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Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
Voyeur Sex... Watching others? Or being watched? Have any of you ever noticed or suspected that a couple was getting busy in a car in a parking lot? Thought you saw a couple getting some action going in a park? Maybe noticed some hanky-panky under the table in a bar? Heard moans of passion and looked for the source?
Or... Have you ever been the person in the car? Getting or giving some back seat oral? Or maybe getting a nooner or quickie in a mad passionate fuck? Felt the need to do it in the park after dark? Or maybe some bump n grind in the club under the table or in the bathroom?

If any of these are you did you ever try to sneak a peek? Or discretely watch the action? Or maybe pull up a chair and obviously watch the show? If it was you have you ever had the feeling maybe someone was onto you? Watching you getting busy but you couldn't tell for sure? Did you stop and leave? Or did you keep the show rolling?

I think many of us would like to watch others doing naughty things... I also think a good many of us would secretly like to be watched without knowing for sure that we were... Tell me your thoughts guys n gals! I would love to hear!
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I have no interest in seeing others doing anything naughty anywhere...
8
I have suspected that I saw someone getting busy in a car and immediately drove away
I have suspected that I saw someone getting busy in a car and kept looking to see if I could see anything fun going on for sure
13
I saw people obviously getting it on (Oral or all the way) and stuck around for the show.
11
I saw people obviously getting it on and got the hell out of there!
2
I saw some action going on in a park, club, bar, Etc. and got up and left.
I saw some action going on in a park, club, bar, Etc. and tried to watch without being noticed
12
I have been the one doing it when I suspected someone might be watching so I stopped
1
I have been the one doing it when I know someone noticed and was watching so I stopped
4
I have been the one doing it and kept doing it even though I thought or knew someone was watching me
8
I am male
19
I am female
38
I find voyeur and exhibitionism to be a turn on
46
I find voyeur and exhibitionism to be a TURN OFF - Keep it at home folks!
4
Other (Of Course) Please Please share your thoughts, ideas and stories! And as always have an awesome, sexy and fantastic week!!!
9
Total votes: 175 (62 voters)
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Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
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Originally posted by CreamySweet
Voyeur Sex... Watching others? Or being watched? Have any of you ever noticed or suspected that a couple was getting busy in a car in a parking lot? Thought you saw a couple getting some action going in a park? Maybe noticed some hanky-panky under ... more
This poll was out of general curiosity on my part. We are on the road a lot so we actually see stuff going on a lot more then when we ever realized that it did. We also contribute to the show probably once or twice a week so I was just curious how this plays out for the rest of you EF folks. For us its fun to think we saw something, or to sit and watch discretely when we have some extra time. Quite often catching others leads to our clothes coming of to some degree and has prompted quite a few BJ's, pussy devouring sessions or all out crazy car fucking. For me the biggest turn on with being seen is the "Maybe someone is watching" not the "Someone is obviously watching" part.

