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Contributor: Yesenia Yesenia
What turns you on the most about a women?
A sweet smile with nice lips?
Nice Breast small or Medium ?
Thick thighs with a nice butt?
What is it that gets you?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Nice Lips
56
Nice Breast
119
Thick thights
45
Total votes: 220 (163 voters)
Poll is closed
06/04/2010
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Contributor: fungo fungo
Quote:
Originally posted by Yesenia
What turns you on the most about a women?
A sweet smile with nice lips?
Nice Breast small or Medium ?
Thick thighs with a nice butt?
What is it that gets you?
Nothing turns me on more than confidence, actually.
06/04/2010
Contributor: shepegsME shepegsME
Confidence and dominance
06/04/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
I always hear confidence, but I'm so shy. I wanna be more confident with my boyfriend, but... BLAH. I do have big breasts though and a pretty smile.. lol
06/04/2010
Contributor: shepegsME shepegsME
Quote:
Originally posted by Illusional
I always hear confidence, but I'm so shy. I wanna be more confident with my boyfriend, but... BLAH. I do have big breasts though and a pretty smile.. lol
Confidence is a big plus. It's how you project it.
06/04/2010
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
I love smart lithe women, like my current s/o.

Big breasts are actually a turn off for me because of one thought: "I'll be giving her back/shoulder rubs forever!".

I'm very much a vajayjay guy. I love going down.
06/04/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
The list of options doesn't cover the many possibilities.

I hear a lot about confidence - and agree. But I also think a sense of adventure and a willingness to try new things are awesome. This is where I think the more mature lover can have an advantage over some younger women - at least in my generation. Admittedly, many young women today are more adventurous than their mothers may have been.

On the physical side it's how a woman cares for herself and makes the best use of what they have that counts.
06/04/2010
Contributor: Yesenia Yesenia
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
The list of options doesn't cover the many possibilities.

I hear a lot about confidence - and agree. But I also think a sense of adventure and a willingness to try new things are awesome. This is where I think the more mature lover can ... more
How a woman cares for herself and makes the best use of what they have that counts.
Also a willingness to be adventures Reply
I agree with you
06/04/2010
Contributor: fungo fungo
I agree completely with regard to adventurousness and carrying herself well. I think both of those are the result of (or at least helped enormously by) confidence.
06/04/2010
Contributor: deceased deceased
Hygeine and physical fitness and mental health,I hate needy insecure people. Breast don't turn me on, they are just bags of glands and fat meant to feed babies. I prefer women without much breast tissue. Material people turn me off. Brilliant women turn me on.
06/05/2010
Contributor: Miss Cinnamon Miss Cinnamon
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
I love smart lithe women, like my current s/o.

Big breasts are actually a turn off for me because of one thought: "I'll be giving her back/shoulder rubs forever!".

I'm very much a vajayjay guy. I love going down.
Thanks honey

The only options given here are physical attributes. While I do appreciate healthy individuals (no particular size or shape as long as they aren't putting their body in danger of extremes), the most important things to me in both men and women is their attitude towards life, others, and themselves.
06/06/2010
Contributor: Fun Lover Fun Lover
Quote:
Originally posted by Miss Cinnamon
Thanks honey

The only options given here are physical attributes. While I do appreciate healthy individuals (no particular size or shape as long as they aren't putting their body in danger of extremes), the most important things to me in ... more
All of the above. If they will let you watch when they play with themselves.
06/06/2010
Contributor: Jill Ingoff Jill Ingoff
I'm a (mostly straight?) woman and I didn't vote. I'm attracted to women with an hourglass shape and confidence
06/07/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I find women sexy if they are confident and love themselves as they are. I find women sexy no matter what shape she has as long as she is confident and loves herself and knows how to flaunt it.
06/07/2010
Contributor: jerry jerry
Quote:
Originally posted by Yesenia
What turns you on the most about a women?
A sweet smile with nice lips?
Nice Breast small or Medium ?
Thick thighs with a nice butt?
What is it that gets you?
personalty, shape, movements, and smile, smell perfume.
06/08/2010
Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
Lots of things about women turn me on but the main one?

The way she moves.
06/10/2010
Contributor: spiced spiced
Not sure why thighs/butt had to be grouped together. For me, it's BUTT all the way.

I'm mean, since it's strictly physical.

Although, come to think of it, the best butts have some serious ATTITUDE!
06/11/2010
Contributor: TechyDad TechyDad
If going by strictly physical attributes, I'd say breasts. Of course, you could put a "physically perfect" woman in front of me and I wouldn't find her attractive if she didn't have some intelligence and a good personality.

When my wife and I met (online), we got to know each other's personalities before we got to see each other in person. I knew I liked her before I ever laid eyes on her (not counting photos). Seeing her in person and being attracted to her physically was just icing on the cake.
06/13/2010
Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
Confidence, playfulness, and genuine personality.

Honestly body type and physical features factor into things later. My partner makes fun of me because I find so many celebrity "hot" women just "okay" because looks alone just don't do much for me.
07/13/2010
Contributor: Sensual husband Sensual husband
If she is confident. That is so sexy and such a turn on for me.
07/13/2010
Contributor: Evoluchun Evoluchun
there is something sensuous about a woman from the way she wears her hair, her luscious lips, beautiful smile, nice breast... now take it she has all these of course ha ha
08/21/2010
Contributor: Mari Fanger Mari Fanger
everything, women are just the essence of sexy
08/22/2010
Contributor: Riccio Riccio
She smiled at me, and I fell in love at first sight because of her eyes and smile. She is amazing, funny, smart, beautiful and ... (he smiles silently in a cryptic, slightly sexy fashion). I have never been so happy in all of my 60+ years.
08/23/2010
Contributor: RadRach RadRach
Really these are the only choices? Wow..... I guess being a lesbian i just think of so many more possibilities <3
09/18/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Yesenia
What turns you on the most about a women?
A sweet smile with nice lips?
Nice Breast small or Medium ?
Thick thighs with a nice butt?
What is it that gets you?
Hmmmm of the three I like a woman who has nice breasts but they need to be proportional to her body. I like a woman with a nice butt but if she has a sweet smile and her eyes light up when she sees me? mmmmmmm I do like that. I also like a woman who has a bit of mischief in her eyes.

Now Sigel likes a nice smile, and beautifully shaped proportional legs. He's all about the legs and butt. He couldn't care less if she has breasts LOL

Arch is all about the nice strong thighs, well turned calves and large well formed feet. A nice smile and a good pair of breasts are a bonus but if she has feet he likes her!
09/18/2010
Contributor: D-the man D-the man
Quote:
Originally posted by Naughty Student
I find women sexy if they are confident and love themselves as they are. I find women sexy no matter what shape she has as long as she is confident and loves herself and knows how to flaunt it.
What I find attractive is open-mindedness, truthfulness, maturity, adventurousness, a nice face and a nice body
09/18/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
i cant seem to make up my mind...everything!! were such gorgeous creature. every last curve on our bodies are beautiful
09/18/2010
Contributor: Madeira Madeira
For me, it depends on the woman, I find a lot of different sorts of women attractive, and don't really tend to fixate on a specific feature. I love breasts of all sizes, asses from apple to pancake, bodies from hour-glass to (healthy) bean pole, and so on. I do love a great set of legs, and obviously a pretty face does a lot, I suppose I really really go for high cheekbones...
09/18/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by RadRach
Really these are the only choices? Wow..... I guess being a lesbian i just think of so many more possibilities <3
OK - I've got to ask - what is the meaning of <3 ?
09/18/2010
Contributor: Viktor Vysheslav Malkin Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
Gotta say the butt! Love em'.
09/19/2010