kids while I was still late at work. However whenever she gets in the mood, I couldn't keep up. And still can't.
01/19/2017
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Moxy4you
We are equally adventurous in the end, someway, somehow! My guy has all the imagination in the world, which I lack . But lucky for him, I am the type of girl that listens to his fantasies and figures out how to make them happen for both of us. ... more
That's awesome - my wife is a lot like you. The openness to new ideas is vital for both of us
01/31/2017
Contributor: Swing Curious Swing Curious
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Originally posted by Livia Drew
I often wonder about who's pushing sexual limits more out there in terms of gender. Who is more sexually adventurous in your relationship?

(If your gender or sexual identity/lifestyle isn't accounted for here, please select ... more
We're pretty much equal in the adventure department. And we like it...

Adventure Gear


Adventure Gear 2
02/08/2017
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
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Originally posted by Swing Curious
We're pretty much equal in the adventure department. And we like it...




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What a nice collection! Which item is your favorite there?
02/09/2017
Contributor: Swing Curious Swing Curious
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Originally posted by Lena Eden
What a nice collection! Which item is your favorite there?
Her fave is the Soraya. I/we enjoy playing with a lineup of Liv 2, Gigi 2, Soraya and Elise 2 with some intermittent tongue and cock penetration throughout. "Multiple O's" for her is an understatement. Swing, pillows and a blindfold ratchet things up even higher.

We joke that if our house would catch fire, we'd save our toy collection first. Our next investment will most likely be a bigger outlet strip.
02/09/2017
Contributor: adam7274 adam7274
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Originally posted by Swing Curious
We're pretty much equal in the adventure department. And we like it...




... more
Looks like a great place to spend the weekend
02/17/2018
Contributor: adam7274 adam7274
I am the more adventurous of us. I like to use toys and experiment more than her.
02/17/2018
Contributor: frisky069 frisky069
Quote:
Originally posted by Livia Drew
I often wonder about who's pushing sexual limits more out there in terms of gender. Who is more sexually adventurous in your relationship?

(If your gender or sexual identity/lifestyle isn't accounted for here, please select ... more
I'm way more sexually adventurous than my husband.
11/19/2019
Contributor: Bailed Bailed
My fiancee is far more sexually adventurous than I am. She loves everything about sex.
12/30/2019