Quick story... Last week we were parked about half a block from a bar/club in town. I was naked in the middle seat of my SUV and getting a good dose of oral from my husband. He had just slipped his cock inside me when I noticed a couple walking past the front of my vehicle. They couldn't see in but as he started to pump me my ride rocked side to side with enough movement that the female noticed and paused to look. They still couldn't see in (Limo tint) but they stopped about ten feet away by a tree and kept watching while we fucked and the car shook. Caught...But not... Very hot
10/16/2011
Contributor: Ghost Ghost
I can definitely be a voyeur, but I'm not an exhibitionist.
10/17/2011
Contributor: MissStormRyder MissStormRyder
There are times I like to watch and be watched but it's not like something I go out of my way to make happen...It's more of a situation thing for me...I used to love to watch..or even just listen to my ex-roommate having sex...OMG...the sounds she would make and the way she moved...really made me soooooo hot and wet.
Then on the other side I have have sex while in a booth at a club while everyone around us talked...danced...watc hed....It was crazy and exciting...would I do it again??
10/17/2011
Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
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Originally posted by CreamySweet
Voyeur Sex... Watching others? Or being watched? Have any of you ever noticed or suspected that a couple was getting busy in a car in a parking lot? Thought you saw a couple getting some action going in a park? Maybe noticed some hanky-panky under ... more
So far about what I was expecting... but a little quiet on the stories Thanks all for voting! XOX CS
10/18/2011
Contributor: js250 js250
My husband and I like to watch and be watched. So far it has been internet camming and anonymous-I wear a mask! but oh, so much fun. We have talked about having someone masturbate for us while we do our thing-in person-but nothing has come of this yet.
10/18/2011
Contributor: Froggy Froggy
My first BDSM experience was at a club, and people stopped to watch. I loved it!!
10/18/2011
Contributor: averageguyextrodinarypleasure averageguyextrodinarypleasure
If the people being watched were ok with it I might sneak a peak
10/18/2011
Contributor: big b big b
me too i'll take a peak
10/18/2011
Contributor: MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
Def worth a peek...hot!
12/02/2011
Contributor: Collogue Collogue
Quote:
Originally posted by CreamySweet
Voyeur Sex... Watching others? Or being watched? Have any of you ever noticed or suspected that a couple was getting busy in a car in a parking lot? Thought you saw a couple getting some action going in a park? Maybe noticed some hanky-panky under ... more
I accidentally almost walked in on two ladies getting busy and that was awkward.. However, practicing voyeurism in a consensual environment sounds like fun and something I would be interested in, though I wouldn't want to have them see me watching. Maybe wearing a mask? or from a distance?
12/05/2011
Contributor: Cherrylane Cherrylane
I like being seen when I can have some distance between me and whoever is watching. Like if I'm inside in front of a window, room lit at night so someone across the street might be able to see or something. I've moaned topless with my head stuck out a window of a DC hotel bedroom. That was pretty great tbh
12/05/2011
Contributor: jedent jedent
i dunno, kinda hot. why not?
12/05/2011
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
I like watching my partner take showers when they don't "know" I am. (They really know but they pretend not to see me peeking through the door.)
08/17/2012
Contributor: Bex1331 Bex1331
I'd rather be the one being watched, but I'd watch too
08/17/2012
Contributor: HB042 HB042
I'm anti being watched, but boy will I watch!
08/17/2012
Contributor: Ex-prude Ex-prude
neither
08/18/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by CreamySweet
Voyeur Sex... Watching others? Or being watched? Have any of you ever noticed or suspected that a couple was getting busy in a car in a parking lot? Thought you saw a couple getting some action going in a park? Maybe noticed some hanky-panky under ... more
I'm an exhibitionist, not so much a voyeur.
08/19/2012
Contributor: kimandjelly kimandjelly
I love to watch and be watched, and my wife is more into just being watched. Our favorite and most successful way to go about this is on vacation and always leaving our hotel windows open (with the lights on) while we have sex. I know we've been seen more than a few times as we've actually waved at people in the tower across the way. Usually it's just guys watching us, but once we got lucky and saw a couple watching us. They were nice enough to give us a show of our own after we were done.
09/20/2012
Contributor: MidnightStorm MidnightStorm
Last year I had a roommate that was kind of cute whom I wasn't terribly close to--in fact, we lived in separate bedrooms and I really rarely saw her. She frequently had her fiancee over but was VERY respectful about it and I almost never even saw them so much as kiss. I came back one night from doing laundry though and I suppose they thought they'd have a quickie, because I heard them quite clearly when I entered the living room (the bedroom door was closed). I admittedly stayed and listened. I LOVE sounds, so hearing someone is just as good as seeing them for me!

I love it either way though: I'd love to be watched (or listened to, since I have some body image issues) but I also LOVE watching others!
09/22/2012
Contributor: jr2012 jr2012
I am not turned on at all by being the watched. However, if I suspect I can see/hear someone else....I am all over that!! It's not always sexual for me though, I really think it's just strong curiosity.
09/22/2012
Contributor: Alyxx Alyxx
Once my friends and I noticed that the people in a car driving alongside us were having sex. The girl was in the guy's lap as he was speeding down the road. We tried keeping up with them for a while.
09/25/2012
Contributor: Why Not? Why Not?
I have often wanted to be watched but in a more controlled setting like a sauna.
09/26/2012
Contributor: TheHardOne TheHardOne
I find voyeur and exhibitionism to be a turn on
03/27/2013
Contributor: SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
Both voyeurism and exhibitionism is a huge turn on for me. Not only have seen friends either fuck right in front of me or give/receive oral but I have also been the one being watched while sexual activities were going on.
04/13/2013